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so i guess the title for this question wasnt a very nice one haha but it got you reading it. well i do love my boyfriend to death we have been dating for 6 months. im 16 hes 15. theres just a few small problems. everything will be going fine, then sudenly a few weeks ago he wanted to take a break. all the lovey dovey stuff stopped n he really didnt seem to care about me anymore. well now we are back together and all the lovey dovey stuff has started again. he says he loves me more than anything. thats what he said before the breakup too. most days he is great and i love him so much. i couldnt imagine being with another guy. but some days he is in the worst mood and he will practically ignore me. i really try to help him out and i put up with so much stuff just for him. he is very outgoing so its not like him to be quiet and i always think its something i did. but he gets in different moods all the time. is he bipolar? he acts completely normal other than the mood swings and is captain of the football and lax team. hes popular and a really funny guy. but he also has told me that he hears voices in his head. he doesnt act like its a big deal and yesterday a voice told him to jump off a building. he obviously didnt listen haha but he doesnt act like his mental problems effect him much but the break and his mood swings make me think maybe they do. i dont want him to start listening to these voices in his head or go crazy one day. and i dont want his bipolar watever you want to call it mood swings, to effect are relationship either. i know he has suffered from depression and possibly still is. but he acts like hes the happiest guy in the world. you would never guess. does he have schizophrenia or bipolar or something else? any advice? (link)
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if you think he was being serious then you may want to tell someone, like a school councilor or his parents, or even yours. If the voices are telling him to hurt himself it might be a big problem, and you obviously don't want him to kill himself. If you love him you'll try to get him help. Once he has help with this he most likely won't have such extreme mood swings and you guys will be even closer because he'll know you're there for him no matter what.
I hope all works out for you two
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Okay so I'm 14 and my boyfriend is too. And I absolutely love him ! He makes me so happy and I never felt this way about a guy before. Like he's the first guy I lasted half a year with and I'm planning to stay with him longer. But we promised each other to stay together forever but I'm just scared that it won't last. I mean everything is perfect and we did have several arguments but we came through. But does forever really happen? I'm the type of girl who can stay faithful to a guy for a long time. And he is too but do you think forever is ever going to happen? (link)
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hey girl,
You and your boyfriend sound so cute. From what you said, this seems different than anything you've ever experienced. This is love, this is the real thing. Since its been 1/2 a year, and you've experienced some arguments you can last. It means its not just the cute beginning of the relationship that most people experience. As long as you both want it and try when ever things get rough, I believe that you can last forever.
Congratulations of finding what you have, hold onto it.
hope it was helpful,
xoxo JAckie
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ok well i need help on what to get my boyfriend of 4 months for his birthday in a few weeks and then something for christmas.
he's not really interested in anything and i was gonna get him a picture frame with a picture of us in it but we dont have any pictures that i could do that with. soo any ideas?
i want it too be special and $50 or less please but nothing really cheap.
please help
i need as many ideas as possible.
thanks in advance.
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hey, a favorite CD or a favorite something. also, the cute M&M's with sayings on them would be nice, in his fav. colors. cute stuffed animals that come in pairs, like the hall mark "kiss kiss" bears. something along those lines, four months is kinda a long time, so you should get him something meaningful and cute that shows you know what he likes, and that you care a lot about him.
I hope I helped Jackie
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i'm 15/f in 9th grade in a Middle school and i get depressed a lot that i've never had a boyfriend. and i've also never kissed a guy before. sometimes i just get to thinking like wow there are like 13 yr olds with boyfriends and who have gotten their first kiss before.
also most of the people in my grade have boyfriends and have definitely kissed a guy before. it just gets me sad knowing that i haven't kissed a guy or even had a boyfriend before.
i don't want advice on how to get a boyfriend, that isn't my problem. i just want advice on how to be more confident and not to be constantly worrying about the fact that i've never had a boyfriends and i'm still prude.
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get a manicure. i suggest a frnech manicure. if you know how to shop arround then you can get a good deal and it will make you feel pampered and its a small thing that can make a big difference. you will feel prettier, girlier and more danty. lol. i hope it helps
*jackie*
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Okay well i have posted questions about this boy before and here they are..."I like this guy and im not sure if he likes me back. We have one class together and lunch, and when we have our study hall instead of the class he always sits next to me and wants me to tell him who i like. He always wants me to go to his matches and he has a girlfriend. I don't know if he likes me please help! Im a 14/f" and, "Well lets call him...Jim lol okay well in my gym class alot of the girls are Jim's girlfriends friends and when we were walking through the gym the other day no one was around and we were talking and then he kept hugging me and walking with his arm around me Is that another sign of him liking me idk please help.!.!.!"
Well since then he started hugging me more and more in gym and he was like walking with his arm around me and coming up behind me and picking me up but it was only when no one was watching... So i decided to tell basically hint around to liking him and he knows and then he would do that stuff even when people were around...now our class has ended.. and he still has his girlfriend and she hates me. I've decided to get over him but he won't let me because when he sees me at lunch he flirts with me and hes always staring at me. He yells at his girlfriend whenever she like pushes me and stuff so I've been trying to ignore him to get over him and it seems like it's driving him crazy like he'll do stuff to get my attention, he gets jealous when i walking with my guy friend and i just wanna know if he likes me or if i just need to get over him, but if i do need to get over him how? so i guess im asking how do i get over him if i need to and does he like me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
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ok. he likes you. and his girlfriend can tell b/c shes pushing you. and hates you. I would let him know that you liek him. and then wait. like you cant expect him to break up with his girlfriend right away. but he either willl or as soon as thewy are done he'll go after you. ya know wat I mean?
