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Hey ppls,
Well let me tell you some stuff about me,
im 15 years old and i will help and give advice on anything you need, so feel free to ask me whatever is on ur mind.
good luck and take care.

xoxo amore

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ok i like this guy alot! lol and well he likes me so yea ...i need some tips on making out ? what has worked for you kind of thing? _(link)

hey, well my first make out kiss was like awesome.:) well just like go for it its totally natural you cant really explain how to make out seriouslly like my first make out kiss i was so nervous i would ask people for advice and everything but really there is no advice that can be given, just go for it and have like a gum or somethin that gives good taste :), i recommend hubba bubba lol. its a good kind of gum. lol. well hope i helped just dont be nervous go for it:) get bak at meh.
LB

i have a boyfriend and we talked for a looooong time on friday and before we got off the phone he said he'd call me back saturday, and of course he didn't, i didn't think anything of it until yesterday. because last night he got online and i looked in his profile and it said "i love *suzie*" (the *'s are there because suzie isn't the name that was in there) and obviously..that's not my name. but then right after that was a little kind of joke statement. i don't know if i should think anything of it, because for all i know it could have been a joke. i didn't say anything to him about it...but what would you think it was? a joke or do you think he really likes someone else... _(link)

hey, wow this is messed up, but listen talk to him about it, say i saw somebodys name in your profile and i didnt like that, who is that? just be honest about it, you dont want him to cheat on you or anything. so find out. especially since you guys are going out thats just messed up. ok get bak @ meh.
LB

how do you get rid of or cover up a hickey? please&thanks! _(link)

hey, well theres really nothin you can do im sorry, my sis tried to cover her up one time but it doesnt really help she tried make up so try that see if it helps you. but theres nothin really you could do. get bak @ meh.
LB

hi. this is another "guy" question (i'm 14/f). Okay, there's this guy who's not hot at ALL but I seriosly think I love him. I think about him all the time. Ive been feeling like this for a few months now. we arent that close at all (we never talk or anything) but we say hi to each other and stuff. if someone asks mewho i like I say "noone" but his name pops into my head. sometimes I find myself thinking in my head "i love *hisname*". I REALLY don't want to like him bcuz my friends all hate him and stuff (but he's actualy really nice but they are just predjudiced (sp) cu he's not "hot". I know hes ugly and stuff but I still think i love him!!!! Do I or do I not?? ANd what should I do? PLZZZ help me!!!!!!! I rate 5s for good answers. _(link)

hey, well this is a though one, but listen if you really like him and you think about him all the time, than i guess you do like him! just try and talk to him more and all, see if you really like him like u feel, and than if you do talk to him and see what he says. hope i helped.
LB

theres this guy that i really like but he only likes skater girls well that wat he told me today idk if he likes me? should i com stright up with him and say like i like u or just let it pass by

~confused _(link)

well, hey i think u should tell him if you realli like him, but if you dont if you feel like you can live without him than let it go, instead of gettin gurt at the end. but if you like him than just tell him who knows maybe he might like you back your never know! if he says no be like well i dont like you anymore either! lol hope i helped get bak @ meh. 1.
LB

ok im in 8th grade but at my sisters school in West Virgnia ( i live in PA) you can go in 7th grade. and this guy asked me to go with him just as friends...and i have a boyfriend.and im going to ask my boyfriend first but i was wondering how to bring it up if u absoulty doesnt want me going im not going to go but i honestly dont think hes gonna care..but i dont know how to ask him?? any ideas?!?! EASY FIVE HERE!!! _(link)

just ask him, just be like hey well this guy asked me to go with him, but seriously if you dont want me to go i wount id rather not go for you than go for him, so its totally up to you, and see what he says. you never know. hope i helped.
LB

how do you get over a guy when you liked him for say like 2 years?! uhh.. _(link)

hey wow that should be hard, i really dont know i mean you can start lookin at some other guys and just little by little start to forget that guy, start talkin to some other guys you like get thier phone numbers and just talk to them and maybe go out with one of them and try to forget about the one u liked for SO long. and think that hes not the one for you, there are other guys who are much better than him and that really deserve you. but why do u have to get over him? im just wondering b/c @ one time i had to get over someone and it was hard for a reason tho. ok let me know ok? byez
LB

ok...well ive been talking to this kid and i have grown to like him in the past few days and he said hes starting to like me. the thing is today he told me that he wanted to be "together" because he just broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago that he had been going out with for 2 years and hes not really ready for a girlfriend boyfriend relationship at the moment. hes a really sweet kid. all i hear from everyone is how sweet he is. he swears on his life that im not just some sort of "rebound girl" and i want to believe it. im just wondering..by saying that we're together do you think that he just wants to keep his options open? or that he just doesn't want to rush into things? i really need an answer. thanks in advance. _(link)

hey i think that he means that he just wants u guys to be really close like talk about anythin and be like friends with benefits. you know what i mean?, i mean i donno thats what it sounds like since he says hes not ready for a boyfriend gurlfriend relationship, so see what he really wants and if you like him go for it. hope i helped.:) let me know!
LB

