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E-mail: blond4life18@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 12, 2004
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Last Update: July 30, 2004
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alrite..this is confusing and will sound dumb, but anyways i`ve been going out with my boyfriend for..awhile now and i wanna make out with him but i dont know how to bring it up...i don`t rly see him that much so idk..any ideas? (link)
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I say next time you are going out with him, if the moment is right, just go for it. If you have been together this long, then I am sure he is feeling the same. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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ok. i am 13. and just recently i fell in love for the first time with this guy but then he moved a few months ago to like the opposite side of the U.S.A.! Before he moved we went out like 10 times on and off. I was so in love! and after he moved i was very very heartbroken and I still am. and we still talk on msn messenger and AIM all the time. and we are still really good friends. but for a while he has had a gf. since he has moved he has gone out with a few girls but sadly their relationships didnt last that long and now he is really in love with this girl. And even tho i am happy for him it still hurts me and it kinda seems like he still likes me but i cant be sure. i know i still love him but i told him i didnt bcuz i am really trying to get over him. but i cant tell if he likes me or not! and now he is coming bak here to visit in a few weeks and he said hes going to come to visit me. and i dont know whats going 2 happen!!! bcuz i still really like him and he was my first love and i dunno if he likes me or not ne more...i think he probly doesnt but we have never really hung out as friends cuz we were basically always gf and bf. i dont know what to do!!! Plz help! (link)
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Well of course he is going to get new girlfriends and enter new relationships. You are telling him you don't love him! If you want him to feel the same way that you do, you have to tell him how you feel and be honest about it. Maybe if he knew that you really did love him, he would be more open to telling you the same. Right now, he could be thinking the same thing you are. You told him you don't love him, but he thinks you still do. He might wonder if you are lying or if it is true. Be honest with the boy. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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Well my name Eeyan..I Have a friends name Dily who is a female of 16 and Qayum who is male of 18years old..well Me Myself known Qayum and Dily For a Long time..Three of us known each other very well...
Well Rite Now Me Myself in Love with Dily and Dily also In Love with Me..And Also Qayum In Love With Dily,Dily Also In Love With Qayumm
Da Problems are dis is hard for Dily To choose whether Me o Qayum..Coz She told dat Both of Us are equal..She Likes Everyting bout Me and Everyting Also bout Qayum..Rite now Nuting new came up..Still Duno
Help and Give me a Reasonable advice.thanks (link)
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The three of you should sit down and talk. Don't leave the topic until this issue is solved. Make her understand that she can't just play with the two of you. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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oh will u suck my dick (link)
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Don't be a dick!
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ok well theres this girl that i've been inlove with since like 7th grade now im goin into 11th well we r friends now and we've gone through so much 2gether and we almost went out so many times but something always gets in the way she said she liked me a number of times but shes confused and she said she doesnt want to ruin our friendship she has gone out with 2 of my friends n both times i warned her about them and told her she would get hurt but she wouldnt listen and both times she ended up getting hurt i really like her alot and i would do anything 4 her i've tryed everything and im good friends with all of her friends, we always have fun when we hang out and stuff and she invites me over sometimes 4 dinner and stuff and i hang out with her and her family her mom and everyone loves me but still she wont go out with me what can i do i dont uunderstand why she wont go out with me she even said she liked me im so confused (link)
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First off, tell her exactly what you just said. You need to let her know you will treat her right and that you really care for her. If a guy told me exactly what you just said, I would date him, given that we were good friends. You just need to let her know how strong you feel about this. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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today i saw my boy friend with another gurl at the movies...they weren't even watching it!!! (if u kno wat i mean) Wat should I do?!?! I was thinking about breaking up with him but i love him way too much!!!! Plz help me!!!
thanx,
~*RiSs*~
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He cheated on you! You need to sit down and talk to him. If he changes his ways, then he's a keeper. If not, then despite your feelings for him, you must break up. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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okay me and this gurl r goin out one night she came to my room and we had some fun (if u know wat i mean)her mom came looking for her she caught us and know i cant see her ne more i love her and tried to sneek out but every time i do i get caught
wat do i do
P.S im a 16 year old male (link)
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You need to talk with her parents. Tell them that you love her. You are going to have to not mess around with her anymore. Just date. You have your whole life ahead of you. 16 is too young to be "having fun" in your room. Make her parents trust you and believe what you say. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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me and this gurl have been friends for years snd know shes hittin on me like askin me out on dates and even spending the night which all the fellas know i love and dont get me wrong its nice she is really hot and is the works
wat do i do by the way im 15
Sincerly:The pimp (link)
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I don't know why girls want to hang out with you if you just play them. You can't make this girl think you like her if you don't. If she is your friend, you won't.
Love, Blonde
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this gurl is totally hot and every day she checks me out and smiles but weve known each other four 8 years i think of us as friends but all of a sudden i have feelings four her
wat do i tell her or wat do i do (link)
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You should tell her. My guess is if she is checking you out all the time and smiling at you, then she likes you. I like a guy and I always smile at him so he will smile back. She is into you! Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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My boy friend andi i have been going out for a little over a month now and i dont think we are quit on the same page i mean he s a complete punk and he is bbie polar im just kinda a different of personalities i want to be punk because i could just be my self and not worry what other people think but i dont want him to think imm turning punk to copie him what do i do? (link)
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Just do what you want. If he says you are copying him just tell him why you are punk. Explain that it is cause of the music you listen to or just the style and way you want to be. If he thinks you are copying him, then he isn't worth it. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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i'm a girl and i want this guy to be my boyfriend..what do i do?
