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I really like this guy but i think he might only be looking for a hookup..(because he likes someone else too and whenever their around he hangs out with them) im for sure he really does like me so how can i show him that im serious about this and i dont just want to mess around??
Also my friend has band practice with him and she was going to be like "yea she decided that if your not gonna ask her out soon shes just gonna not bother messing around with you anymore" im not sure if this is such a great idea what do u guys think??
well you dont wanna force him to ask you out, you know? i wouldnt want someone to ask me out only because of that... so i would just confront him and ask him what exactly he wants out of this
Long story short, I had a boyfriend who I was completely head over heels for and after being together for 9 wonderful months his dad got a job up north so he had to move, which was the cause of our break up. We still love each other more than anything and I broke up with him because I didn't want to have to feel tied down or worry about the possibilities of cheating, being that we would be in a long distance relationship. Well, he still has family down here so he comes to visit like once every two months and of course he makes sure to visit me when he's down here. It's just that everytime I see him I want to be with him again and he feels the same way but at the same time everytime he goes back up north I try my best to forget about him and move on. I just feel like it's easy to develop a new feeling of love for somebody but so hard to get rid of the old feelings from a previous relationship. Should I consider long distance or no? I'm not really sure what to do. Please help :]
how old are you? i was in the same situation, and i did long distance for a year (a 2 and a half year relationship total). we have broken up and still remain very close because we were so in love, and still truly care/love each other. but honestly the distance really did tear our relationship apart. i became someone that i never was and never wanted to be: jealous, suspicious, etc. if you feel that theres a possibility you might cheat on him or vice versa i suggest leaving things as they are...otherwise it could ruin the friendship you still have. if you are juniors or seniors you could think about getting back together after highschool if its really love
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i like this guy ryne and idk if he likes me..but i got some advice and it was like ask him out to the movies & smile
well i have a problem for you :
1. I CANT GO OUT FOR THE MOVIES-my parents are like really crazy. im 14 and not allowed to go to the movies alone :[... and besides..i dont like talking to my parents about boys and stuff.and NO im not going to lie..been there dont that.
2.i cant smile pretty bc i have braces.they are bright green OMGGGGG i hate themmmmmmmmm
so yeah. how do i flirt with him when all my options are stupid??
why not try asking him to hang out at your house and watch a movie? or come over to do hw one day or something? you can tell your parents he's helping you w/ an assignment or vice versa. as far as your smile, who cares about braces? i'm sure you have a beautiful smile whether or not you have braces. and if he does like you, he won't care one bit! trust me-guys like girls that are fun and HAPPY, not someone who doesn't ever laugh or smile!
Pls help me. What should I do? Im inlove to a young girl,she is 9 years old????Im already 15 now?!! Is it bad? Im thinking im very stupid. I keep avoiding it but it hurts. What should I do pls?? Help help!!!
how can you be in love w/ a nine year old? thats disgusting. seriously.
Okay, if you are going somewhere with a guy that you think that you really might like, and they try to kiss you but your not ready for that, what can you do, or even say, to not kiss them, but make them want the kiss that much more?
Confused.
for a sassy, intriguing response:
"i never kiss on the first date"
"i never kiss on the first date...but ask me out again and you might get a surprise..."
"let's save that for a little later"
"these lips are in great demand lately, i have to choose carefully. show me that i'm gonna make the right decision"
or you could always just go with, "i really like you but i'm not ready for that yet"
aiight this guyfriend of mine loves me and i dont really like him. i think he's gonna ask me out when i go back to school. hes a great guy and all but i have no physical attraction to him at alllll. i mean a guy doesnt have to be goodlooking for me to like them but i mean i need to at least have a connection. with my friend theres nothing. i would say no but... during vacation ive been thinking about him a TONN. im like obsessing over him. but i dont like him that way?? [i dont think] if he asks me out, should i give him a chance?
thxx all
that's happened to me too. although you're not attracted to him physically, you are flattered by the attention. if you are attracted to him emotionally and mentally, maybe you should see how it goes. don't say yes to going out with him yet because you don't like him. but don't shut the door. see how things go and maybe later down the road...something will happen!
