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Hey,
theres this guy that always flirts with me, always talks not stop, and he even called me sweet. He taps my foot all the time and we end up getting into a flirty footwar, lol. I think hes gonna ask me out, but i really like him as a friend. What are some ways to turn a guy down nicely so that he doesnt hate u forever?
Signed,
girl under an attack of unwanted predator
hey some people r telling u 2 ignore him n u really shouldn't do tht but if he does ask u out just say i wanna be friends with benefits =]! Also make sure hez not hurt in any way!
Im 15 and I have been going out with this guy for about 2 days now. i have known him for like 4 months and we just started going out. i really like him a lot too! hes the perfect guy for me! his birthday is coming up this monday which is in about 6 days. but i have no idea what to get him if i should get him anytbing. i was thinking maybe like a picture of me and him in a picture frame that i can go buy. is that good? i need a answer sooooon! so thanks yall!
Yeah thats really good maybe u could even make a video of u and all his friends like saying happy birthday even ask him what he wants =]! hope i helped please rate n give feedback xox lissy xox
I'm a 13/f and I have 2 very good friends. They both like the same guy. This one guy happens to be one of my very good friends and we talk on AIM all the time. I always saw him as just a friend but now I'm starting to really like him and people keep telling me that he likes me. I want to be honest with my friends but they like him and they want him to like them. What should I do?
i have the same problem all of my friends like him but they don't know that i like him but anywayz...u really do need to tell them and hey you guys can all talk about the good qualities in him....maybe tell him how u feel but also some of ur friends like him so u don't want to go out with him because it would hurt ur friendship unless ur 2 friends r okay with u going out w. him! hope i helped please rate me xox Lissy xox
i want to like some1 rlly bad. i just started goin to junior high with all of these new ppl but i don like any o the guys that r in my classes! its rlly sad n sumtimes it rly depresses me cuz i want a bf. so how can i get myself to like som1? this question mite b kinda impossible to answer but plz try to. thnx
Well to be honest you can't make urself like some1! but just think of something u would like in a guy and get to know some of them n maybe it'll be one of them or maybe even like some1 in a higher or lower grade n once u found tht person u like just ask them out and they'll say yes if they got to know u real well prolly! hope i helped please rate me :D xox Lissy xox
My boyfriend wants to go to the movies with me and he has been bringing up making out. But ive never made out before. Could someone please tell me how? I know this might sound stupid but i have nooooo clue :P (Please dont say it comes naturally) I RATE HIGH! Thanks :)
lol i've never made out either, maybe he hasn't either but he wants to try it? lol well basically i would watch movies n stuff tht have ppl kiss a lot n notice how they do tht lol take notes! xox lissy xox
why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart?
They don't always break ur heart but usually they do simply u just gotta remember there are other guys out there n maybe if u keep it long n don't get wayy too attached it won't hurt as much i hope i helped xox lissy xox!
Is it ok to aproach a guy like makeing out if you not dating? Please HELP
sara
N00000!!!! Thats like extremely slutty! People would be talking about it and a lot of people will hate you especially like his gf if he has one n then she'll tell everyone to hate you and yeah!
It is possible to be in love at the age of 13???
Rainbowcherrie
Of course it is possible! Why when I was like 9 I fell in love with this boy and I still am and i'm 13 today! Of course he knows I like him and I basically show it that I do but yeah you can fall in love at any age really!
Well, theres this guy that Ive been liking for a while now. All of my friends know I like him, and most of his friends know too. Everytime I talk to one of his friends, they'll say something like "ooo, guess what? _______ says he likes you!" or some other thing like that. Are they trying to tell me something,like what he says when theyre hanging out, or do you think they are just immature teenage boys? I really want what theyre saying to be true cuz i really like this guy, but i cant help but think theyre just teasing me. Please tell me what to do about these dorky guys!
its probably a joke...but sometimes there serious at the same time
Hi,
This is the first time I am seeking advice from an advice column.
My boyfriend lives in another country and we are trying to have a long distance relationship.I am a graduate student who also works and my schedule is pretty tight,especially during semesters.
