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Member Since: September 3, 2005
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i am in love with my boyfriend, like i don't want to be with any other guy but him. and i want to tell him i love him. but im scared he is going to get scared like last time it happened i told him i love you (he said it back but) then a week later he broke up wiht me. i want to say it so much since i mean it., but i don't want to lose him. it hurts not being able to tell him i love him, but i don't know if he really is in love with me too. and i want to know. he is the only guy i actually fell for like this, i am about to cry from writing this. i dont want to lose him when school starts but i don't want to talk to him about it cuz im scared what he is going to say. what should i do (link)
hello. i am new to this website. im 20 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for almost four years. ive dated plenty of guys too and thought i was in love many times! i actually was in this same situation too. if he has broken up with you before for saying i love you but has gotten back together with you, he probably only broke up with you because he was scared. it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, the question is, is he in love with you? i think what you really need to do is talk to him, but don't bring up the "L word" that might scare him off again. talk to him and tell him how you feel. what worked for me with my boyfriend was a promise ring. i got him a promise ring to show him that i really cared and that i was making a promise to stay loyal and true to my feelings for him...and two weeks later he gave me one!! and told me he loved me!! so just wait it out for alittle bit, if he really loves you, he'll say it first.


ok so heres my problem.
my cousin,(josh)is 17 was dating this girl sarah 19...
well josh told me to start talking to sarah to see what i thought of her.
well i did. we became really good friends.
then her brother started listening in our conversations and reading our ims when we would talk.
so she told him to talk to me so he wouldnt be so nosy. so i started talking to him. he's wonderful
he's 2 years older than me and he's wonderful..
so we got together.
even though i had met his sister,i had never met him. well, it turns out i started liking him.
alot
and thinking about him, all the time.and i told him i really liked him. and he said he felt the exact same way so..
he asked me out. and of course, i said yes.
he's almost 15 and i'm almost 14.
i love him, i do. with all my heart and he says he loves me back.i told him i wouldnt let myself
fall inlove until i go to see him in june.
but, i think i already have.
he is exactly what i've always wanted. he's perfect.
i think i'm too young to think he's the one.
but i want him to be. and i think, once i'm older he will be.
i think i might be getting a promise ring when i go see him. as in.. like promise to marry him, promise ring.
because of what his sister tells me.

when ever we have a fight, he immediately says its his fault and that he's sorry.
he says that he'd rather it always be his fault
than for him to be mad at me or me to be mad at him.

am i too young to think he's the one????
pllleeeeaaasssseee help
FAST!!!!!

i'll rate 5's. (link)
hello. im new to this website and i have alot of things going on in my life right now. im 20 years old and ive been through hell and back and back again. take my advice when i tell you this! of course you're in love, but it's only puppy love (the kind of love where you can't stop thinking about someone). but do you really know this person? do you really know everything? are you thinking way ahead in the future about jobs, family, and what you two want to do with your lives? im not saying to break up with him, i say go for it! have this relationship and this adventure. but be smart, don't rush into anything. i know you've probably heard this from lots of people, but take it from me, don't do anything you know you shouldn't do. don't dedicate your life to him either, go out with your friends, spend time with your family, live your life. there's always time for your boyfriend. so, yeah he is the one, but it's probably just "for now."




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