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hey guys! my name is erica. and i'm here to help with anything i can. you can talk to me no matter who yyou are, yor personality, your race, your nationality...anything. see...the cool thing about this is it's like your undercover. so i hope you feel comforable with talking to me. i love to play sports, and i love talking. haha. i love life, and i think you should too. well, talk to me...and ill try to help. mmkay, well thats all i have for now. bye =)
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Which is the best way to get in touch w/ a guy?
Call
Email
in person
pass by in the hall n hand him a note
its nothing personal i just want to know what you think.
id say in person. but phone is good too. i just think that email is like too fake. i mean i talk on aim to this guy...but still. and passing notes it good too! thats a good way. thats just my opinion...haha so there, now you know what i think . hahahaha
What are some things to do at a movie with my boyfriend other than makeout? I don't mean anything that's like past 2nd base, but something to maybe tease him or make the time more pleasurable without breaking any morals. Thanks! I'll rate high for good answers!
I AM IN THE SAME POSITION. hahahha
im going to veiw all your answers.
Ok so i like my brothers friend...i am in 8th grade and he is in 10th...
*he ALWAYS says hi to me online
*when he comes over my house to chill with my brother he talks to me....
*he asks my dad about me and how i am doing in baskeball EVERYTIME he sees him
*he is always making sure i am keeping myself in line and not drinking or smoking or doing anything bad...
*he told my brother that he thinks im rly hot....
can anyone help me please and tell me if you think he likes me ?
xoxo-*Steph
okay, so steph. this guy is totally into you. cant you tell? he wouldnt be doing all that stuff for now reason. he oviously has a thing for you. and there is nothing wrong with liking an older guy. if you didnt realize...girls are more mature than guys their same age. the reason for that is because girls mature faster than guys. girls are actually two years maturer than guys are. so your right there with him. does your brother have a problem with him talking to you? well, it seems like you really like this guy..so i wouldnt stop talking to him... and way to go on the hot comment. ahahhahahaha. well, thats all i have for now. good luck. much love, erica.
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okay well there is this guy at school named travis.. well me and him always talk and we hang out at school as much as we can.. i can talk to him about anything.. and he calls me all the time and we talk for hours. he likes me.. i know because he told me and i know i like him but some of the things he does i dont like.. he gets in trouble at school alot and one day he came to school "high" and he started flirting with me and he kept sayin stuff to me that i know he would never say when hes not high.. and i always ask him about it and he doesnt remember.. and he comes to school drunk and i dont like any of that at all and he wont stop.. but i dont know how to get him to stop.. and on weekends he gets soo drunk that he pukes his guts out and i tell him not to do it but he wont listen to me and also i dont like his friends at all! they are all to old for him and they do really bad stuff and then he tries to be like them and does it too.. and he wanted to come over to my house and i would have let him but he was with his friends so i told him not to bother and im really upset and i dont know what to do.. so could some one please help me and tell me what i should do.. thanks i rate 5's
hey girl! okay well, i kind of had the same situation. i liked a guy who smoked pot. well, you seem to really like him and it seems he really likes you. i think you should seiorusly talk to him. and be like "im not going to keep hanging out with you if you keep getting high and drunk" i know you cant just say stop...but i think he will mellow down a bit...if he really likes you and wants to do whats best. and make sure you tell him it really bothers you when hes high.you really should tell him. i think you should give him a second chance, and tell him what your doing. and if you think he's improoving in the getting high and drunk section...make sure you tell him that you are seeing him get better and you really like it. well i have to go to bed now...ill get back to you later if you send one to the inbox. kay, GOOD LUCK. hope i helped abit. much love, erica
I'm 13 female and i haven't kissed anyone yet...is this normal? Most of my friends have kissed someone but i want to wait until i find someone special. Most girls though have their first kiss when they are 12...am I abnormal? Or just plain 'ol me?
hey girl! no thats totally normal. really, it is. im just like you. im waiting for that specail person too. your first kiss is something you remember for the rest of your life...it really is. and it shouldnt be something that your forced to do. it shuoldnt be planed. but if thats was YOU WANT....go on and do it. but i personally think it should be when the times right...and you will know when its the time. and romantic. but that might not be what you want. and if its not, im sorry...because then im giving all the wrong advice. but you should be mature when you have your first kiss. and personally i dont think your mature enough to appreciate it at age 12. well, send a message to my inbox on your respnse. hope i helped. much love, erica
My boyfriend is coming over later today to stay for awhile because we haven't seen each other much lately. The thing is, I don't know what to do when he gets here! He's going to be here for awhile, what can we do that's not super boring, I don't want him to think that I'm boring! Um, the only idea I have would be to show him all of our vacation pictures (there's like a billion!) does anyone else have any ideas? Please help! I will rate high!
rent a movie! thats always great. and make sundaes! after you order take out. be like "im starved and we have no food....LETS ORDER TAKE OUT!" take a walk around the block...hold hands. just do stuff youd normals do with your friends. play a fun board game. and when you make sundaes (if you do and want to ) put some whip cream on his face...haha make it fun. well i hope you go my advice in time. HAVE FUN. BE YOURSELF. kay, good luck. hit up the inbox and feedback. haha. byeee
There this new guy in Early childhood class and he is the only guy in it and he lives next to me.I REALLY like him and I told my friend that and she is all over him.Then I asked her if she liked him and she said ewww no!!! I cant get my mind off of him.I think he likes my friend because no doubt she is really pretty.But everytime we see each at home he says hi in a really hot way and smiles and then he goes hola to me.He is soo hot.Should I make the first move or should I try to forget about him.I rate high!!!
