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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?

*melissa 15 (link)
Well If you dont want her to get mad you shouldnt however shes your friend and if you tell her you like him she shouldnt get mad at you because its juss how you feel and besides no1 can blame u for your feelings.


ok so, last night i went to a party and met this really cool guy. he's a friend of one of my ex's. he said it was a birthday party when he invited me so one of my friends wouldnt feel lonely. well i found out later that the party is for his girlfriend. but he really wants to end the relationship. she controls him all the time. and so idk i just kinda like him. and he called me up last night and we talked for a couple of hours and he asked me out on a date tonight so we can get better aquainted. it seems fine to me but im just not sure, hes 18 and im 16, which isnt bad because ive dated 18 yr olds before, like all last year. i just dont really kno what to do. is being interested in him wrong?
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Hunny your heart cannot be wrong.If you dig this guy you should totally take the chance and see if you guys have a Spark between u 2.Try some dates out and if things go good you're gonna score with a bf. lol . Hope i helped yea.


Ok.....i think that black guys are sooooooo much hotter the white guys. i'm white. i would love to go out with a black guy cuz they are over all soooooooooo much better. but if i did my parents would kill me!!!! any advice? i give 5's!!! (link)
Well hun i would first sit down with your parents and tell them what your into in a guy then say that maybe going for a change in dating black guys and tell them you really want their support in their decisions and hopefully it all works out hun.


My friend is throwing a party and invited my crush. The thing is my friend said that I have to tell my crush by the end of the party that I like him or she will. I know I have to tell him I just don't want to deal with the potential heartbreak right now. Should I talk to my friend and hopefully convince her not to do it or just tell my crush? Oh and if I tell him his ex is probably gonna be close by since she's invited too... I rate high for good advice! Thanks! (link)
Well i would tell your friend that you dont feel the time is right for him to know you like him.If your friend doesnt tell that means she'll respect your decision.When you feel comfortable telling him or when the right time comes you should.Hope i helped


i am 18 years old i have been with this man for about 4 years now but he have been with other woman but i still love him i try to move on with my life but i can not i need help (link)
Well hun you need to realise what hes doing isnt right I kno you love him alot but there is another guy out there who will not do that to you.You deserve better than that.Cause once a cheater always a cheater but thats just my opinion.I hope I have helped.


ok so theres this guy and i like him so much and i know theres probably nothing i can do but...i need to, i have to, i hate being without him...its crazy and it all happened so fast and i dont know what to do...but look...i like him he likes me but he doesn't want a relationship...id like one, because i want that commitment. i want him to be mine and only mine....you know...what do i do !?!?! help please please help.. (link)
Well hun kinda sounds like your getting too into him you should start off by being his friend then when you think its right tell him how you feel about him however use your words wisely you dont wanna sound like a stalker girl! so just take some time


so i wanna know if i like this boy for real, or if its just a crush! SO HELP!!!, ohk well i odnt really talk to the guy i mean i've danced more then i've talked with him, we were at a party and he told me to dance so i told him he looked very cute & he said that i did to, the whole time we were dancing i got the vibe that he liked me & then we were holding hands cause that's how you danced the kind of music & i felt so comfortable... and we kept laughing cause there was this funny dude ... but anyways and when we did laugh we looked into each others eyes ... it was awsome & when he danced with someone else, i got so mad! so what i want to know is if i like this boy or if i think i do. remember i dance with him more then i talk to him! (link)
Well I would have to say that this may be a crush! Try talking to him more and getting to know him so you can be more positive on your thoughts.Getting mad when he danced with someone else is normal you mightve thought he was going to get to like that girl but try telling him that you like him and maybe try asking him first what he thinks about you


Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years..we have been recently getting in arguments about stupid stuff really..but he said hes starting to think that i dont care about him.. i really do care about him alot..How do i prove to him that i havent lost my love for him? (link)
Well hun your boyfriend shouldnt think things like that first of all.Try sitting down with him hold his hand look into his eyes and tell him that you love him alot and just let out all your feelings and let him know that you get hurt when he thinks you dont care about him and hopefully he'll see you really do care and feel love for him.


This is gonna sound confusing but, my best friend that i knew for about 6 years now has this really hot brother, hes about my age. He likes me and i like him! But she doesnt want us going out and she keeps making up excuses on why we shouldnt. She doesnt know i like him and im afraid if i do tell her she will get upset and be rude about it. And plus i think it will feel a little weird going out with my best friends brother! HELP i am soo confused (link)
Well sweetie just tell your friend in an honest talk say that i know you might not like this but i like your brother and he likes me too and you want to go out with him.If your friend gets mad over that then she isnt a very good friend now is she?If she is a good friend she'll support your decision 100%.


alright, i like this kid, and we've hung out and stuff, and i've liked him since i first met him, then when i started to get to know him more i liked him more and more as we went along, we stopped talking for a while [ we both had a lot going on ] and then the other night he IMed me and we went for a walk, i started liking him allll over again. i'm not sure if i should tell him i like him or not, because i don't want things to be really weird, & because if he doesnt like me back i dont want to deal with his friends [who are semi- my friends too ] knowing about it because it'll make them weird around me too.

sorry its so long, i tried to give a lot of info :\ (link)
Hun you should let your feelings out about him and tell him.Take him to a nice quiet spot and just sit down with him and tell him you like him if he likes hanging with you and stuff like that you might get the same response and hopefully you too can become more.


i have this guy in our neighborhood who likes me. but the problem is he is shy around me... what should i do? (link)
Hunny you need to let him know that your into him too.Hes shy because he might think you may reject him.Try hanging out together getting to know each other and maybe you might score with a boyfriend...Cha ching! lol Enjoy it and be friendly




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