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i am 13 years old i love music such as heavy stuff like metallica and crap and some rap and country i have blue eyes,i am 5"7,i am kinda dark i love sports and hangin wit da frineds and my baby amber

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ok this is a dif. guy but i was wondering the same thing. I read all the answers of the last guy and i'm confused-some people say weird-some people say cute

i need to know this too pleez cause me and my gf are going to the movies 2 weeks from now!!!!!!!!

Ok well yea if you dont have a good connection with her then you might need to ask but she most likeky wants it I mean I am a guy amd I know how you feel but if you spend alot of time together all huged up and stuff then yea she will want you to and if she looks at you really sweet with her eyes kinda low GO FOR IT but if she kinda keeps her head turnd the whole movie then u better not attempt it but follow your heart i hope i helped

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ok.. so im totally in love with this guy. we've been together 4 abt 2-2 1/2 months now. i been trying to open up to him but its a little harder for me because im not used to having someone who cares so much about me. he's told me that i have nothing to worry about.. and honestly.. i dont think i do. but im afraid that something could happen.. i kno.. well.. i found out that he worries about me alot more than i thought he did.. and i told him i worry about him to.. and i told him what i worry about but before we started talking about that he said that he thought that worrying was something to deal with a lack of trust.. but i dont believe that.. im just wondering.. wat do you think i should do?.. from a guys point of view.. wat do you think i should do?..
Sincerely*
×The Worried Butterfly×

ok this one is really hard but i can try.if you you really love him and he really loves you you should just do what you think fills right if you want to open up to him then do it and beleave me i kno how you fill i have went thrue the same thing but like i said do wat fills right and everything will be ok fallow your heart ~*$*~kasey~*$*~

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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!

yes if you invited him it would mean you have 2 pay 4 him sorry but thats how it is...hope i helped









*$*kasey*$*

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hey well me n this guy started going out and he broke up with me cause I guess he just tstpped likeing me but we wer going out for like 3 weeks and I had liked him so much to the point where when it came to him asking me out.. I cared soo unbelivably much for him! after we broke up I still cared up for him and still do what can I do that will get him back or help me get over him because I am really heart brokenn.. and is this like weird?

no this is not wierd i was experianceing the same thing just the other day but with a girl not a guy b/c i am a guy but i should just give it time tell him how you feel and just b sweey flirt and hope 4 the best...hope i helped




*$*kasey*$*

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Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? please answer..i rate!!

yes it is right 4 a girl 2 ask a guy out b/c alot of guys are shy and wont ask a girl out even if they really like them b/c they are afraid of rejection and i would no b/c i am a guy myself but yea if u like a guy go 4it...hope i helped



*$*kasey*$*

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Please answer as sooon as you can!!
Welp i have been going out with this kid only about 2 weeks and we usualy hangout every day. Every day he also usually goes "down there" But i just got my period and i dont know what to tell him. I dont wanna just come out and be like.."no dont do it i have my period" but what should i say to him??? thankyouu!

ok from now on tell your age in these kinda questions... But u should just be nice if he starts 2 do somethin then just tell him its not the right time b/c your on your period he should understand...hope i helped




*$*kasey*$*

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okay-- the guy i like knows i like him and he keeps tellin me hes thinkin about me and he told me he could see me as a potential girlfriend... so how long do you think it would take for him to fainnaly ask me out?? ive already been waiting like 3 weeks (and im just a lil bit curious!!) thanks!!

ok really if you like him i think you should take the chance and ask him i mean if he says he likes you then mabey he does want 2 ask you but is afraid 2 b/c he is afraid you will reject him i am a guy myself and we r shy when it comes 2 girls we like but take the cnance see what happens...hope i helped




*$*kasey*$*

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ok.... well i have been going out w/ this boy for about 4 months now and i really love him alott!!!! so i am 14 and goin into high school and yaa. so and latley my boyfriend has wanted to go to 3rd base w/ my (down muh pants) i no he is ready and i trust him but i dont now if im still to young or if i should jus do it or wait mann i am so confused ill rate 5

well yes inmy apinion you are 2 young but thats me... so if you really love him and trust him then make him use a condom and if you are i nlove wit him i guess you should do it but go ahead and be safe follow your heart... have fun 8===D()

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hi.. okay well i like this guy ALOT! like i am in love with him and i would do anything for him and we r like good friends and we talk alot... but i no he would never like go out with me and he knows i like him and i really really like him so like wat should i do? thanks

well i was in this same situation till 10:00pm 2day b/c i realy love this girl and i didnt think we could ever date but we did and it is workin just right i think that you should just keep tryin and dont give up b sweet and go from there if it is ment 2 be it will happen but just do what i said and dont give up... kasey

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What do u do when the guy youve been going out with dumped you cause he wanted someone hotter?
age 13 gender female

you forget about him if he broke upwit u b/c he wantid some one hotter he is not worth your time and he dont care 4 u at all... just listin i kno im right hope i helped






*$*kasey*$*

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ok me n this guy are best friends but i really like him and he knows it....one time we were talking and i told him i still liked him and he said he was afraid of loosing the friendship we have so we hadnt talked about it for a while but now its summer and we always said we would go out during summer...but a while back i got fed up with waiting on him and dicided to just be his friend but inside i knew i will never be able to not love him like more then a friend ...so anyway i was almost over him and i went to camp for a week and right when i got home he called and was like i really missed you love you ...and tonight we were going to do somthing but i couldnt so he went over to another firnds house but he promised he wouldnt do anything with anyother girls ... does this mean he likes me ?? i hopw i made sence lol
thanks and ill rate=D

ok this 1 is hard but yes i think that means he does like you and that you should ask him out he will say yes and mabey if u date him u will actually like him even more you was best friends wit a girl and i never thought i could date her but now i am and i relized i loved her mabey it will work the same 4 you... hope i helped




*$*kasey*$*

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Okay, I am really confused!! A lot of guys at my school always talk to each other about how they are SO in love with me. But not one of them has asked me out at all during the whole year. And in class, all they do is gawk at me. I don't get it!

ok this should be easy if they say they are in love with you how do they show it are they sweet 2 you of mean if they dont ask u and they truely are in love with you then mabey they are just afraid of being rejectid by someone they really like if you like any of them then find the 1 u think would be the best and be the sweetist 2 you. thats realy all i can say i hoped i helped u...