I have a crush on a boy. My friends tell me I should leave a rose in his locker. Do boys like stuff like that? _(link)

well i dont know about a rose, i mean he is a guy and you are a gurl so i would say maybe write a little note saying watever you feel, instead of a rose, thats like goin way too far.:)
LB

i am in love with my boyfriend, like i don't want to be with any other guy but him. and i want to tell him i love him. but im scared he is going to get scared like last time it happened i told him i love you (he said it back but) then a week later he broke up wiht me. i want to say it so much since i mean it., but i don't want to lose him. it hurts not being able to tell him i love him, but i don't know if he really is in love with me too. and i want to know. he is the only guy i actually fell for like this, i am about to cry from writing this. i dont want to lose him when school starts but i don't want to talk to him about it cuz im scared what he is going to say. what should i do _(link)

wow, this is a really though one...well are you guys still goin out? if ya than try talkin to him but not to straight up just start talkin little by little like well were goin out and i like u a lot, and i donno why i cant say i love you because thats really how i feel, i dont want you to get mad at me for this just tell me how you feel somethin like that! ok? well good luck and let me know wat happens. byez
LB

okay well i just got out of a relationship. and i like this other guy a lot. but he is taken .. and his girlfriend is one of my best friends. he also a very good friend. I am afraid if we did go out it would be weird. He alwayz tells me how he feels like he is getting distant from his girlfriend though. But everytime him and I get closer he mentions her. It seems like he has feelings for me too but is trying to convince himself he doesn't. what should i do ? _(link)

hey, well almost the same thing is happenin to me, i mean the girl hes dating isnt my best friend or anything shes not even my friend but we always talk online and all and he told me not to tell his gurl that we talk because she gets mad so jsut talk to him and ask him what does he want to do just be straight forward and see what he says. i hope i helped good luck.
LB

I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a month, and i have been on holiday for 2 weeks. He has been dropping hints that he might be telling me he loves me soon, but he has chickened out. But this is good, because i dont love him. If he tells me he loves me what should i say back, because i dont love him. 16/f if that helps, hes 19 _(link)

hey well first of all if you dont love him than you know for sure that his not the guy for you, like really if your with him just for the fun of it its not worth it your should be with the person your really happy with and someone you love not just like. hope i helped let me know. ok byez.
LB

I'm 15 and I have never had a boyfriend while everyone else has!! Is this normal?!?!?! And please don't say I'm too young to even be thinking about this!! and also How do you flirt??? Sorry is this is stupid.. _(link)

hey this isnt stupid AT ALL! ok?
so here dont worry you will eventually find somebody. just smile guys LOVE when girls smile trust me. and just be around him more, thats the best way to flirt. and be nice and try to talk to him. ok? so dont worry its not stupid and its totally normal.
good luck.

xoxo amore

this guy i really like always stares at me in the hallway and alot of times comes up and talks to me. and he sat by me when i was on his bus one time. i dont know if he likes me.. what do i do? _(link)

well looks like to me that he likes you.
but.... he might also be a player. i realli dont know him but i dont know sometimes things like this happen and at the end you find out that they were players. so make sure.
but i think he likes you. so have one of your friends ask him.
good luck.

xoxo amore

I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?

I rate. _(link)

ok, first of all how old are you?
and well it looks like you like him a lot, but i dont know if its really love or not, depends on how old you are.

xoxo amore

This person who I have really liked for 3 months wrote me a note and asked who my friend liked. He knows I like him but hasn't done anything about it.. other than flirt. So I wrote back and said why, do you like her? And he just wrote "maybe" My friend really likes him but they dont even talk AT ALL, when me and him talk all of the time and walk to classes together. I just don't understand. Do you think that he likes her? _(link)

hey,
well first of all, ya there might be a chance that he likes her, or maybe he just wants to see what you will do about it. maybe he likes you and he wants to see how you will react to this and maybe this way he can push you towards giving morea effection towards him. you never know for sure. but on the other side he might like your friend too.
i really dont know who this guy is and how he acts so i cant tell you much. but i hope i helped.
good luck. let me know how it turns out.

xoxo amore

ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth!
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ok there is a chance that maybe he still likes you.
but ur saying that he has a girlfriend?
i dunno maybe he has some feelings for you, im not sure. but what you could do is get someone to ask him like seriously and wait till he answers with an yes or a no.
good luck. let me know how it turns out iight?
love always

xoxo amore

13/f
okay, well.. i really like this guy named mike and we talk all of the time. he sits behind me and plays with my hair and stuff.. and a lot of my friends tell me he likes me. i've been really patient with this whole thing, waiting for him to make a move, but i have decided to just go for it, because whats life without taking chances? anyway.. i really dont know how to ask him out. i've asked out a lot of guys before.. but its just different with him. im really nervous to ask him in person, and he usually doesnt get online, and his mom doesnt like it when girls call him. please help! _(link)

Hey,
first of all same thing with me, same story... but the thing is i never asked him out myself and neither did he, but w.e.
ok wat you got to do is maybe you can have a friend do it for you, like have one of your friends go up to him and be like hey so and so likes you would you go out with her? or sometin like that. or maybe you could go with your friend up to him and ask him together or she could just be there with you so it will make u less nervous.
just go for it gurl. i wish i could have done that... now is you chance dont lose it;)
good luck.
let me know how it goes ok.
love ya always

xoxo amore

ok heres the thing...i went out w/ this guy (we are both 13) and he broke up w/ me a week later because he said it felt akward because we were really good friends before that. ok so ever since then ive gone 3 places w/ him...the mall twice and the movies. ok at the mall the first time...he held my hand but we arent going out...ok at the movie he held my hand once then let go then put his arm round me and the held my hand again after that. ok and then tonight i went to the mall w/ him and some other guys and he held my hand again and started huggin me a lot but he tells everyone we are jus friends...does that make any sense? i mean he broke up w/ me and i didnt like him anymore but now i like him again because of all this but its gonna make me sad if he doesnt like me and i dont think he does but all mine and his friends say he does. how can i know why he keeps doing this?!?! sry its so long! ill rate good! thanx _(link)

hey,
he might just think that u are a really nice gurl and that you guys are really good friends, so i think he wants to be friends with benefits with you, so talk to him and see what he says.
good luck.

xoxo amore

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