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do you remember me? the gal who liked that boy saad. you told me to drop you a line so i am. the thing is i finaly managed to ask him out and he sed no! it was really bad only becuase he sounded really disgusted. my friends say it's his lost but it's really my lost cos he's buff n i'm not as good as him. at 1st i was really heartbroken but i've now kind of gotten over it. if you don't remember me check the questions that you've answered and you'll remember. every time he goes past i feel really ashamed and embarassed. the good thing about it is cos he's shy he hasn't told any of his friends...thank God! you've beena real help you've helped me understand i'm supposed tolet him getlost! thx!
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I do remember you...thank you.
And yeah. Guys are like that. Perfectly nice one minute, you're in love with them, then total assholes the next.
I'm sorry he didn't realize that you are a wonderful girl he'd be lucky to have. But live and learn, right?
He doesn't deserve your shame...until he learns to see what a fabulous person you are, don't even let him cross your mind.
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how do you get rid of or cover up a hickey? please&thanks! (link)
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A chilled spoon will work to perhaps make it less...(for lack of a better word) 'colorful'...
The best thing to do is wear your hair down and try some baby powder and then some concearler...
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This one guy is really nice. I like talking to him. The problem is that he's only in one of my classes, and we don't exactly seat close to each other. But we ride buss home, that's the place where we get to talk. Sigh... I known him for only 2 weeks. And I would like for him to ask me out. And I"m not asking anybody out ever again >.< I have his cell phone number, but he has mine too. Should I call him?
What should I do? How could we end up together? (link)
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I read your question, and I realize that you don't want to ask him out. But maybe on the bus ride, ask him what he's doing the next day, and maybe he wants to grab a coffee with you? That's what I would do, but there's always the choice of just waiting for him to call...
Good luck.
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I have been working in my dads company for the past month and a half. There are all these guys that work there and I was friends with a group of them. I hit it off with one of them and we always talked and worked togther when we could. He talked about all his problems and I would talk about mine. We would give eachother advice. I finished work on Friday coz Im going to uni tomorrow. We got real close on Friday and when I was leaving we hugged for ages and then it lead to us kissing. He said to me that I couldn't leave now. I don't exactly want to go to uni coz its on the other side of the country but I am going. He asked for my number and then he left. I can't stop thinking about him. Hes a really nice guy (the nicest I ever met) and we got to know eachother pretty well.
I don't know what to do. I want to see him, but I can't because Im leaving tomorrow. I havent got his number. I want to come home nxt weekend to see him.
Im scared I will never see him again.
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If he likes you as much as it sounds, you've got a good chance of making a long-distance relationship work.
Perhaps he can go to college out there, too? If not, flying in on weekends and phone calls are good...but keep in mind that it doesn't work for everybody. But-please excuse the cliche- when there's a will, there's a way. You both seem to have hit it off, and a few hundred miles isn't going to change that.
♥, katherine
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i really like this boy called saad in my school but i don't really know him and he doesn't take much notice of me...im scared to say to anyone incase he finds out and rejects me!that would be so heartbreaking! please help i really need some advise.it's been a whole year since i met him. his friend asked me out on a trip and he was there, and i rejected him because he's a pervert. did this make anything worse? what should i do?
Nosheen
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No, not going out with a pervert shows 'Saad' that you have standards. Just talk to him-if he likes you, it'll show...and if he doesn't, drop it and move on. 13's too young to be in love, so even if you ask him out and he says no...it'll seem like your heart's breaking, but you'll survive, and learn from it. And if he does like you-yay for you.
drop me a line...
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I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14, and he was 17. I'm 17 now, and he's 20. We always talk about getting married when I'm like 19-20, and I know it's what we both want, but I feel like my family would say I'm too young and that they'd be disappointed in me. But it's really what both of us want, we really love eachother. We know his family is cool with it, but why do I feel like mine wont be? (link)
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TALK. To your family. To your friends. Really, it's your choice, but not having your family behind you often makes life harder. Let them see how much you two love each other, what you'll do for each other-and remember, if worst comes to worst-they can't break the bonds of love, even if they don't approve.
good luck.
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ok thiers this girl like but have already broken up with her from once when we went out and now se has a bf and i wanna get her back (link)
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Whatever you do, DO NOT TRY TO MAKE HER JEALOUS. She'll only be more hurt that you 'got over her' so fast.
Don't act too heartbroken, either, though. Ask her out for lunch, as 'friends', and just talk...if she really wants you back, too, it'll show.
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how do you approach a stranger at a party? i'm a really shy 16 year old, and i can't approach strangers. what's an easy way to? what's your experience with approaching people? don't be scared and just do it? but do what? (link)
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The eaisest thing to do, for me...is to walk up and say 'Hello'. Then ask them what their name is, do they like the party, ect. And it's not as mortifying as it sounds-if it turns out they don't 'click' with you, it's not like they're going to remember and try to kill you, or something drastic like that. But usually, good results come out of a little bit of nerve.
did that help?
-katherine
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i use to go out with this guy. i went to see my aunt in west virigina and i met him.. he made me feel sooo special we liked eachother for like.. 9 months. Well anyway, i dont like him anymore but i guess i miss him. hes like my best friend now.. its like i dont like him enough to want him back but enough so it hurts.. i dont know what to do! i like this other guy but i dont know if he likes me.. and even if he doesnt ill be okay with that.. but i dont know how to get the other guy off my mind! (link)
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First of all, make sure that he doesn't feel anything for you. But if you really can't get him off your mind, perhaps you do really like him, more than you think. Talk to other guys and see if you feel any interest at all-if you do, you're over guy number one, and you should let him know. But if you don't-you still like guy number one...and you should make sure he knows.
Hope this helped.
-kath
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there's this boy i see around a lot, but i've never worked up the courage to talk to him, i'm not very good with strangers. he notices me too, and at once point early on he made an attempt to talk to me but i shot it down accidentally. i didn't realize it at the time but now i do, and i hate myself for it.
anyway, i really really like him, and i know some of his friends but not closely. how do i make it so i can meet this boy, and talk to him? (link)
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Don't blame yourself, first of all.
We all make mistakes.
What I would do, is introduce yourself; give him another chance to talk to you...and if it turns out that he's not interested, drop it...he's not worth it. But most likely, he'll be glad you took the first step.
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