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Ask him out with some friends. If you hit it off, great. Then you can ask him out on a date for just the two of you. If not, then your girl is right there by your side. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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hello, i am a 23 year old female. i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for six and a half years. we have had our share of problems, but nothing really bad. i think that our biggest problem is communication. whenever we are involved in a heated discussion, i start crying and he gets mad. i'm a very emotional person and i can't help it. i tell him this all the time. however, sometimes he yells at me and says mean things to me. i have told him that he can't talk to me any kind of way. he never says disrespectful things, but i still feel disrespected by the way he says things. i think that this is something that we can work out if we could communicate better with each other. if i start to cry he gets angry and doesn't want to talk anymore. we recently had an argument, i got really upset and told him that i didn't want to be with him anymore. i didn't mean it and i would like to talk to him about it, but i'm afraid that if i call him, he might make me feel like he doesn't care or doesn't want to talk about it. he has been a major part of my life. he has been there for me through so much. i love him and i know that he love me. what should i do? a part of me feels like if i give it too much time he might not want to be with me. another part of me feels that he needs time to see what he is missing. i'm so confused about what to do. (link)
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That's a long time to be together and still not communicate. You need to sit down with him and explain that you guys don't communicate well. To avoid a heated conversation, ask him to please hear you out. Have him let you say all you have to say and then he can give his opinion. This way, you won't be likely to argue and hopefully no tears will be shed. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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i really want a bf does ne 1 have ne advice on how i can get 1 (link)
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Hang out with groups of guys and girls. BE YOURSELF!!! If they don't want to go out with you, then they are the one's missing out! If they see who you really are, they will want to go out with you. Don't try to impress them, that never works! Good luck and I hope I helped!
Love, Blonde
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Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?! (link)
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You tell him you don't appriciate it. If he really did like you he wouldn't say he didn't. But another possibility is that he is just trying to make himself look cool. Either way, he isn't cool though. You need to let him know that!
Love, Blonde
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I have a major crush on this guy at school!This year is his last year in school. I have never talked to him b4. And he always makes eye contacts with me. We are not in the same class.He does not know me at all!! Should I still talk to him? Please help!! (btw,he is 2 years older than me) (link)
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Well there are two answers to this question. 1) If you really want to hang out with this kid before he leaves, invite him on a group outing. Then if you hit it off, ask him out for some one on one time, and if not, then your girl is there beside you to hang out with if he isn't the guy you thought he was. If you guys become friends, you can always use AIM or AOL to keep in touch. 2) If you just have a little crush on him but don't actually want to hang out, get his sn or email from someone and just keep in touch that way. Mention that you knew him because he went to your school and that you always wanted to hang out but never got the chance. The worst that could happen would be that he wouldnt want to talk, which I highly doubt! Good luck and I hope I helped!
Love, Blonde
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ok say your in deep love but then you see another guy walk bye and say to ur friends oo hottie what does that mean? does it mean the guy you in love with ur not really in love with or is it just normal for ppl to do that? (link)
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It is very normal. If it wasn't normal that no one in this world would be normal. My cousin got married and has kids. Him and his wife are deeply in love, but if she takes me out shopping or something, and a hott guy walks by, I will comment. I always say how he is hott and if she agrees she will let me know! Although she thought the guy was hot, she never had any intention of hooking up with him because she is happily married! So you are okay!
Love, Blonde
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im 14 and i like a 20 yr old. he is so cute and i dream bout him all the time. he told me he likes me im just to young he said he would go out wiv me if i was older wot can i do to change his mind (link)
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I don't think you should change his mind. Just wait a couple of years and you will find a cuter younger guy. There was a girl in my school who dated a guy in his twenties(she is 16) and she liked him a lot. They used to talk online and go out on dates. He lives in Ohio and, well, we don't(though we aren't far). So one day, she goes out with him but doesn't come back. She is missing for a couple days and is now on the local news. He ended up taking her back with him to Ohio and just one day drove to the school and dropped her off. She walked to class and acted like nothing happened, but everyone knew. You don't need an older guy. Keep it legal!
Love, Blonde
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i fancy this guy from charmed. its cole. and on a night i cry coz i love himso much. he is so fit. i dont no wot to do. i just wish i could be wiv him (link)
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I think he is cute too, but I don't think it is healthy to cry over a celebrity. Try picking a guy from planet earth. You need to think more realistic. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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my bf slept wiv ma sis. i have forgiven ma sis as i cant just hate her for life. i dont no wot to do bout my bf. i really liked him plz help me some 1 (link)
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I think it is nice that you still like him, but I can't imagine why you would want to stay with him after he betrayed you. It's always the worste when it's with family or a best friend. I can understand that you still like him, because we all like out ex's for a little bit unless they hurt you real bad. But I don'd think this guy deserves you. If you disagree, then talk to him. Make sure he won't cheat on you again. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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Hey. I am 13 and female. Well, I have a huge problem. Well, it isn't a problem I am just confused. Well, I've known *ASpEcIaLSoMeOnE* for almost a year now. We've gotton ExTrEmLy close. Well, when I got back from Florida, he told me he had a girlfriend. I was very upset, because I knew things were going to have to change. Well, I was talking to him yesterday night infact, and I opened up to him and stuff. I just want things to get back to normal. I already confronted him, and I don't wanna push him to things. How can I get things fairly to the same as it was before? (link)
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My best advice to you would be to pretend that you don't like him as more than a friend. Act the way you did before you confronted him and expressed your feelings. Hopefully he will catch on and act the same way. Just let time take its course. Maybe his relationship won't last (though I don't want to sound rude) and then you could remind him how you feel and see if he has the same feelings for you. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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