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I am a nineteen-year-old male from Georgia in the USA, and I am gay. I do not make that distinction because that is what my life revolves around, but it is a very important part of my life and does make a difference. I like to help with relationships of all levels, and am here to talk about anything without judging. I hope that I am able to help, and would love to hear follow-ups on how situations turned out.
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well I'm in college now I'm almost 22 and my teacher is 28.he is really shy and very gentle.well he used to be my teacher for 2 semesters.now im still at the university studying but I won't be seeing him anymore cause I don't have any classes with him.I only have 1 semester left to finish college.This guy never gives his phone number to his students but after the semester ended I wrote him a message and told him that i have bought him a gift as a thank you.he gave me his phone number and when i called him he invited me to his own office (he works at a company)so i met him there.we talked I know that he was a little stressed out because the books fell down of his hands.but when i was leaving he said that give me a call sometime.that's it.I was thinking maybe i could tell him that i like him.I don't know how he would respond.i really need help i wanna know if I should tell about my feelings or not!help me please!!
I might not go as far as to tell him point blank that you like him, but possibly to go on a date, but not call it that to him. Just hanging out with him alone. Just to spend some time out side of school with him, and see what he is like away from the job. If he asked for you to call him sometime, that means he might be interested, but just very shy. He also is probably not allowed to pursue a relationship with a sutdent that still attends the college. But I would say that you should just see him a few times outside of a school setting, and he should be able to tell that you like him. Hope this helps!
Ok so, I'm a fifteen year old High school Student, I've been having some really conflicting issues, and I realized that I always look at questions around here for fun, so when I had an issue, why not come here. Well Like I said I'm a male high school student, and I don't really know what I am. I'm going to 10th grade, throughout my 9th grade school year I had a friend (we'll call him Clyde lol) that asked be to do sexual stuff, and an experimenting sense, so two times we exchanged oral sex, once in a bathroom, and once in the woods next to our school. Now there was another Guy I know that aksed me the same thing (call him Greg) and he just wouldnt leave me alone, askeing for naked pictures, asking to have sex, he was pathetic and extremely annoying, so Yesterday I told him it's never going to happen and to just leave me alone. Now my third friend is an open Bi-Sexual we will call him (Aaron) I met him when he was dating one of my female friends, we would text and talk all the time, we became really close friends, one day I heard "Aaron's" girlfriend saying how she didnt like to kiss him and all, so me being the idiot that I am, I told him, and he said thanks, I guess over the next 48 hours they talked and she denied this, he accused me of lying, and we didnt talke for two months. In a plot to take revenge I tried to break them up, he confronted me in a texting conversation, everything was laid on the table and we moved on to become friends again. He confessed to liking me, I considered my self as straight at the time (I hadnt had oral sex with Clyde yet) was shocked, so I waved it off and claimed i was still figuring out who I am. Meanwhile I met a girl one year younger than me, we started talking and flirting, it was just a very flirtatious friendship. this was November, when Aaron started asking me if I wanted to have Sex with him Oral. We joked about it all the time but I knew he was serious. I kept saying maybe. My relationship with the girl..(Lily i guess) was moving along, but at Christmas it ended, it started again this past June and ended again, we're now STRICT friends. So not much happened except once in February that was the first time Clyde and I had Oral and then once again in May, Now yesterday...August, I brutally ended my friendship with Greg, after his annoying requests of naked pictures and sex. Lately I've been texting Aaron a lot, and I really want to be friend with him, like good friends, and we were playing the question game and he asked me if Id ever have sex with a guy, I said I was curious, especially about anal sex. He said I should let him top me, and I could top him back, hes already had EVERY version of sex with both girls and guys hes only a year older (16) but he's a really cool guy. Also yesterday Clyde texted me and said he'd gotten his license he's in my grade but has an early birthday so he's 16. He asked if I wanted to experiment like last year, only this time we could drive to my house, and do it. So far I haven't had a relationship feelings about guys, only sexual, what do you guys think of this? Oh and before 9th grade when most of this happened I was in a long term 3 year relationship with a Girl (Alice)
What do you guys think of my situation? All advice is welcome and I'd really appreciate it ! Thanks in advance ! :)
Ony you know your sexuality. Nobody can answer that for you. And experimenting is ok. Just because you want to experiment with guys does not mean you are homosexual or bisexual, it means you are curious. I am assuming that we know you are attracted to females. And I would say to experiment some. But be VERY careful! Always use protection! STD's (or STI's or VD's, whatever you want to call them) can be spread very quickly, especially if someone has had multiple sexual partners. I don't think there is anything wrong with experimenting, just be smart about it and always use protection. And it all really depends on if the male anatomy turns you on. I have a gay male friend who HATES bottoming. He is a homosexual, but he hates to bottom. So it all depends on if the male anatomy turns you on. If you have any other questions that you would like to ask me, please feel free to. I check my account daily. I hope some of this has helped!
