I am such a person to stress over anything you can ask any of my friends and they will tell you that I have been through about everything that you can imigne! Please don't be imbarresed about the way you look or the way that god made you. I have a friend who is obssed with her ears..She says that they are too big?!?! She dosen't even like to go swimming becasue her ears are too big!! I told her to be herself and that is all that she needs to do to fit in!
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ok.........my friend Casey, wanted to bring her boyfriend, me and my boyfriend to the movies on Friday...but im soooo dissappointed with myself but i truley feel my boyfriend will be like "GEEZE! WHY IS SHE HANGING AROUND THAT UGLY THING?" And im really really really nervous about it. Like if he'll talk about her behind her back to me or one of his friends. How do i prevent this?? (link)
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well she is your frind and yoiu HAVE to stand up for her! Let her come nd if he talks about her then please say something to him. I mean tell him that you are her friend and that you love her for her actions not her apperence!! OO and By the way My name is casey!lol! Good luck and I hope that I helped!
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What should you talk about when your on a date or movies etc?? Im always scared its going to be uncomfterable and its going to be silent! please help! i give EASY 5s! (link)
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You can talk about ANYTHING!! lol! Talk about what your next date is going to be. If you are at the movies ask him about the movie. Pretend that you don't know anythng about it...say if you think that it is going to be good or bad..If you start talking then it will lead to more convo!!
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me ((gurl))nd mii cousin ((boy))r really close but i think i mite have some feelingz 4 him in some way ... wat should i do ???
signed,
feelingz for family (link)
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Ok....that one is really hard and I may know where you are comeing from. See it is not exzactly right to date or have a relationship with family other than the one that is already made genitcly.But, It depends on what cusin he is, If he is your firdt, or second then you have something to worry about. But third and p is really considerd distant and if you have fellings for him that are really strong maybe you should consider telling him. If he was your first or second cousin I would really try to keep inside how I felt although you like him so verry much! I really hope tha i have helped and I hope that you work things out!
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I feel so idk any more. Every boy i been with has used me for sex but they never got it so they dumped me. I ment this really sweet boy and at his party last weekend we fucked. Were not going out but we tell each other we love one another. I care bout him so much. His house cought on firer and i feel really bad. I care about him so much and i dont think he noes. This last week ive been trying to be with him as much as i can cause he moving this weekend really far. Im gonna miss him and ive been crying so much. Im so scared i might do something that i dont wanna do. What should i do? (link)
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Let this boy know how you feel in some way and tell him that you need to get together sometime. Make phones calles at least three times a week and try to see each other once wvery mother for like a weekend! That is what my friend and her boyfriend do becasue she lives at the bech and we live like really far away from that like five hours! But they always make some sort of plain!
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Okay,so me and this guy have been together for about 10 months, and he is completely faithful to me, like he doesn't even talk to other girls hardly ever, and he never hangs out with any other girls but me. But the other night he went to a party last minute and was completely wasted, and girls showed up and one locked him into a bedroom with her and started coming onto him, they ended up having sex. I found out about this a few days later, and he completely regrets it and he siad he had really no clue what was really going on that it went fast. we broke up, but we sitll talks and he says he wants nothing more than to be with me.. and like hes not even that kind of guy.he's not forceful, aggressive, or anything in that naturee if u know what i mean? and i mean we really had something speciall and i dont know what to do.. just let him go or try and makes thigns work? what do u think
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I completly understand what you are going through! And it is partly this guys fault for getting wasted in the first place!But the girl also caused most of the damage by knowing the he didn't know what was going on! So I would talk to this boy and tell him that it really hurt you and you don't apricate what happened and that you still love him too but you don't know what to do. If you won't to be back with him and still have feelings for him then say it and tell him that you do. Maybe you should say yes if you think that he was that devoted to the relationship. Maybe he really didn't know what was going on and needed help in making disions! I really hope that this relationship works out and that you all get back together becasue it sounds like you had someonething really wounderful! Give feedback and let me know if I helped I hope that i did!
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hi.. okay well i like this guy ALOT! like i am in love with him and i would do anything for him and we r like good friends and we talk alot... but i no he would never like go out with me and he knows i like him and i really really like him so like wat should i do? thanks (link)
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I know this isn't helping you much but If the guy dosent like you then he dosen't like you... But maybe he dosn't won't to rush into a relationship! Tell him how you feel even though he already knows probbly from just hearing things arond. I say look at it this way...you sound like you are a really great friend and I think that you and this guy have a really great friendship by the way you explaineed it so itf you ever do go out with the guy then there is probbly going to be a brake up! Maybe not but probbly so is it worth risking what you already have for something that may not last? I hope I halped and I hope that your relationship works out. Best a' wishes!
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I'm a 15 years old girl, and have had 1 boyfriend, which was a joke. I have been asked out numerous times, but each time I deny them. I allways find something about the guy that doesnt work. I have just come to conclusion that I'm afriad. I'm afraid to fall for someone, that might actually feel the same. I'm afriad to get my heartbroken.
I have helped many of my friends battle through heartbreaks, and from hearing and learning from this makes me wonder why even bother dating if they are just going to end tradgicly? I feel like i'm holding back, and I dont want to hold back anymore.
Can you give me advice on getting over this feeling?
