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Hey Im a Junior In HS and As far as I know Im taken lol I mean Yeah Im Taken :-P Anyways life is life... Want to get to know me a little better Just send Me an Instant Message...
Gender: Female
Location: Henderson, North Carolina
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 16
AIM: ChRiS14DaNcE
Yahoo: livin_dead_guel15_2006
MSN: dance_12_2000@hotmail.com
Member Since: August 15, 2004
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Last Update: October 22, 2004
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Alrighty, well this is about that boy Jake that i wrote about before. As I said Jake calls me everyday and I like him a lot, but yesterday we were talking on the phone and hes like god how come you never call me or talk to me in school? Im sick of your sh!t I always have to call you but w/e forget it im sick of it and Im not calling you anymore! And he was yelling at me and all and I was telling him im sorry and all and hes like w/e it doesnt matter if you call me now or what i dont care. Well i said the reason i didnt was because i didnt know if he wanted me to, and he said that was the stupidest thing he has ever heard because he doesnt know if i want him to call me so thats not an excuse. And he kept saying that it didnt matter because the only reason that i would start talking to him was because he said something. So today I was looking for my friend during homeroom and i went up to him and asked if he saw her and he just walked away from me! I dont know what to do im so upset, i left school early because i was feeling sick worrying about it so much and i could focus :(!!
Someone please help me (link)
Call him and tell him to get over it your sorry


This seems to constantly occur for me. I was hoping someone could help me. There's this guy who shall remain nameless and just recently I realized that I have liked him for awhile. Lets just say he's been on my mind a lot. Everytime I like a guy, one of my friends always has a crush on him too but I never say anything, I always remain silent on guys I like. I have a hard time. This time I think I blew it because there have been times where I would think that we both liked each other a lot and neither of us would say anything. It just sucks because I was finally going to tell him how I feel and one of my friends revealed that she had liked him for awhile. Now they are going to an event together and I don't know what to do? (link)
For one he may be gone to her ... but from now on dont be silent, revele your feelings first...


ok well yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up..he told me and my best friend that it was cause when we were on the phone that all I said was oh and thats cool and he didn't think I cared when he said stuff so I wasn't that upset about it..but then at school today everyone was like awww I feel so bad and I'm like I'm not that upset and there like wow how could he like her and I'm like what and no1 got a chance to tell me what that meant until my other friend was like I heard what happened and I was like yeah..and shes like do you know the reason and I was like yeah and shes like and your not upset and I was like no not really and shes like do you know this reason and was like he likes this girl (-shes such a slut and he has broken up with me before for her-) but thats not what he told me..and he also told my other friend that he thought I liked this one kid named Jordan but I dont we're in 7th and hes in 6th and hes just a friend..I can understand why he would say that though because my best friend likes him so we're always hanging with him..and so like I really wanna go back out with him..I like him soo much! and like health at school he was like staring at me the whole time and then in tech ed I was hanging out with my best friend and some other people like 2 boys and just my best friend..and he looked like so miserable..and like kept looking over at me..so I dunno if he still likes me or not and I'm gonna talk to him online tonight and I was wondering if hearing that story if you think he still likes me and what I should say to him and if I should ask him back out or just talk to him adn if just talk what should I say! sorry its so long..whoever reads this I'll rate you high! (link)
Believe me he's not worth it... if a guy leaves you for another girl 1 time and you go back it's ok but if he does it twice than he will do it again... I wish you the best of luck But I dont recoment going back with him... and no he probally dosent like you still he just wants someone he can say i go with er untill something better comes along.


I don't think I react to things the way I should,
I lost my father in 97 and I didn't cry all the much and I loved my father very much, then in 2002 I lost my Brother to A Car Crash, and I just don't think I was as sad as I should have been I know you guys are probally think I am cold hearted and made of stone. I fear the same I mean I feel regular emotions like LOVE and anger, and Joy. But when it comes to sadness I just kinda of go numb is something wrong with me, or am I just worrying too much? (link)
Sometimes when things of that magnutude happen your body goes into a state of shock and you are sad but u cant show it or feel it yoursewlf because maybe you refuse to believe what it is that's happened...
Chris


there is this boy tht i hve been in love with since the first day i saw him in 7th grade and i am in the middle of my 8th grade year now.i had one boyfriend last year but i just didn't love him as much as this one boy and i just can't stop thinking about him or looking at him.he flirts with me a lot and i flirt back but i just am not sure if he rilly lks me or just wants to be friends.pllzzz help!!!
signed,
confused (link)
You always like what you cant have and once you get the unatanible you dont want him anymore

Remember that


Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.

What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
I personally think ur to young to be thinking about marriage... I mean 2 of my best friends are already engaged and their all between 15 - 18 but I would wait untill High school is over if yall can make the whole diffrent college thing and if your still together then it would be a good time for it but now in mid high school its to soon.


Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
Nothing is wrong with you I know 16 - 20 year old's you have never kissed yet, just wait for that "special someone"...


I have this problem. There is this girl I like, Lea, but she has a boyfriend...or rather had. I found out today that they broke up this morning, and i get the feeling it may be becos of me, due to her knowing i like her and i knowing she likes me to, but she's been with her boyfriend for 2 years. But the problem is, I don't think i like her ENOUGH to go out with her, but there is this other girl, Jo, who also has a boyfriend that i like more, quite abit more. What Should i do? I turned 17 this year, Lea is 17 (18 end of this year) and Jo is 16. (link)
Find someone who is single It sounds like you are only going for people you cant have and once you can have them you dont want them anymore...


see, i LUV this guy..and im pretty shure he luvs me too! & we are soooo close! we have tonz of insiderz n stuff but he just wont "pop the question!" hahah i mean b/f g/f not getting "hitched" hehehe! well anywayz! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
If your tired of waitin Ask him...
Christian




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