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just friends
I met this guy, and i liked him alot. we went to homecoming and it was pretty weird, neither of us talked much. i started to wonder if that feeling i got when i was with him was nervousness (which is good,) or being uncomfortable (which is bad.) today he asked me to go to the movies with him this weekend, and i said "sure," but now im pretty sure its a feeling of uncomfortable. when we talk online its great, but in person... there is no attraction and i think i might actually find him a bit needy and unattractive. besides, there is a age difference (im 14, hes 17)
what should i do? i think he wants to go steady, but i dont want to. i just want to be friends
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tell him how you feel ...start off by making him talk to you when you both are together...you could try saying something to him online if you dont want to do it when you both are together ask him if he feels akward ..if you think theres no attraction tell him you rather just be friends instead because you dont see both of you going onto to second base.
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well, i think that you should talk about girls he likes and if he happens to get uncomfortable it's probably because he likes you. Maybe he loves as a sister and feels attached and just thinks you're great to talk with. If not, just give him the sign your not interested but that you love being his sign.
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I would just go to teh movies with him, have fun and have a great time. And just send him those friendly vibes and try not to flirt back, even if he IS flirting with you.
And just tell him you had alot of fun and you two should do it again soon sometime.
If he were to ask you out, just let him know you're sorry, and like you said, you had a great time on the date and everything, but you really only friendly vibes going on between the two of you, and would really like to keep it as just that.
If he's upset, let him be and let him calm down adn think about everything. And just let him talk to you whenever he's ready to talk to you. And just give him time to try and get over it and move on and find another girl.
I hope I helped.
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