I spend most of my week working and attending class and spend my weekends, ctaching up on class work.My boyfriend has a pretty light schedule at his workplace and spends his weekends out with his friends.Every night, I wake up at 2am just so that we can spend time together for maybe an hour or so ( the time difference!!!). Well, this Friday night, he went out with his friends and came back at 7 30am ,saturday morning.I have no problem with him having a good time, I like going out and having fun too.Its just when he came back,he came online ,and seemed really excited about coming home this "early".It bugged me a lot, it felt like he was trying to rub in the fact that basically I have no life.
I don't know whether its the stress which is affecting me, or his attitude.
I would appreciate some comments.
Its probably stress and how he is acting towards u...now this relationship might not last that long because ur long distance maybe u guyz should just be friends cuz its going to be wayy too difficult 4 u to have a bf n in college now maybe if he was on ur campus tht wouldn't be tht bad!
hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:(
D0N'T KILL Y0URSLEF! D0n't even try t0 kill urself that w0uld be terrible think 0f ur family they'll miss y0u and s0 will ur friends and s0 will all 0f us that helped u 0n advicenat0rs! So what if u get made fun of i do too its because i'm short and not popular! It doesn't matter what they think just ignore them! There mean to do tht 2 u cuz u have just as much feelings as them! Hope I helped! LiSsY
okay, i have this REALLY good guy friend named "jon"..hes in my grade we have 3 classes together, hes totalllly gorgeous..he just got outta a 9 month relationship about a month agO..he was inlove with that girl and naturally he prolly isnt over her yet and still is inlove with her..she lives like 45 mins away from where we live though..anywayz so me and jon ALWAYS flirt with eachother, act like brother and sister, punch eachother, etc, ya know like flirty stuff like that..we ALWAYS talk bout our problems with eachother, etc..i never ever thought that he would eveer like me cause we are so close friends but then his cousins gf told me that she asked him if he liked me and he said, "yeah i do actually..but im not gunna do anything about it cause i dont want our friendship to get ruined"..i thought that was so sweet of him to say...im kinda stuck cause i like him too..should i just continue on being really good friends? or should i bring out that i like him?
Well its always totally great to have a friend thats a guy and especially if he likes u back too....Well since ur friends w/ him either like call him,IM him,or maybe even e-mail him or talk to him in person and ask about what his cousins gf said....then maybe the relationship will start from there...but herez the main thing if u guys break up n he gets together w/ someone n u still have feelings for him then ur going to get pissed off probably! But thats why it is sometimes better to be friends but tell him how u feel cuz he'll understand cuz he likes u too but tell him what i said bout tht! I hope I helped n I hope everything goes well w/ jon! *muah* LiSsY
Ok. There's this one thing. I like this guy Brian from my class {my age only 6 months and 2 days older than me} (I got over Felipe). And (ummm how can I put this in a nice way?) he treats me like shit sometimes. He's really smart because his parents are teachers (but that doesn't matter) and sometimes he can be snotty. Sometimes we joke around and sometimes we get pissed @ eachother. Like in class the other day we (the whole class) were talking about Martha Stewat ad house arrest when I remembered that I read something about Martha getting beat up in jail and I tell the class (and I sit right behind Brian) and then Brian turns to me and says "Where did you hear that? A girl magazine?" And I'm like "No Brian. More like US Weekly!" And then he's like "Whatever"... See what I mean?... He treats me bad. How can I get him to see me more of a gf than of "the girl he argues a lot with'? !~*Steph*~! I rAte GoOd!
He probably likes u n being show-offy is his way to show it....n maybe u should try asking him what is his deal when he gets like that n also maybe find out his e-mail,screen name,phone number(cell phone would be better if he has one) n juss ask him if he likes u or just maybe ask him out...lol this would be funny if u acted like his friend n asked him who does he like? lol.....Tell me if I helped n rate me too! Melissy!
ok well me and my boyfriend really love each other and like he made out wit anotha gurl once cuz he waz drunk so im like ok ill forgive u then couple monthz later he kissez my best friend!! but no thatz not it! there waz a dance and we had fun 2gether and after the dance i found out he made out wit her! he waznt drunk this time!! so we broke up and now i fogive him cus i really love him and no i juss found out he f*$# another gurl and she had all these hicky and i juzz found out it waz him who gave her the hicky...wat should i do now? we havent broke up yet, should i still be with him and give him annother chance or should i break up with him?
break up w/ him n don't get back together with him if he does this stuff! tell me if i helped!