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Age: 18
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18/f
Freshman college student.
I hang out with 3 other girls who live down the hall from me. One of the girls has liked a sophomore guy(Drew) since the beginning of school. He helped her move in to her dorm. I always knew who he was but we never talked more than a few words in a group conversation. Well Friday night 2 of the 3 girls and some guys including Drew were hanging out. We started drinking and my friends left because they're uncomfortable with it so I stayed back with the guys. I had never really hung out with any of them much before but I wasn't ready to go to bed. We ended up hanging out until 5 in the morning.
Saturday night. The same thing happens, all the girls and the same guys are hanging out. The guys were drunk, I didn't have any but the girls were uncomfortable again and left around 11. Me and Drew had started up our own conversation, isolating ourselves from the group and didn't even notice the girls leave. At around 1:30am the guys went to bed, leaving me and Drew on the floor of the common room talking. We talked until 6:30am! About everything, relationships, jobs, family, sex, school, our major (everyone I've mentioned are all in the same major). At 6:30 people started waking up and came out and saw us still sitting on the floor so we decided it was best if we went to bed. He asked for my number, walked me to my door and then he left.
Sunday, we were all working late hours on projects in the studio and I was most likely going to pull an all nighter. Drew, who usually would visit my friend at her desk was now visiting me more frequently and my friend definitely noticed. She had stopped talking to me, gave Drew an attitude, and gave us both dirty looks. He didn't want to talk to someone who gave him an attitude for no reason so he just continued to stay at my desk and ignore my friend. I have yet to flirt with him! And he always comes to me but my friend is still mad. She has a very bubbly personality and doesn't know how to flirt, so I'm sure he's clueless that she likes him. I have been myself the whole time and he hasn't stopped talking to me since that night when we stayed up. Well my friend left the studio at 4 in the morning without a goodbye. We were supposed to walk back together so we didn't have to walk in the dark alone but instead she just left without me. So I stayed and finished my project until 6 when Drew and I decided to call it quits. He walked me to my room again and then left to go to his dorm.
Today we were texting and his response to something I said was "You are sooo awesome, how have we never talked before?"
I don't know what to do. The only reason I haven't flirted with him is because of my friend's feelings towards him but he doesn't have feelings for her at all and her bitchy behavior lowered the chances of that ever happening. She's turning the group against me for 'stealing her man' even though she never told him she liked him and I never flirted. If he likes me, I'm sorry but thats not my fault so I don't deserve an attitude. I thought college was about growing up and getting away from childish behavior and drama.
What do I do? I see them both everyday. (link)
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You really should just explain to her that your intentions were not to try and steal this drew guy. Its not your fault that Drew likes you and not your friend (but dont tell her that lol). She is just acting like she is in high school and seriously if you guy are in college she definitly needs to grow up or isnt a true friend obviousllyy! Hope I helped =)
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Ok everyone please try not to make tooo much fun of me, but I am 25 and never had a boyfriend. I guess what I am asking is simple: Is my life over? Is there any hope if you haven't had a boyfriend by 25?
I don't know what I am doing wrong. I just haven't found anyone that I find really interesting yet.
Should I stop waiting for interesting just to have someone in my life? Is it better to be bored WITH someone than bored without someone? I don't know anymore! Help!
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Omgg stop!! Your life is not over. You are so YOUNG!! Be lucky that your pure and dont have any loose baggage in the past lol. You will find someone eventually and it will be love :)
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 and half months now, shes 16 and Im 18.. For almost the first 4 months, we would see each other everyday and hangout all the time. But in the last three weeks, she has been hanging out with her friends way more which means I have been pushed aside. I asked her about it and she said it's because she thinks that her friends wont be around for ever and she wants to have fun with them while she can. Why do you think this is happening all of a sudden? Does it mean something? How should I confront her about it? Any advice I can get would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance. (link)
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No it shouldnt mean anything, you should just tell her how you feel and tell her that YOU want to hang out with her more. You guys just need to balance your time spent together more and spent not together. Your girlfriend needs to have friends and you need t have your friends! You both should do stuff other then hanging out with just eachother..you will appreciate each other more =)
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okay so yea theres this guy im a sohpmore and i see him in the hallway all the time. i think hes is really cute. i know friends who i think know him but im not sure what to do? help please. (link)
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Okay well make sure every time you see him look at him get his attention and smile at him :) If he does the same back then you know he is most likely interested! After a week or so doing those little things (if he doesnt) start talking to you say Hi one day. Or ask him a stupid question about school or something totally random. And then start asking your friends that know him about him and just simply get to know him! It wont be hard :)
Hope I helped :)
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My boyfriend calls me every night and I absolutely love talking to him but I don't know what to talk about any more. It seems like we've talked about most things and I don't want to sound stupid and repeat myself over and over. I also try not to talk about sex because we both want to wait until we're married (maybe to each other in the future even, which would be so awesome!). I need some really good topics to talk to him on the phone about.
