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ill be on the road tomorro.. and i just wnt to know some serious good ways to block out the rest of the world.... i need a couple of days to myself... i mean.. my heads spinning.. is there anything wrong with just shutting down for a few days.. or is it like non social... (link)
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there is nothing wrong with shutting down for a few days. Thats actually a good idea to do. U should try to do it more often I mean so ur not as confused about stuff.
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This guy that I really like, who likes me too is stationed in Iraq. I am just so worried for him! It scares me knowing he is out there. How can I calm my nerves and not think the worst will happen? (link)
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hang out with friends and do stuff that wont make u think of him.
~*~kendal~*~
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Hi! ummm this is weird asking a stranger for advice but here it goes.. im 19 and ever since i was 12 i have had 2 best friends. steve and tony, they were both the world to me, and in january suddenly they both started to like me, and i was honest with them both i was confused, but i had more feelings for steve, but didnt want to hurt tony, and then suddenly steves lil brother called me one day and told me that steve was dead. steve killed himself. i was devestated. he hung himself on a swing at our fav. park. i was so lost and i cryed so much i couldnt cry nemore. but that was march 1st and in those months to now, i have fallen completely in love with tony, but cant bring myself to be with him in a relationship b/c im not over steve. tony said he cant wait forever and thats understanable but i have so much regret from steve, im so torn, between what i have left and what i could have had. i go to steves grave everyday, i visit his mom all the time, but i chill with tony everyday. tony just got signed to a record label and hes gunna be a huge singer but says he doesnt wanna do it without my support b/c im his best friends and the girl hes in love with, but im haunted by the memory of steve... plz help... anyone plz help, my screen name is yellycutie31 if anyone else can help either... im so torn, and idk what to do... (link)
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Oh hunny im so sorry about ur loss thats really sad. If u have really big feelings for Tony then maybe u could give it a try with him but if its to hard because u still arent over Steve then maybe u cant be with Tony. I dont know what to tell u cuz i have never been through this kind of stuff but if i ever go through something like this then I would either give it a try with the other guy or just stay really close friends with him. Hope i could help and once again im really sorry for ur loss.
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my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me.. (link)
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Well ur friend could be at a point in her life where she needs to have boys in her life like boys that will have sex with her. She shouldnt be doing this because she is young and maybe the boys r just using her for the sex cuz they know how she is. To get her to stop dressing so slutty maybe u could talk to her and if she doesnt listen and keep her promises to u then she isnt a real friend.
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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant? (link)
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No u cant be pregnant cuz if u had unprotected sex a week ago and u got ur period then u cant be pregnant.
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I have crush on this fine guy...lol...and he never seems t really notice me...and we used 2 be friends in 6th grade...so he knows me, but we havnt talked for 2 years and i feel sad...What should i do? (link)
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Well hunny maybe u should go up to him and talk to him and kinda give him an impression that u like him. If he truly feels that u like him maybe he will start to have feelings for u.
~*~kendal~*~
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i've never had a boyfriend, but everytime someone likes me and i feel like they are leading towards asking me out or anything i get really nervous and uncomfortable and i just wish i was out of the situation...i'm hoping it's just because i haven't really liked any of them, but is this normal?? (link)
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its totally normal maybe ur just not ready to have a bf yet.
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what do i do about a controlling boyfriend? my boyfriend is allowed to mess around and talk to girls but im not allowed to talk to guys! i found this so unfair and everyone thinks he has total control over me because when we break up, and he asks me back out, i always say yes. is it because i'm weak or i'm just under his little 'spell'? (link)
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it seems to me that ur boyfriend has u right where he wants u where he can get away with anything but u cant get away with anything at all u should be able to talk to guys without ur boyfriend getting mad next time u guys break up if he asks u back out u should just say no cuz im sure u can get a man that is so much better than him.
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well i kind of like this kid but he really likes my friend. but i really like him. people have said We are such a cute couple and we would be so cute together(and we both kinda agree), and i've heard he has a crush on me but he really strongly likes my friend and i don't wanna tell my friend i like him cause she likes him alot to, but so do i and we flirt alott and i don't know what to do!! plz help!!! (link)
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Well if u like him so much that u cant stop thinkin about him then u need to tell ur friend that u like him alot and if she gets mad at u then she must not understand the feelings u have for him and if u have heard he has a crush on u then he shouldnt be afraid to ask u out to me it seems like he isnt ready to be with just one girl so maybe hes not ready to make a commitment
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what do u do if u like ur EX-girlfriend and u know u cant get her back but yet u cant get over her or stop thinkib bout her?
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If u cant get over ur ex girlfriend then try going out with other girls sooner or later there will be another girl in ur life or if u dont want another girl in ur life then hang out with ur friends more
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I'm 13 and i'm havin a lil bit of guy trouble.Ok there is this really cute guy i know but we havent really seen much of eachother.Well the thing is when i was in 3rd grade i really liked him but then i moved when i was starting 4th so i never got to really talk to him again.Now it's summer '04 and im goin to start 8th.So one night i was stayin at my friend's house and he had told her to call well we were havin too much fun to call him so she gave me his sn and we started talkin to eachother online.It turns out that he liked me in 3rd grade also so he asked me out & i sed ok but then we broke up cuz we weren't sure if it was going to work out.But he always asks me how my love life is so the other day when i asked how his was he sed bad so i just went ahead and asked y is it....he answered cuz i broke up with you.is that really believable????He has also been talkin to one of my other friends and telling her that he likes me and everything but i don't know if he really does or not.I mean i kinda like him since we've been talking to eachother but does he really like me too?plz help. (link)
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Well if hes telling u that is love life is bad cuz he broke up with u and if hes tellin ur friends he likes u then he must really like u. I mean i dont think he would just tell ur friends he likes u if he really doesnt like u.
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ok i met this girl lets call her megan through one of my other friends while i was out of town well we started talkin on the phone and now i have noticed there is kinda a lil connection between us but i have never seen her but like she really likes me and like one of her friends called me up to tell me that she really aproved of me and megan going out and that megan really likes me which to me seems all ok but the thing that worries me is that she is a year younger then me (i am 15) and that all my friends don't really like her atleast the ones that know her they all think she is like a bitch and stuff but i hold my friends opions very close to me cause alot of the time when they tell me somethin it's trueand i may just not be able to see it so do i go with chioce A. meet her then ask her out B. just go ahead now and ask her out without ever seeing her or choice C.just forget about the whole thing
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Well I think u should go with choice A meet her then ask her out.
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I dont know who to believe but some girl keeps telling me things aaron does ((bad things)) like cheating or.. brekaing up with ppl after a week but its been longer than a weekk.. and i duno who to believe i didnt tell aaron about ti he doesnt seem like that kind of person THOO what do I DOOO!!!!!!????
Signed- confused by love (link)
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Well maybe you should try to talk to him about it and see if it's true.
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