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My friends have always said I've been good at giving advice, so I'm trying this so i can help more people. Dont get mad if I'm bad at this pleease. =Plittle info:
age: 16
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sign: aquarius
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i need help!!!!!it was just recently my birthday and my boyfriend got me the most beautiful gift. soon it will be his birthday and im not sure on what to get him because im not really sure what a good gift for a guy would be. i love him so much and i just want it to be perfect. any ideas? they are very much appreciated.
Well cologne usually isa good idea for guys.. especially one that you really like & picked out for him. or some sort of scrapbook/project thing that could be more personal? or just frame a favorite picture of you two.
Any more questions or anything, leave it in my inbox please. hope i helped! ~Andrew
ok well i like this guy alot and were friends and my friends think he likes me. my one friend says whenver she says my name in english[thy guy i like sits behind her] she says his head like turns like he wants to hear my name. then my other friend says that when i talk to her in social he always stares at me. i really like him and i want him to like me back but i dont know how to find out are thyre like signs or should i have my friend ask him who he likes. please help ill rate 5's.
Hm.. well if he actually does those things, then I'd say he probably does like you. But I'd say if you really want to know, the best ways to see if he does like you are to either:
A) Tell him you like him yourself. This is definately the most straightforword.. and if he's intimidated, it might not even give youa straight answer right away. but most guys actually like it when the girl makes the first move.
B) Yeah, get your friend to ask him. You might be better off getting a friend that he won't suspect is asking so they can report back to you.
Any more questions or anything, feel free to leave them in my inbox. : ) ~Andrew
What do you get a guy thats like obsessed with dirtbikes for valentines day? were going out but im shy around him and i dont think hes getting me anything but i want to get him something, so help please. nothing too cheesy.
well first off, if you're going out, and he's not getting you something for valentine's day, then theres something wrong with that boy's head. =P sorry, but yeah. but dirtbikes isnt exactly valentines day stuff, you could give him like a little part that he needs or something like that. you could probably also give him some traditional v-day stuff though, it still shows you care whether its cheesy or not. =P
I've always been super shy. I don't really talk to anyone ever. Usually when I'm around my boyfriend I really open up and talk to him. But lately I guess I've started getting kinda shy around him and I really don't know why. Is there anything I can do to help me get over this stupid shyness?
it might be hard at first, but pretty much just stop caring what other people think of you. worrying about what other people think of you is a big reason as to why people get shy and don't say things that they want to. be more outgoing and say stuff when you usually wouldn't, and people will find you more outgoing so it'll be easier to open up more.
i have a friend that likes me but i dont exactly like him and he like touches me and i don't want him to. But he's my friend and all and i don't know how to tell him to stop so should i tell him?
well if you really don't like him that way, then you need to let him know that he should stop. if he's your friend, whether he likes you or not, he'd understand if you dont have feelings for him.
ok there's this guy who likes me but i don't like him back. He will not leave me alone no matter how much i tell him to. He's really bugging me because he always says these things that i don't like and i keep telling him to leave me alone but he just doesn't so how do i get him to stop?
well if you have a bf or a good guy friend that could go kick his ass, then ask them if they can go scare him. not necessarily go beat him up, but let him know they could and you'd get them to if need be. if that doesnt work, then you can either just basically ignore him, get someone to make it fully clear that you dont want to talk to him, let alone go out with him. if you cant ignore him or do that, then i guess just ask an adult or someone, tell them that he's really bugging you and it's becoming obnoxious, and ask them to please get him to back off. we dont want any stalkers, now do we? =P
hey!