So, what are some topics you talk about on the phone with your boyfriend? ANYTHING is appreciated! (link)
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*how your day was
*watch television together (on the phone) and talk about that
*childhood memories..funny moments..etc..
*upcoming events/school stuff/holidays etc
*make sure to ask him how he is an how his day was
i dont know me and my boyfriend usually watch tv whle were on the phone and we talk about that or we will talk about our day..and stuff!
hope i helped :)
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im 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m. We have been dating for a little over one and a half years and honestly our relationship is really special. I know im in love with him, this isnt some little high school thing and we both could seriously see ourselves getting married in the future, but we havent seriously talked about it, just a few thoughts we had. So, about a month before the one year anniversary, he asked my mom what my ring size was. She didnt tell me, but when i saw her take my ring out of my room, bc she didnt know the size, i asked her and then she told me chris askd for it. so i thought he was going to give me a promise ring, you know? so hes had my ring since then, and i forgot about it for a little while until i was looking through the pictures and saw me wearing the ring. I really dont want to bring it up, but i was just asking on what you think of the matter. Why would he ask for my ring size if hes not planning on giving me a ring? and if he did get me the ring, why hasnt he given it to me? do you think hes having second thoughts or something? I know hes not using me, im planning on waiting until marriage for sex, nad we talked about it and hes fine with that. He is definitely not cheating on me, and we see each other almost every night and i see him in school every day. I just dont know what to think about this. I couldnt get it out of my head for like 2 months and now its in my head again. please, tell me what you think, girls and guys opinions. thankyouu :) (link)
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Well he could be still planning on giving you a ring..You know like maybe if your birthday is coming up ? or Christmas? Or maybe he WAS going to get you a ring but decided not to? Idk..if you really need to know then just ask him lol..hes your boyfriend what is the worse that could happen? And then you will find out the truth! Hope i helped :)
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so me and my girlfriend have been fighting for the past few days and she says i need to decide if im ready to settle down and this is what i want because she dont think its what i want. we moved intoour relationship a little fast but at times i do wish i could spend more time with my family she thinks i need to stay with her all the time and gets upset if i leave there early to be with family. at times i do miss being single so i can hang out with family whenever and my mom because I am really close to her but at times i kno i would be so miserable because i do want to be with you and we were planning to move out in 8 months what swhould i do? (link)
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Okk..you need to ask yourself if 1. Do you really want to move-in with her? and 2. Are you happy with her?
If your yes to those questions then great, you just need to tell her how you feel. If she doesnt understand then, well thats her problem and you need to move on. Hopefully she will understand bc you cant be with her 24/7 time apart is good sometimes.
And if your answers are no to my questions, then do not move in with her, and pretty much just end your relationship while you can, b,c honestly it wont be worth it if she is going to be like that. Hope i helped!
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hey , i was wondering if you can help me write an essay on shoplifiting.
--on why shoplifting is not good at all
and second how to make better decisions .
can you please tell me an idea on how to start .thanks (link)
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http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/problems/shoplifting.html
visit that link..it should help!
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Im getting really stressed out because im 19 and i have not had a proper girlfriend yet. I think about it everyday. But the problem is im really nervous about meeting people (social phobia) and all the time im being reminded of the fact that everyone else my ag has gotten layed and i havnt kissed anyone properly yet.Also im not an ugly person but my clothing and haircut leave something to be desired.if i dont sort this out soon it might never happen. what should i do? (link)
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Okay you are fine!! You are still young, dont worry about not ever having a girlfriend..that is good believe it or not. Tell one of your friends or even a girl cousin or sister that you want to get a "make-over" for your hair and clothes. They will be so excited to help you!! And trust me once you find the girl that you want..just go for her the worse she could say is No. Time will tell trust me! Hope I helped
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alright soo when we first started dating my boyfriend used to wear alot of this amazingg cologne and i really liked it...like i would alwayss want to be pretty much on top of him cause of it haha.. now he wears this new cologne that i don't like at all...how do i tell him this without hurting his feelings? should i buy him cologne i like for the holidays and tell him i'm in love with it or something? decembers pretty far though so idk what to do. help pleasee. (link)
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Just tell him. Dont be mean about it though, just be nice. Heres what to say "I really liked that cologne you USED to wear" Trust me it wont hurt his feelings about the cologne he wears, its just cologne. Unless he is in love with it lol.
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so there is this guy, he only wants me because i almost grinded on him. I'm only seventeen, and I know that i'm not supposed to take any relationships at this age too seriously or anything like that....its just basically about dating a lot of guys and getting to know what i really like and don't like, and just having fun. He is hot, but he is a player. Should i let him in? or should i not? or should i just let him in and just have fun without taking anything too seriously? (link)
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Okay If he is giving you alottttt of attention and hinting that he realllllly likes you then yes go for him. But if he is just like "lets hang out!" He just wants to hook up. Dont do that. If you really like him and he really likes you then yes you guys will be okay. But dont get your selfl hurt.
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