ok well my boyfriend Matt asked me to sneak out at like 1:00am to go to his house because his brother is having a party and his parents are not home. Well i dont no if i should cuz i might get busted cuz its sortof a school tomarrow (delayed opening) . But i really do want to go withim! Plez help!!
p.s im 14
I wouldn't go. There are plenty of oppurtunities to hang out with your boyfriend. If you get caught there could be bad consequences. Besides, your parents would lose all trust in you. But thats just how I feel. Do what you feel is best! ♥
i'm forteen and i have never really had as serious boyfrined. Is there something special to look for in a guy? How do i know if hes the right one??? help please
Loyalty, honesty, trustworthy, respects girls, similar personalities or interests (at least something to talk about), into you, sweet, romantic... those are just some things I look for. My boyfriend has all of these but I must admit only about 1 in a million guys are like this at our age!
ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do?
Nothing is wrong with you, you probably just haven't found the right guy yet. Some peopel aren't even allowed to date at 14, so don't worry about that. And as for being kissed... don't you want it to be special? Wait until you've got a guy you really like, and then get close to him. He will want to kiss you Trust Me!!! Guys always want to kiss... but Don't become slutty and just give it up to anyone, they won't respect you. Just have some more confidence and flirt with guys, get their sn's or numbers and chat them up. When you see them at school, be really friendly but not all in their faces. Be yourself and have fun. If you need any tips on makeup or boys or anything that you think would help, drop one in the inbox! ♥
well i have a b/f who has this, "i dont care, get out my face" additude to everyone but me and my family.He gets poor grades and comes from a low-class family.
I have been told I have a good additude, I get straight A's, and I come from a high-middle class family.We are also the opposite race.
Everyone tells me I could do better than him and he'll only bring me down. But I'm the only person he really trusts and respects, and we both really care about each other.(we've been going out for about 9 months.)What should I do? Forget about him and find someone with a better status, or stay with him and help him?
Never stay with someone because you "want to help them". You should still with him if you love him and want to be with him. But not to help him, that's not the kind of love a relationship should be based on. Trust me on this one. It shouldn't matter if he is the opposite race, class, or grade status, it matters how he makes you feel. As far as grades, try to motivate him a little... I don't know how old you are but if you want to have a family with him, you'll both need good jobs.
I think you should think about whats really at stake here. If he is all you've ever wanted, and he makes you feel happy and in love, then stay with him. If he is not doing that and is causing you pain, break up with him. Good luck. If you need more help just ask. ♥
Hey babe, i'm at ur house! this thing is cool. you give great advice! You are soo hot. I hope I'm doing this right. Bye!
haha
Make it short and sweet. Met the girl at the gym,talked for awhile. Gave me her number,then when I call it she tells me she's got a bf. I think it's a lie and she would really want me to rot in hell. What does anybody else think in here? Was she lying, or if she wasn't, why'd she waste my time in the first place? I'm an 18 year old guy. I want RussianMailman to answer my question,too. I need a good laugh.
She probably really liked you when she met you at the gym, but she might have a bf. She probably just got caught up in the flirting at the gym and thought u were really cute. But she thought that you should know she has a bf? ♥
Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =]
My boyfriend is 2 years older than me. We have a really special bond, so I belive its possible that you two really like eachother. But if he cares about you, he won't pressure you or listen to his friends. These are the types of situations that test your values and morals and strength as a person. Be strong. Don't have sex, or oral sex for that matter because you don't want to and are only 13 years old. He is more mature and at his sexual peak. He chose you, knowing your age, so he has to deal with the consequences of you not being ready. It's up to you but I think you know not do smoke weed or go further sexually. ♥
If I were to make-out with someone with braces and I have braces would anything happen? Like would the wires get stuck together?? Thanks! xox!
I highly doubt it. Just don't clash your teeth together. ♥
I have a boyfriend and he's really sweet, but he dosen't live near me really.There's this other guy who goes to my church & today I told him I liked him & he likes me.I'm going to tell my b/f that I really don't feel a connection between us but I feel really bad about it.And when I found out he liked me, he wrote my name in a heart on his arm...& now I'm going to break up with him!¿!
