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tell him i love him or not...
i am in love with my boyfriend, like i don't want to be with any other guy but him. and i want to tell him i love him. but im scared he is going to get scared like last time it happened i told him i love you (he said it back but) then a week later he broke up wiht me. i want to say it so much since i mean it., but i don't want to lose him. it hurts not being able to tell him i love him, but i don't know if he really is in love with me too. and i want to know. he is the only guy i actually fell for like this, i am about to cry from writing this. i dont want to lose him when school starts but i don't want to talk to him about it cuz im scared what he is going to say. what should i do
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wow, this is a really though one...well are you guys still goin out? if ya than try talkin to him but not to straight up just start talkin little by little like well were goin out and i like u a lot, and i donno why i cant say i love you because thats really how i feel, i dont want you to get mad at me for this just tell me how you feel somethin like that! ok? well good luck and let me know wat happens. byez
LB
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I'm really sorry that things are going this way for you. I think you should tell him that you need to talk to him about something important and discuss with him that you think you're in love with him. He can either accept it or run away. If he accepts then great! But if he doesn't then you'll just have to face the fact that he doesn't feel the same way. If he doesn't feel the same way and does break up with you there are a billion guys out there in the world. You'll eventually find the ONE guy that you love and loves you back. This guy that you are dating now may just be that one, but you gotta let him know how you feel to find out if he feels the same way. Good Luck!
<3 -- *Ashley*
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if youre having such strong feelings for him, its not fair for you to keep them in! if you feel something you just have to come out and say it! as scary as it might be..and there is a chance he might not know how to react and this can hurt! but you never know until you try..and he might be feeling the exact same way!!! =D if not..well id say sit down and "evaluate" your relationship, like where its going etc.! good luck!!! [♥]
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I think that if you love him... you should talk to him and let him know that he is the 'only' one that you want to be with... and i think that if he breaks up with you cause you told him you loved him.. it isnt meant to be! If you need more help on this... IM me on aol...screenname- xoiihearty0u Hope I Helped... *Good Luck*
-Amber
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i think you should still talk to him about it .... if he doesnt feel the same way about you then it wasnt meant to be ... talk to him and if he loves you he will tell you the truth ..
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hello. i am new to this website. im 20 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for almost four years. ive dated plenty of guys too and thought i was in love many times! i actually was in this same situation too. if he has broken up with you before for saying i love you but has gotten back together with you, he probably only broke up with you because he was scared. it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, the question is, is he in love with you? i think what you really need to do is talk to him, but don't bring up the "L word" that might scare him off again. talk to him and tell him how you feel. what worked for me with my boyfriend was a promise ring. i got him a promise ring to show him that i really cared and that i was making a promise to stay loyal and true to my feelings for him...and two weeks later he gave me one!! and told me he loved me!! so just wait it out for alittle bit, if he really loves you, he'll say it first.
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