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love can last swettie!If you see somenthing you sdon't like ina guy give it a chance and he cold be the one! I mean you are 15 and you only have three years untial marrige could be something that you decide to do. Not all guys are mean and crazy. say yes next time someone askes you out that you think you might have feelings for in any way. Don't worry about the future. Yo will get over a heartbrake! Belive me I have had plenty! I hope that you find the perfect guy!
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Ok theres this guy i like. We hung out this one weekend with one of my friends and like 2 of his friends and he was there. Well the whole night he acted like..he liked me..he was directing everything towards me and all his friends think that he likes me. Well i go over to my friends house all the time..and we always invite him over to do something or just go out and do something and hes always.."gone somewhere". Either his mom wont let him or hes really gone. Well his friends always jokes around that he lieks me and i was wondering. Do you think he doesnt wanna hang out because of me? (link)
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I serously don't think so...If he won'ted to be with his friend he would be and you would get ignored...Next time that you ask him to do something and he says that he is too busy just say somenthing lke omg again...and then laugh..say i can't wait until I gt to spend some time with you so maybe next time! I hope this works for ya!
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Alright so there is this guy that I like. I want to get his attention, make him maybe like me back. I want to like dress better and look better and stuff but im not exactly sure what to do.. I think he might have liked me at one point to but im not sure. Do you know anyways I could get him to hang out with me? or anyways I could make myself look better.. or anyways to get his attention or anything? please help.. anything will help..
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Let him knw that you have your eye on him and make sure that you get noticed even if it means stepping on his toe and then laughin about it...I mean do something that wiill make him see you. And I mean don't over do it and punch him in the stomich every 5 mins. But be there. lol! ok...maybe that dosen't make much since but just make sure that he notices you is the point! Be te kind of girl that it seams like he would like...Flirt with him! Be crazy but your self the same time. Think that personial qualitys do I look for in a guy like...Funny, crazy, ect,, and try to have some of those qualitys!I sawre I think guys like crazy girls!
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wow i dont even know where to begin. i'm 15m, my name is jake. just like at every school, theres that group of people who are popular and stuff right? well i was new to this school, and i kinda just joined this group. the thing is, in that group, theres guys and girls and they all have their own love triangles, but when i got in there all the girls liked me. and well at my friends party, rachel, kelly, may, sarah and i were having a little fun in a room, if you know what i mean. and well a some my friend walked in. before i could say anything he just left, and when we got done putting on our cloth he was gone. so i just went home form the party, cuz i was embrassed. so wow, this is bound to be extremely ackward to explain to the group, since all the guys in that group like one of the girls that i uh.. had fun with. what should i do? should i just find new friends? (link)
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No you shouldent fimd new friends. You should tell then that you didn't really think before you did what you did. Tell them that you are sorry and that you didn't mean anything by it that you were just looking to have some fun and you ended up in a bad situation if they are really your friends then they will let it go!
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ok my girlfriend has a abusive dad. hes always drunk and beating her. yesturday when i was visiting my girl, he was beating her up, i just got really mad. i couldnt control my self and i pushed him away. and i guess he was drunk and i was really angry he would beat up katy like that, but i beat him up pretty bad. am i right? (link)
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Yes you are so right and i fell for you! You need to let someone know that can do something about this! If the police knew then would it brake katies heart? I mean they really do need to know! Does she love him? Please help her tell someone. And by the way standing up for her was the best tinng that you could have done in that siutation!
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Im in love with this guy, and he always tells me he loves me. Well I just found out from a friend that he had feelings for a short time on another girl. He never knew that I knew, and he always told my friend it was just a short time, and he doesnt like her anymore, and he hates himself for thinking like that about another girl. Well its been a couple weeks since that happend, but I still cant help but feel hurt and to feel like he'll do it agian. Im only 14 and I dont want to be hurt so badly so young, but I dont want to break up with him..what should I do? please help I'll Rate High! (link)
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tell this guy that you have so strong feelings for that you have really strong feelngs for him. lol! Tell him that you love him but if he won'ts the relationship to end then you had rather do that than be holding on to someone who dosen't have feelings for you. Tell him that it will brake you'r heart to see him go but if that is what needs to happen to satisfy him then so be it! Good luch and I hope that I helped!
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im 15 and so is my gf. She is "Emotionally unstable" as in she used to cut(but stoped for 6 months) and crys to the easist things.how can i break up with her so i dont hurt her feelings too bad. She really really likes me and so does her family (mom, dad,&bro.).we've been going out for 2 and 1/2 months. plz help me. (link)
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Hey man...Don't worry about it. If you just won't to be friends then tell her. If not say I think that we should satrt talking to other people. If she crys tell her that you are there for her any time and that shee can call you to talk. She will get over you I sware. It will just take time. Trust me! I am an emotnial girl too and I understand!
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Ok my cousin has this friend and i've met him and all he's really nice and he likes her but she don't really like him he's a real true christain boy. I want to go out with him. What do i say to get him to go out with me . I need help here. (link)
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thats a really hard question to answer becasue I don't know if the boy likes you too...But if he does then I wouldent ask him out until I got to know him. You should really be yourself around him and don't be shy.Be funny but don't over do it..If you know what I mean. If you think that he is really a great guy then you should tell him that you won't to spend more time together and that you think he is cute. I would not just go up and say will you go with me if you just like him for his looks. Try spending time together and I I hope things work out...
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