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im 15/f and i dno how to make eyecontact with a guy since i dont have too much experiences actually :/
so there's this guy who seems to like me and i like him back but i dont wanna talk to him yet. i just wanna make eyecontact. but how do i do that without seeming desperate or weird or stupid? :P
lol cos i'm also not exactly sure if he likes me back. help please [: (link)
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a lot of girls actually have this problem at first. All you have to do is make eye contact and maybe wave....not that big of a deal.
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I was looking at display pictures and I came across one that said
When You Love Someone You Can Tell
But When Your IN Love Everyone Else Can Tell
I was just wondering whats the difference? Like can anyone explain this to me? (link)
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it is saying that when you love someone you know in your heart that you love them but nobody else can tell. it is kind like a secret love i guess. but when you are in love with someone and you smile when you are with them all the time and you flirt alot then everyone else can tel that you are in love.
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Hi Amanda im a 14/f and i am new at this thingy of urs but id like to ask you a question. okay how bad does it hurt when you loose your virginity? im ready and everything but the pain aprt is holding me back. and im really in love with this guy and hes promised he take it slow and if i wanted him tostop then he would but i mean ive been fingerf lots of times by him. mostly one or two fingers. and one more question do u think it would also helped if he fingerd me before the intercourse? i know were doing it in water would that help to? (link)
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hey
i was just like that when i first started. Yes it does hurt but it will stop once you do it more and more. Um.. i dont know about the fingering thing but it might help. yes it does help if you are in water. It is a good thing that your boyfriend will take it slow which means that he is willing to take it slow and wait for you to be ready. I hope that it will help.
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My boyfriend and I broke up after
he told me he liked another girl and
they had been flirting and stuff.
Well, I had to end it with him because
I did not want to go on with him if he
liked someone else.
How do I let go?
When I see him I want to melt into his
arms again, but I know I shouldnt.
And now, when I see a guy, it takes everything
I have not to just grab him and try to
hold on forever.
.. please help.
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come on hun. this is totally normal. you loved the guy. he broke your heart by saying that he loved another girl. that would crush anybody. And now you are just doing what any normal human being would do. they would want to find some way to get back with that person. they want to know what it feels like one more time. it is completely normal. a way to get away from it is to go the opposite direction whenver you see him. dont go that direction and make yourself more likely to think about it. try and put your mind on a different guy.that way you will stop thinking about him. that should help. i hope that some of my advice was ok. good luck.
=)Amanda
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I been going out with this girl for a month now and one of my best friends told me that in his 6th pd class some people said that who would go out with me and then my other best friend said that my girlfriend said that people are telling her to break up with me but she isnt HELP ME!!!!!!!!! (link)
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if people are telling her to break up with you then she prolly wont. she prolly loves you to death. so dont get too worried about it ok hun. i hope that i helped.
=)Amanda
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when a guy is kinda always asking you who you like and then you ask him back and he says " i like three people" and only names two of them, and won't tell me the third. does that mean he likes you or does he just want to know who you like. (link)
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actually. guys are always playing this game. sometimes it does mean that the guy likes you but other times it means that he just wants to see who you like. And if you really like the guy and he knows it then he is prolly just trying to get your hopes up. I hope that i answered your question.
=)Amanda
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15/m
I swear im depressed, i cry alot like everynight, i feel like shit and want to die sometimes...
okay well i was fine until i met sammie, then we were goin out and i really loved her and then we broke up and all and i got crushed, ever since i have no been the same... like now 2 months later(this past sat) she tells me she likes me alot but doesnt want a bf right now, and like now im crying harder cuz now tomorrow is my birthday and i want to hang out with her so so so so bad on sat. and for like the past two days after she told me how she felt she been ignoring me and when i call her she says shes in a bad mood and doesnt wanna talk to me... well i asked her to hang out with me on sat. and she said oh idk i might hangout with chris(her best friend but i thikn more) i swear if i lose her im killing myself, i know ill do it, shes everything to me... i cant lose her... (link)
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i am told that a guy falls in love 3 times before he turns 25. sometimes it might be secret love but it doesnt sound like it. i think that you should tell her how you feel.she might come around and you wont lose her. And you cant think like that. talk to her. she might come around. I know that this prolly isnt the answer that you were looking for and i am sorry if it wasnt but i hope that i helped.=) Amanda
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So my first real boyfriend.. we went out for a long time. He didn't treat me right and for some reason he didn't really notice that.
So we were friends with benefits on the verge of a relationship again cept not. (link)
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i dont think that ex 1 should be jumped either but it is good that u got a man looking after you. see i am what you would cal a "ho " according to a lot of girls at school but to the guys i am perfectly fine and they all care bout me. I love them to death and i know that if anything ever happened to me they would be on that kid like no other. each and every one of them. back to the point... just be glad that you have a guy to look after you. i dont think that you should let ex.2 beat up ex.1 because it doesnt need to happen. I think that point that ex.2 is trying to get across is that he still cares 4 you and he doesnt want you to get hurt. I hope that helped. =) Amanda
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This confuses me to the point where it makes me sad.
