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first of all. im 14/f
i've dated this boy billy for about 5 months. && we broke up about a week ago. and a few days ago i started dateing this boy john. well the problem is, my bestfriend liked john and she supposidly doesn't anymore because i do. she doesn't seem to care about it but now EVERYBODY hates me b/c of it. what should i do? (link)
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if you don't like Billy- you don;t have to. If you like John- no one is stopping you. it's that simple. Maybe you should let them both go. You are 14 and you have plenty of guys to meet before you find the perfect one. :p
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which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
thanks for reading (link)
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ummmm.... isn't it obvious?
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I have only been dating this guy for two weeks
i rlly like him
i have already kissed him and i have never done that before this soon anyway
we already tell each other i love you and all this
some of my freinds say im falling to hard to fast
what should i do ?
do you think it is true? (link)
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well, you might be having a first love kind of thing, you can do what you are doing but remember that you still have limits. :p
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I love a guy.
We used to be very close friends
now im pretty sure he hates me or is mad at me.
I miss him terribly
and he has a girlfriend.
We had a sexual past
I could give details but that would leave this question rather long
I cant get over him,no matter how hard i try.
Any suggestions on what I should do?
ps. I sent a message to him the other day, and he didnt reply immediatly, but like 40 minutes later he said "hey" to me.
So do you think he thought about what my letter said?
Ah i need help ..so much help! (link)
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talk to him about if he's mad at you. Theres probably a reason why hes avoiding you. Try to become friends and you never know what will happen. :)
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okk so heres the story..
14/f && i have a boyfriend
the problem is hes like really prude
&& ik that he really wants 2 do stuff cuz he keeps telling me he does & stuff
& i only see him like once a week becuz he goes 2 another school but he like never makes a move
so what should i do?
should i like make the move or what?
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i heard like 84% of guys wait for girls to make a move. If you guys are both waiting for each other you'll never go anywhere. Please tell me if this is good advice.
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ive liked this guy for about eight months and we dated in june to august. he broke up with me and i cant get over him. i need a way to either win him back or get over him. btw he likes one of my best friends who is dating one of his best friends( weird i know) (link)
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well, you just need to keep his interests up and play hard-to-get. don't drool and give it time. Let me know if this advice was any good please.
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i really like this guy and my friend has told me that i could get him but i would have to be making the moves first and flirting with him and stuff cause he most likely wont do it first, im kinda a shy person so i need some tips on like flirting and stuff. (link)
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flirting always drives someone away. Play " I don't like you like that" and dont talk to him all the time. Or tell him you do like him, go out, and live happily ever after
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13/f
OK, so there is this guy that I like. We are friends and we sit next to each other in almost every class because our last names are 1 letter apart. We are always partners on assignments and constantly talk and flirt. However, I cant tell if it is just playful flirting or if he wants something more. Can someone give me tips on how to make him like me/date me or signs on how to tell that he likes me? (link)
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WEll, just figure out who he likes!!! If you can't do it get one of his friends to do it. Ask to do something outside of school with a group. If he jumps on the idea or if he says he'd like to and he'll have to see or if there is something rrreeeeeeaaaaaallllyyy important he has thats a possitive sign. Unless, he is one to be nervous and dosen't want to mess his chance with you up, then you'll have your answer!
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Hello I am 13 years old and is going out with this really, really sweet guy. But now hes getting too attached and between us is getting a bit awkward now. I want to be just friends with him because whenever I hang around him we talk to each others like we were just mates. I mean now I love him but only in a friend way. And I tried breaking up with him and asked if we could just be friends but he didn't want it that way because he loves me a lot (which makes me feel HEAPS guilty). Besides I'm in love with this other guy. I don't want to break his heart but I just want to be friends. But he doesn't want to be friends. What should I do? (link)
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well, Tell him that you think he loves you in a sister-type-way and that you like him but not all that much ( don't say that- say it nicer) but that you can talk as much and hang out with you as muh as when you were bf-gf and also, dont mention the other guy unless he gets over his crush or something
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I met this guy, and i liked him alot. we went to homecoming and it was pretty weird, neither of us talked much. i started to wonder if that feeling i got when i was with him was nervousness (which is good,) or being uncomfortable (which is bad.) today he asked me to go to the movies with him this weekend, and i said "sure," but now im pretty sure its a feeling of uncomfortable. when we talk online its great, but in person... there is no attraction and i think i might actually find him a bit needy and unattractive. besides, there is a age difference (im 14, hes 17)
what should i do? i think he wants to go steady, but i dont want to. i just want to be friends (link)
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well, i think that you should talk about girls he likes and if he happens to get uncomfortable it's probably because he likes you. Maybe he loves as a sister and feels attached and just thinks you're great to talk with. If not, just give him the sign your not interested but that you love being his sign.
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how can i make the girls for crazy for me i would really like it im not the kind of person to go for lots but theres just this one .. that drives me crazy .. i think about her at the most unexpected times. at the store, the other week when i almost got in a car acident alls i could think about is her.. and in p.e. for school when i run.. its a hard run about a 15km so i think if i run the whole thing she will be there at the end and be proud of me so it keeps me going .. well i might be crazy but its only for her .. please help ive liked her for 4 years now .. an on and off relationship from going out to friends .. she says i get attachted to fast.. what can i do ?
15/M (link)
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i think you should tell her that you like her. its real hard but it sounds like you are going crazy for her. if she dosen't like you back don't be crushed cause sometimes girls relize things about who they like as easy as guys do. or it's harder to say what they feel. Dont wait for her to come to you because it migt become too late
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Well recently i went to this church event and this guy in my youth group was talking to me a whole lot the entire night. Im not able to go to youth group every wednesday night because of work but when i do get the chance to go he is always like heyy i havent seen you in forever how have you been?! At this event he came and sat right next to me and started to talk to me. Or i was sitting down and he was standing behind me and he like leaned his head over and was like heyyy.
Now yes it hasnt been long since i started to like him kinda.Maybe like 2weeks.
Now heres the problem hes 15and a sophmore in highschool and Ill be 18 this week and a senior in highschool.
Its not an actually question but i need some advice on what you think i should do.
Thanks
And dont judge be about the age difference. (link)
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when you think about it, 3 years is not a big difference. If he likes you, and you like him, GO FOR IT!!!
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ok so i have been going out wiht my new girlfriend for about 2 mouths now and i want to know a couple of things
1. on avrage how long do people wait to have sex
2. should we celabrit things like 1 mouth annaverys and if we do, how long do we do that untill it's to only a one year annavery?
3. she's a little new at haveing a boyfriend, she is my forth girlfriend, and i just want to know is there a way to make her more confuable with being around me, she already really cares about me and trust me,
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you should never have sex before marriage. thats my opinion. but try to figure out everything she likes and start up conversations she can get into.
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ok im in the 8th grade and i have liked this guy since i was in the 5th grade but i havent been able to tell him. i get really nervous when he is around and everything. one reason why i havent told him is because he is VERY popular and im not really that popular. anyway im afraid that he will say no then tell all his friends. i dont know if he likes me or not. he smiles when i talk to him and i catch him looking at me alot but i dont know if that is enough to say he likes me. so what do i do??? i am soo confused and lost. please help. (link)
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guys are big flirt people. it's the truth, sooooo, get a close friend to ask if he likes you~ 1-10
1 being, never!!!
10 being always!!!
it always works.
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