i say make the first move! ask your friend if she really likes him...tell her its okay if she does...and that you cant control who she lieks. (even if you will get a little mad). if i were you id def make the first move on this hottie. haha. well if he acts how you said i think he has a thing for you. and do you have any proof he likes your friend? looks arent everythingin a girl. haha. and even if he does like her a LITTLE...(prob doesnt)...but flirt with him...let him know you like him. do you play manhunt in your town? ask some friends over put your friend thats "pretty" on the other team with some other people and have you onb his team with some people. sounds good? idk what early childhood classes are like so...i really dont know why that matters. well, GOOD LUCK! haha really. give me feedback and send the outcome to my inbox. much love, erica
Ok there is this senior in my art class and I know him from our mothers because they work together.By the way I am a senior.I told my mom I think he likes me because of the way he acts around me and she said dont even try it.I wouldnt anyway because I only like him as a friend.Then on Friday he gave me his number and said call me if you want to hang out.I dont want to be mean but I want to hang out with him but I am afraid he will ask me out and I dont want to so does anyone know what I should if he does??Ill rate high for any answer
well, if you like him back...hang out with him! dont be afraid if he will ask you out...because if he does...just say something like "well, idk...i kind of like being friends...sorry". its kind of confusing the way you said it... but does you mom like the kid?...it sounds like she doesnt know him, so i think you should hang out with him. sorry i dont quite understand. andi made it sound confusing. well, get back to me on what you do. and send some feedback and inbox. much love. good luck
Sorry its soooooooo long OKay i really like 3 guys...but none of them have feeelings for me back well like we are friends..but none of them wanna go to the next level 2 of them like the same girl and its not me and the other one goes to another school like an hour away from where I live...I really like them and I want to have a relationship with one of themm...do any of you guys have advice for what I could do so that they would like me back??
Thanks in advacne and I''ll rate five for good answers..btw 13/f
hey girl! its totally freakin normal to like more than one guy..but not good to go out with more than one...hahahaha. well, 2 of the guys like another girl, so id say they're out. do you have aim? and if he does too..talk to him on that and flirt with him. dont be a tease though...just send some signals...ahahaha...and if you get a chance ask who he likes...or if he likes anyone. and if he askes you...make sure you say him. and make it ovious you want to spend time with him. and talk to him...on a cellphone? or phone...if you have one. and get together alot. i hope that works. good luck...get back to me...send some to the inbox and feedback. much love. -erica
there's this guy i like, we'll call him mark. Mark is really sweet, and he's really nice to me... Anyway he plays around bein rude to everybody, like insulting them as a joke and they know it kinda thing. But he doesn't do that to me, he's play rude to the girl he likes/liked (not sure if he still likes her or not), and he's play rude to me sometimes, but he doesn't go out of his way to insult me or be rude which is part of why i like him. Mark treats me like a lady. i'm really thrown for a loop... i want him to like me, and we hang out alot (we sit beside each other on the bus to and from all football games because we're in the marching band, we hang out in the commons of the high school every morning, along w/ a bunch of other people, and we have alot of classes together and whatnot), but from all my experiences w/ guys that have liked me in the past, they were play rude or genuinly rude to me, because they didn't want me to know or something i guess. but anywho, what does it mean when he's nicer to me than anyone else? he really does treat me different. does he just think of me as a friend, or does he like me or does he just not really think that much of me either way so he doesn't really think to treat me like his other friends? i'm really confused... please help
14/f
oww la la. hah sounds like the boy likes you. if he didnt like you i dont think he would act any didfferent to you than he did his other friends. i think its cool how you so alot with eachother also. i think you should try to tell him how you feel. well, i know how hard that is, because i was in the same situation...so just flirt with him more so he gets the signal you like him. thats what i would do. and if he ever asks you who you like, try to tell him you like him. and maybe even ask HIM who HE likes. well, i hope i helped. send one to the inbox...im anxious to see how it turns out. =)
hey! okay i have a problem. but first id like to say how i think its great that oyur doing this. and i think you sound really nice. haha. well, im a big flirt. im kind of a ttease. and everyone calls me a slut. and i dont want to be that person anymore. i want to be in a more stable relationship. and i would like to have a boyfriend. butidk if everyone will exsept me as that person. this is something i really want to do. i think im maturing. but im in the popular group now and if i go for the change, that I WANT, i dont know if everyone will still think im cool. PLEASE help. im super desperate. because i cant talk to my friends about this
hey girl! well, first of all...i think its great that you're going for that change. and it shows great character in you. this is what YOU want. this is my advice, pretend your in a world where no one elses opionions exists...what choice would you make then? by the way your exsplaining your situation...i think its ovious you would prefer to be in a stable relationship. and if your friends dont like the way you WANT to be...they arent worth it..and i know that sounds harsh....but im putting myself in your situation..and i dont think they would get mad at you or lket yo go as their friend. and if they do...you have to realize they arent the friends that you need. i raelly hope i helped. get back to me on how you take my advice. =) thanks.