What's wrong with me!¿!Plus my friend told me to trust my gut not my heart because your gut is a gift from God. But I'm having Second thoughts.Did I do the right thing¿¿¿
If you don't like your boyfriend anymore, the only fair thing is to tell him the truth. Why would you want to lie to him and be with him when you like someone else. If you do care about him you'll tell him the truth. This doesn't mean tell him that hes gross and you hate him (haha) it just means give it to him lightly and try to remain friends. ♥
ok there is this guy i like named Chris, and i love him so much, and we have talked a lot and all. but i asked him out and he said "no". but i got so attached to him, that when he turned me down i started to take razors and cut my arm, and i still do. and i want to stop but it helps to controll pain. how do i stop?Note:i am 14/female. i rate 5 to anyone who answers!
First, get rid of anything that you used to cut (Razors, knives, anything). Second, write out your feelings in a journal or talk to someone so that you don't have anger or hurt built up inside. Third, realize that there are other people out there besides him and he isn't the right one for you if he doesn't love you back, there are other people who will love you. Fourth, seek help from an adult. ♥
Also remember that this will only add pain into your life later on even though you think its helping to ease. Cutting is not a solution to a problem, its only a scar to remind you of past troubles. It's up to you to change.
i saw this shirt yesterday that says "hardcore prep" from abercrombie and fitch.. and i really want it.. but its like.. a year old.. so.. does anybody know where i can get last years clothes? like.. any good websites? tHaNkS iN aDvAnCe!!
They don't sell it at Abercrombie & Fitch anymore but you could try Ebay. Otherwise I think you are out of luck :( Sorry! ♥
I am 15.recently my best friend said he likes this girl. he talks about her alot! I think its cute! but anyway. Recently he has said he has lost feelings for her and that he likes someone else. Ive known him for about 8 years and ever since then hes always told me who he likes and suddenly he wont! In class he'll say things that kind of lead me on to think that he may like me. like...randomly say i love you and he jokingly asked me to marry him (in the future of course!) now...am i jumping the gun or does he like me?!? HELP PLEASE!
I think he likes you, from what you have said... unless he has always acted this way. A similar thing happened to me a couple years ago where my best friend did the same thing. He wouldn't tell me who he liked but it was really obvious from the things he said the things he told me about her. What I did was make a code name for her (a fake name) that we both knew meant the girl he liked. Then I would jsut be like so did you see codename today? And he would say ya she was wearing her hair diff I liked it. And I would be like wow I wore my hair differently today too. It just became really clear that it was me. Of course, you could always just make him tell you but this way is another way to find out. ♥
Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love??
I don't think that most 13-16 year olds find love but I do believe that some do. Love is different for everyone, there is aboslutly no definition that goes for everyone. It's just what you want to believe it is and what you are capable of feeling. For kids and teenagers a lot of time they Believe they are in love, but they're not. And who cares? As long as they're not getting into trouble... let them think it. They will realize later on that they didn't, or maybe they did.
~Follow your ♥~ hehe ♥
okay well what am i suppost to do when everyone keeps pressuring me and telling me its stupid for trying to stay in long- distance relationships. and im just so lost and lonely inside because my friends cant even see that im dying inside and it hurts really bad. and while everyone else is happy with there boyfriends and get to go to all the dances and b happy i just get to watch all by myself. i always wear a fake smile that no one can see through and i cant stnad it. what do i do?
Well I am going to be going thru the same thing at the end of the year because I might have to move. First of all, do what You want even if others pressure you and tell you it's stupid because You are the one who has to live with it. Second, I know waht you mean about lost and lonely. Start a diary or find someone you can discuss these feelings with on a day to day basis (a friend who understands, a parent, your bf, or even me). Letting things out will relieve you a little of those feelings. As for the dances, yes its true, your bf won't be there to have fun with you. But maybe you can come to an agreement that you are both allowed to go to dances with Friends as long as you don't do anything bad. For some people this isn't an option and at this point you have to consider what is more important. Having fun during your youth or staying with someone you care about. I can't make that decision for you, your friends can't, no one but you can. I suggest talking things out with your bf to see where he stands and how he is feeling on the subject as well. I'm sure he is having similar thoughts. ♥ write back if ud like and tell me if i helped. i'd love to help more.