well I hope I helped
oh, and if you need to get over him for any reason, then you could keep trying to avoid him because absence heals the heart. if that doesnt work, then you may want to straight up tell him that you need him to stay away for a week or two so you can get over him. and he should understand.. planning a girls night with a bunch of ur girlfriends is another great way. go out somewhere pubilic and see some cuties and flirt your butt off lol..
well once again I hope it helped! let me know how things go
*jackie*
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One of my friends (a guy) told me he liked me about a month or so ago. he asked me out and i turned him down. well, now, his best friend and i have become really good friends. He and i hug a lot, and flirt. I dunno if he likes me though. anyways, i can't tell if guy #1 still likes me. he used to hug me, poke me, joke around, ect. ALL the time. he still does, but a lot less than before.
so my question is, do you think that it's okay that Guy #2 and i hang out and flirt as much as we do? I really don't want to hurt guy #1's feelings, and i'm afraid i am. both guys are my really good friends, and i don't wanna lose them. HELP? (link)
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hey girl, lets see. I think that guy number 1 does still like you, but is hurt. That explains the less huging poking n joking. I think that since they are bestfriends. that you could still flirt with #2 but just not TOO much in front of #1 because he could feel like its a slap in the face. so yeah you can but dont faunt it.
hope i helped
xoxo
*jackie*
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Okay so my regualar relationship is only a few weeks. I always end up breaking up with guys because i always kind of loose intrest and i hate it because i do really like the guy before i go out with him. How are some ways that i can hold on to relationships and be able to commit. (link)
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ok, here we go. there are a few different things you can try.
you're not the only one this happeneds to. my sister goes through the same thing. I think that you should try changing up the kinds of things you do with the guy. Bordom can cause you to loose interest and dumb them. Also if you try going for a different kind of guy this might get you out of this rut. I told my sister to wait a week or two after the first spark of interest to go out with a guy, this way you have time to see if you lose interest. and also, it could be hormones, caused by your period and PMS. some girls like lost of guys durring PMS. go to normal durring the period. adn then after stop liking mopst of the guys. so waiting a little bit might help
I really hope I helped. let me know how things go
xoxo
*jackie*
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My boyfriend and I (well, ex) dated for about 2 years until back in January when I started to feel that the relationship we getting to be too serious (I was only 17...now 18). We were talking one night and figured out that we started to drift because we weren't ready for such a strong relationship. We loved each other (real love, not kiddish love) but just weren't ready. So we broke up.
After the break up, I found out that he cheated on me while we started drifting. I, of course, was furious at him. Now it's been about 5 months since I found out and we've started talking again. Not only that, but we both want to get back together. Im over the cheating.
My question is, even though I do still love him and want to be with him, how do I know that it won't end up like last time? How do I know that I won't get freaked out by the seriousness of the relationship? I mean, this is a guy I want to marry someday, as in after I finish college (i'm starting in the fall), not any time soon. But then again, I don't want to loose him.
Did that make any sense? If it did to you, then I'd really like some advice because I'm so confused.
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hey, im sorry i must have not been focused when i first read/responded to your question. let me try again....
I think that you should go for it. you are in love, and since u want to marry this guy down the road then you should give it another chance now. you LOVE this guy and he LOVES you, go for it. you wont get freaked out by the seriousness of the relationship, if you take things one step at a timee, dont think about the marrage part, think about haveing fun and being with the guy you love. good luck!
*Jackie*
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allright here we go again..
do you think its weird if someone likes you that is like 2 years younger than you and you might have feelings for them too? because im going into 11th grade and this guy is goin into 9th grade and hes really nice and everything! its just the age difference i just dont know. i shouldnt let it get to me but i just find it maybe weird or like i cant get anyone else but someone yougner than me? and people might think i look desperate or something (link)
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heyy giirl... um I definitly think that is is perfectally fine! there's an age different, but if you like him, and he likes you than definitly go out with him!!!@ and its sooo worth the chance. some ppl might make fun of you though, for dating a freshman, but thats ok. the people who do that are not your friends and their just jerks!
hope it hepls! *Jackie*
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Well I like this guy Adam, me him and a bunch of other people went to see When a stranger calls and threw the whole movie we were flirting and you know the rest. Well Carly, the person who organzied the little get together. Well her mom came and she has a van it was really cramped up front so, a couple people (Me, Adam, 4 other friends) moved to the back and we laid down because Carly`s mom had a old van and it was able to turn the back into a bed so we did that. I was tired so I used Adam as a pillow and then I got up to fix my shoe (I had sandles on) and then I laid back down and he put his arm around my waist. & from about 11pm-2am we sat there kissing, holding hands so forth. Then I was confused because I didnt know he liked me like that so I called him and he said we should keep that to ourselves so I was like okay. Then he asked out Danielle ( a good friend of mine, she didnt go to the movies ) and I was lost because he just held my hand and kissed me then asked out my best friend. She hasnt said yes or no yet, but I really want him. I dont know how to get him to be mine and not hers. Please help ! (link)
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hey girl,
This is hard. But since its not JUST flirting, it was kissing also, i think you should talk to him about it. Tell him you really like him and want to know what that night means to him, because it apparently means A LOT to you. if he talks to you he might change his mind about Danielle. Also she should take into consideration your feelings. If Adam knows that you like him enough to have your friend not go out with him on your behalf then he'll realize that and ask you out.
I hope I helped
*Jackie*
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