*$*kasey*$*

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Ok, yes I'm the same person that's been writing the rumor questions. My boyfriend isn't coming to school the last few days and I can't get ahold of him on the phone, so I decided I wanted this advice now. Today me and my best friend were walking around the school and we started talking to one of my boyfriend's friends. My friend had her cell phone and said that I should call my b/f. And his friend said, "he's half gay." And we asked how he knew. And he said "cause he told us." Do you think this is reason to believe he is bi? And if it is what should I do? I mean as long as he loves me it doesn't really matter much, but still...it's wierd!

ok this 1 is ruff well i dont think that him bein gay would have anything 2 do with him not comin 2 school and u rlly gotta look at the statistics is his friend trustworthy is he know 2 lie if not then consider believin it but then again you should talk 2 your boyfriend and see what he says b nice and tell him that there is rlly no reason 2 have a relation ship if your not gonna be truthfull 2 each other be sweet see what he says. i hope i helped...

*$*kasey*$*

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ok i have liked this guy since maybe second grade. i still like him a lot. the thing is there's a dance and i asked him to it. and i was so happy when he said he would go with me if he goes to the dance! yeah for me right? wrong. my friends were like forcing him to him to actually say yes. well i felt really bad so i was planning to talk to him alone about it but i don't have the guts to go ask him to go talk with me for a minute or 2 because he's always around his best friend who i absoulutly hate. then i got the feeling he really doesnt want to go with me to the dance and wants go with someone else and not me. i am fine with that but i don't know how to tell him that. then just yesterday my friends from a different class went to his house and made him feel horrible. the thing is i dont know who it was and he wouldn't tell me who it was so i am totally lost right now. so i guess my questions are: how do i ask him if he doesnt want to go with me or not? dont say aim cause he only signs on past 9 oclock and thats when i have to shut my computer down. next is: should i ask him if he is really mad at my friends for making him say yes? also: how do i talk to him in person without his best friend? finally: how do i actually talk to him daily and normally? help me please!

well first it sounds like you need 2 git better friends that wont fill srry for you and it sounds like they do and about him well just build up the guts 2 ask him it will be ok the worst thing he can do is say no... i hope i helped




*$*kasey*$*

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I really like dis dude alot but we are friends and he has told peeps that he dont like me but i'm not going too tell him how I feel cuz i am scared of rejection. I wanna be more than friends wif him but trust me he don't feel the same what should i do? help!

well ok this is rough you should just give it time be sweet and see how it goes if you rlly like him he will relize how much u care and he will start 2 like you 2. thats realy all i can say





*$*kasey*$*

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ok me and my boyfriend have been together 4 a year and 4 months we've been through some problems like any good relationship has but i've never had a problem with him cheating. now he is at job corps which is somewhere u can get ur GED and pick up a trade he's been there 4 2 months and its 2 hrs. away from me now i've seen him about 4 times since he's been up there but its kinda hard because transportation is a problem 4 me and he has all these restrictions up there since he's under 18...now he has alot a bad influence on him up there and all his so called friends are trying to hook him up with other girls even though he made it clear he has a girl and the girls up there are hoes so they dont care so i been stressin alot because im scared of what he might do escpecially since he has all them people trying to influence him in the wrong ways. i trust him but theres distrust in my heart. i love him so much so i know if he was doing something it would break my heart so i would have to leave him cause i couldnt deal with knowin he did somethin with no other girl it just dont feel right and i couldnt stay with him knowin without a shadow of a doubt i could never trust him. its really hard escpecially simce im being faithful and im worried he not thats what really make me stressed but i just dont know what to do to stop myself from stressin over this and he has always had a problem with expressin his feelings so i have no comfort there cause im not sure how he feel sometime. if i really didnt love hime with all my heart i wouldnt be so worried but i do and i cant take anymore heartbreak.i've tried many times to tell him how i feel but i just dont know if he understand and i try to make him understand cause im never sure if he does which cause us to get in arguments sometime.i just wanna be stress free and i dont know how to do that... aight this is the deal...i usually dont ask for advice cause im a very independent person but i always give good advice to others... recently i've realized that i just cant help myself and give myself the same good advice i give to others so please any advice that anyone might give me make it realistic cause i know bullshit advice when i hear it..thanks

Ok hears the situation your b/f is abt 2 hours away from you and he has his so called friends tryin 2 git him hooked up with another girl eventho he told them playnly he already had someone. well i should be able 2 help you b/c i have been in the same situation but hears what you should do, you should stop stressin out and let destyney take you where it wants. If he is up there and he cheats on you he is not worth yuor time you can find someone alot better than him but if he truly loves you every thing will be ok but if you truly love him you should trust him and see what happens. But dont stress if he loves you every thing will be ok hope i helped...

*$*KASEY*$*

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