Ill explain the situation.
A guy.
Me and my friend both like.
We all know eachother VERY well.
He claims he hates both of us.
He told me he didnt hate me anymore,yet he told someone else he did.
He tells he hates her and he likes me as a friend.
Yet, he wont talk to me at school.
But, sometimes he talks to her.
Usually , he'll try and get my attention but not talk to me.
Or when we are together, he will do something to her and not me[for attention],he'll just like give me this stare.
oh yeah, i forgot to mention that both of us did sex kinda stuff with him, but i did it more and he said he would do it with me again but not her.
But at the same time, at school he would call me fat and etc.
IS this kid on drugs or what?
I need help , this is always making me sad.
And your gonna say to move on, i try and i try and i try,
i cant get over this kid.
Ive liked him ON and OFF for 3 years, but this time has been the most
thnks
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i think that this guy is just not emotionally ready to handle everything that is going on right now in his life. maybe not i dont know. but to me it sounds like he does like you and your friend but he doesnt want to show it in front of his friends so he tries to hide it by telling his friends thsat your fat. i dont think that you should move on because the same thing is happening to me right now but i think that you should confront him about it and ask him y.i hope that i could help.=)
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i have to very best friends who are also friends. my female friend has a lot of feelings for my guy friend. about a month ago he broke up with a girl who cheated on him a lot and always lied about where she was. the other week they were flurting a lot. now she has a whole lot of feelings for him. and we dont know what his intentions are with her. he stilld flirts a little and she has already told him that she doesnt want someone messing with her emotions and he agreed. but he still flirts with her. what do you think we should do? should she let him know how she feels? or should i do the ditry work and ask him for her how he feels about her? we just dont know what to do. she is afraid if she asks and he saids he doesnt see he that way that they wouldnt be able to stay friends cuz then it would be weird between them. she is also afraid not to say anything becuase what if he does have feelings for her but doesnt want her to feel like a rebound? and i feel like im stuck in the middle becuase i dont know what to tell her anymore. please some advice anyone. (link)
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exactly what the person under me said: play a game with him. start naming off random people and then put your friends name in there and see if he likes her and then tell her to take a chance and tell him. I know that i am pretty much repeating what the person below me said but it was really good advice.i hope that i helped.=)
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15/f
I know this question is getting old but I'm in some need of advice. Preferably from a guy.
Alright, Well I'll just use my name and his.. I'm not ashamed:].
OK well heres the situation.. Mike was being all nice and sweet to me. I known him for a good year and I liked him last year and he liked me. Lets just say wrong move by me and I never got my chance with him. Well now this year we have a class together and we flirt like crazy. Well just recently my uncle fell ill and so Mike put "hope your uncle gets better sara" in his MSN Personal Message space. Well he's like my support system when I'm down. I always tell him he's the bestest and he says you are too. So basically it feels like he's into me but thats where I got lost I'm guessing. We had made plans to hangout just didn't know when exactly. Well we still haven't set a date yet but we know what we're gonna do and he seems excited. Like he was like
"Can I go into A.E while we're at the mall?" and I was like
"Yes of course, but can I go into boathouse while we're there?"
And he said yeah of course and that we'll go together.
Basically he lights up my life(sotospeak) But now I'm confused by him. His p.m read what I said up there and well my family came over and so I was downstairs with them so I was on msn as away, so I never had the chance to see him sign in. Well when I came back up his p.m said "get better soon nicole." Which I understand that his friend is sick and all and thats fine but what I don't get is, when I changed my status to online in a matter of 5 seconds he was away and then next time I looked(about 10 min later) he was offline.
I know I didn't give enough useful information for the question I'm about to ask but please make do with what I gave.
Does he like me even just a little bit or am I blinded by the light, and should just give up on a year long crush?
Thanks sooo much. (link)
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I think that this guy likes you but he also likes the other girl Nicole.And believe me he is gonna be attracted to other girls other than you while being attracted to you at the same time. Its what all boys do. And they make you jealous by doing it. I know from experiance. But I have to tell you...you will never know unless you try to make things work. I dont want u to get hurt hun so what i think you should do is make the first move.
if you have any other questions for me I am always here. Just email me at: a_cherrymann@hotmail.com
I hope that my advice helped and you work things out.=)
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I cry like 2-3 times a week for one reason.
A boy,I will tell you my story.
He moved here about 3-4 years ago, he was a new kid so i just messed with him and thought he was cute.[I'll call him "B"]
Then we would talk online and stuff and see eachother around the neighborhood and stuff,so i had a crush on him.
He acted like he liked me, he would call me ,Im me, all that good stuff but he would say he liked my friend but he would like invite me over and stuff all the time.