My name is Tami and i'm 13 ... i used to have a bff and i always thought that her older brother was cute. Last year we got in a fight so we arent friends anymore ... but today i saw her brother in starbucks ( i haven't seen him in like over a year). I said hey to him but either he didnt hear me or didnt know who was saying hey ... but when i was leaving her was like hey Tami omg you look so much older and did a little smerk ...
does that mean he thinks i'm hot?
thanks for the help
tami
well, it kinda depends on the kinda guy he is, like if hes a player and a flirt then it might not mean much of anything. but also if he's not so much the flirty type, then it could mean he thinks youre hot and want to talk to you more. but i think it's worth it to talk to him some more, and see if he wants to hang out. that way you can get to know him better and see if he flirts a lot and acts like he likes you. but you should be somewhat reserved, at least at first, because if he ends up not liking you and you get a huge crush on him, it could hurt a lot in the end.
ok sorry this might be long!..i will rate if you read..!!
ok i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18...well lately weve been haveing some problems...1st off theres this girl *stacy* that he talks to and says it's his best friend well stacy's cuzin keyed my car while stacy was standing right there and it really bugged me cause stacy didnt stop her...well a couple days ago my boyfriend had called me and i told him i would call him back because i was getting in the shower...well when i got out i called him for an hour none stop and by the time i got ahold of him it was time for me to get off the phone with him...well turns out he was on the phone with Stacy..so i told him to call me back at 10 well i got tired of waiting so i called him well then at 10 the phone rings and it's this girl Molly yeah i really don't like this girl it's his "best freind" and she already caused some problems before in the realstionship thats why i don't like her anymore((she lives in maryland))((we live in georiga)) well anyways it pissed me off cause he got off the phone with me to talk to her...and said some bull crap like well i don't want anyone mad at me so i was like so you would rather have your girlfriend mad at you then her...
well he knows i don't like him talking to her or any other girls and it really herts...and then my mom was on the phone with stacy's mom ((talking about them keying my car)) well stacy's mom had told my mom that my boyfriend had gone over to stacy's house and has been calling stacy...well that really pissed me off beacuse he kept that from me and never told me...stacy's mom told my boyfriend not to come to the house or call stacy any more...but my boyfriend told me that stacy calls him...also i don't know if this will help but we do go to differnt schools and his going off to college next year
sorry that it's so long...but i just don't know what to do about all this...i will rate you for reading
it sounds like this guy might be too much of a player if he's got these girls that are all his 'best friends'. you need to talk to him and if he tells you he does things with them, then he does. if he tells you he doesn't, it's all just how much you trust him. but he might very well have these friends as just girls, and maybe even they like him. but that doesnt mean he likes them. he might only see them as friends and never really even thought about anything more with them.
What do you do if you're boyfriend is hot but he doesn't believe it?
hmm.. a lot of people are self-concious, and he might never really find himself attractive. but if he doesn't find himself attractive, then he likes it a lot when you let him know you think he is. reassurance of a good thing can never really be bad. but even if he doesnt say he finds himself attractive, he might still know it somehow and just not be able to say it, because he doesnt have enough self-confidence.
**Just want to thank everyone who responds to this. I know it's a long post and if you give me great advice, i WILL rate you HIGH**
There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(
-Crushin'
if he asked just you to go to the movies, then it's more likely to be more of a date, so you can flirt with him then and see what he does. also if you go to the movies together, that'd give you two some "us" time to talk.
I like this one guy in my class. I talk to him alot and we get along well. The thing is, first, he is a grade older then me (sophmore) and second, we are two way different people. He's really smart and kind of nerdy, I guess you could say. Also, hes more into a real relationship and doesn't seem like a shallow,"want to get some" guy. I, on the other hand have never had a real relationship because I always end up finding a shallow guy and I give it all away. I really want a true relationship and I have never liked a guy like him before, I guess my question is, how do I get a guy like him, what's he looking for in a girl, and does every guy just look for sex?
not every guy is in it for sex. sometimes you need to just take chances and trust your judgement, if he really seems like he's not the type that'd be in it for sex, then you can try it and see what happens. if he ends up only being in it for sex, then its not that bad, stuff happens, dump him. but if you let him go and it'd turn out he wouldnt be in it for sex, then you'd miss out on a lot.
ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now.
his ex gf is still in love with him and wont leave us alone. he feels guilty for leaving her for another girl and she wont stop trying with him. help !
it basically comes down to how you and him feel. he might feel bad about leaving her, that doesn't mean he still likes/loves her, and it doesnt mean he'd do the same thing, leave you for her. you need to sak him how he feels about her, and use your trust towards him for his answer. you can either trust him and what he says, or you can throw out your trust and let him go to her.