Hi! ummm this is weird asking a stranger for advice but here it goes.. im 19 and ever since i was 12 i have had 2 best friends. steve and tony, they were both the world to me, and in january suddenly they both started to like me, and i was honest with them both i was confused, but i had more feelings for steve, but didnt want to hurt tony, and then suddenly steves lil brother called me one day and told me that steve was dead. steve killed himself. i was devestated. he hung himself on a swing at our fav. park. i was so lost and i cryed so much i couldnt cry nemore. but that was march 1st and in those months to now, i have fallen completely in love with tony, but cant bring myself to be with him in a relationship b/c im not over steve. tony said he cant wait forever and thats understanable but i have so much regret from steve, im so torn, between what i have left and what i could have had. i go to steves grave everyday, i visit his mom all the time, but i chill with tony everyday. tony just got signed to a record label and hes gunna be a huge singer but says he doesnt wanna do it without my support b/c im his best friends and the girl hes in love with, but im haunted by the memory of steve... plz help... anyone plz help, my screen name is yellycutie31 if anyone else can help either... im so torn, and idk what to do...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? blueyedchic answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 7:02 pm: Oh hunny im so sorry about ur loss thats really sad. If u have really big feelings for Tony then maybe u could give it a try with him but if its to hard because u still arent over Steve then maybe u cant be with Tony. I dont know what to tell u cuz i have never been through this kind of stuff but if i ever go through something like this then I would either give it a try with the other guy or just stay really close friends with him. Hope i could help and once again im really sorry for ur loss.
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