Then I got over him , next year came around and i liked a totally different boy until the end of the year.
My Best friend came over and was pretty good friends with "B" so we would hangout , which made my crush on him come back.We started talking more again online and on the phone, then we did ""stuff"" and he still continued to call me and talk to me online
yet he would say he didnt like my best friend.
Our school found out about what we did and everyone knows.
Of course , we both deny it,
At the exact time of all the rumors going around i moved out of the nieghborhood he lived in.
He started hating me becuase he thought i went around telling everyone [which i didnt] and we didnt really say much to eachother for about a good month or 2, besides the occasional him taking something from me or flicking me or some boy shit they like to do.
Just recently , maybe a week or 2 ago he randomly started talking to me [honestly i didnt expect it]
online, he said he didnt hate me and we started talking and he even asked me questions about why i moved and he told me to move back and just some other conversation.
After that one night , he never talked to me again.
My friend talked to him and asked about me and said he hates me so much and he said he has ALWAYS hated me.
Which makes me cry becuase i miss everything we used to have [but it wasnt a relationship, it was a friendship with benifits]
I dont know if he was just saying that to get as many people to believe we didnt do what we did, or if he really hates me?
Sorry this was soooo long, i just need help and I cant be sad anymore
and please dont say to move on, ive tried
and tried and tried
it isnt working at all
What shld i do? (link)
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wow that is really sad and i hurt for you girl. he is just a dick and i know that it hurts but he never really liked you or he did he just didnt want anybody else knowing that he did. But if i were you i would save the tears. There are more important things in life and i just wish that i was as strong as you. If i was in your position i would cry myslef to sleep at night. But he is a dick and you are too good for him. Even to good to be friends with him. You got this girl just be strong and dont let it hurt you like that. I hope that i could help=(
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14/f
There's this guy in school that I like that I dont're really talk to that often. I want to ask him to the Sadie Hawkins dance, but I'm not sure how to, thinking it might be kind of awkward because we don't talk that often. What would be a good way to ask him...and is it appropriate that I ask him? thanks. (link)
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just go up to him and ask if he wants to go to the dance with you. dont plan a speech or anything because that just sounds cocky ya know. act natural like you know him like a best friend. dont stress. and remember guys feel the same way when they want to date or go to a dance with u. U have the guts i know you do. u can do it. i hope that helped.=)
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I like two wondeful guys, they like me too. I really can't decide between them. If I could merge them to one person, I would call him mr.perfect! I can't make up my mind! What guy do you think sounds best?
Guy #1:
hot, brunett, goes to my class, popular, sensetive, confident (not really, just pretends to be), same humor as me, but don't have alot in commmon, lives in the city, globetrotter, short for a guy (but taller than me), looks up to his best friend, totally charmig and a smile to die for! Style: Trendy and casual
Guy #2:
hot, blond, goes to my best friends class (stil same school though), semi-popular within class, lack of confidence exept when it comes to music and sports, same humor, have alot in common (exact same music taste!), very tall, plays giutarr like a god, writes songs, down to earth, totall cutie and has puppy eyes. Style: punk/rock and casual
In order to make your desision on who might ound the best, a short description of me:
brunett,exentric, talkative, cute, weirdo, playful, could be serious when needed, have a history of BAD X-es, (don't wanna sound ego but-) popular, can hang out with anyone, very nery intrests though (like starwars, battlestargalactica and chemistry). Style:Chic and laidback
There, descripetions of my to guys and me. Which one sounds best? PPLEASE HELP! Guy#1 or Guy#2??? Because I'm clueless, I really can't decide, I like them both in different ways!
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def. guy #2 i mean you described him (to me) with more emotion than you did with guy #1 and you seem to like him more than guy#1. if you are really having trouble picking a guy ask someone that knows you really well like your best friend. obviously not many people on the internat are going to know your taste and what you like but your best friend will. ask her/him and see what they think and if that doesnt work than talk to me about it I am always here for you.=)
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20/f
i was talking to this really sweet guy and hes like
"im glad i could make you laugh"
"it makes my day"
and i said
"how does that make your day"
and hes like
"because i enjoy makin ppl laugh....and you :-D ;-)"
what did he mean by that, "and you" ? (link)
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it means that he has a good time making everyone laugh and more importantly you. and you can take that as a hint that he actually might like you. when he says and you it means that he likes you and your laugh.
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Yeah, so i always mess up and recently i messed up real big and well this guy im dating is just so nice that he gave me another chance. So, i really dont want to mess it up.
So...how could i be a better girlfriend? Anything you know just tell me! Tips,advice, ANYTHING
Thanks so much =] (link)
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i was once in that postition and he gave me another chance so whatever you do dont mess it up. the thing is u have to really like this guy and show him. dont stay distant from him. whenever u see him give him a hug and kiss, but dont act despret or anything like that. act natural and dont think about him breaking up with you and stop worrying. hopefully i could help you.=)
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