i just met Nico this summer at a theater academy and from the first time i saw him, i thought he was cute :) then when we actually started talking and getting to know each other more, we became like, best friends. Even though thats true, i also noticed from the beginning that he could be gay. Two weeks after meeting him, he tells me and a few other friends about his coming out story, and i was fine with it, i didnt intend to actually like him more than a friend. it wasnt til after he told me about a girl that recently really liked him, and pretty much asked him to "switch sides" for her, that i found myself liking him as well. I mean, how cant i when we're always holding hands, touching each other, and talking about flirty, sexual things with each other lol. and whats worse, i find him being gay, kind of a turn on x) when we both talk about a hot guy at camp, i image him being with him, and how cute that could be xD but i still cant shake the feeling of liking him more than a friend. what should i dooo?
If he says that he is gay, you need to take that as him saying that you do not have a chance. I have plenty of female friends that I hold hands with, flirt with, talk sexually with, and the works. I have had so many people think me and whichever female friend I am with at the time are a couple.
The best thing you can do to resolve the situation, is to talk to Nico about it. None of my female friends ever would, but I know a lot of them had a crush on me at one point in time, because I had some of our mutual friends tell me. I actually lost a couple of friends because they had really bad crushes on me and couldn't handle being my friend anymore. And I know of gay guys who get with girls, and it usually leads to the girl getting burnt pretty badly. So do not go into this with the mindset that you can change him, because you cannot. It isn't a choice, I promise.
And it is not abnormal for you to be attracted to him knowing that he is gay - one of the rules of humanity is that we want what we cannot have. But I can almost promise you it won't happen. And who knows, maybe he also does like girls some, I cannot judge the situation without having met Nico before. But like I said, the best thing for you to do would be to talk to him about it so that you and Nico can resolve whatever is going on. Hope this helps!
do boys like hairy pussy?
I am not an expert on heterosexual sex, but in most cases that I know of men do not like it to be hairy down there. They generally like for it to be shaven.
Can the boy feel pre-cum n can it make u pregnant?
No, the male generally cannot feel the precum leaving his penis, and yes it can make you pregnant. Some guys can feel it leave, but the vast majority cannot.
where can the line be drawn for cheating as in sexual contact or just a simple hug or something else post your options
In my oponion, cheating is not always physical. I believe it can be purely emotional as well. Because when you are with someone, and they are even just talking too someone else, it can still be devistating to a relationship.
And as far as physical cheating goes, for me hugging is ok, but past hugging I do not agree with.
But it needs to be a mutual understanding. Both people have to set boundries, and know all of the rules that "cheating" implies for that particular relationship, because different people see things differently, and not having the same viewpoint can lead to huge problems. Hope this helps!
my boyfriend asked me "babe , can i have some porn pics of you? :\ "
do you think i should do it? and what exactly do i take a photo of?
im 13 by the way
You do not neede to do it. It is degrading to ask for pictures of the person you are dating. I have had to help a couple of friends with this, and all the guys see them as is "That girl who sent me the nudes." It's terrible, and they regret it. It is not going to help your relatioship at all, and it can only lead to trouble. I would not do it, and if he is persistant on it, I would dump him. Hope this helps!
Hi im a 15 year old female and sometimes I feel like I want to be in a relationship. Then, days later I want to just be single. I'm currently still single but sometimes I want to be in a relationship but I do not want to get in a relationship then want to be a single again and vice-versa . so what should I do?
I have struggled with that before, but when you get in a relationship it usually changes. When I am in a relationship I never want to be single, but I go back and forth when I am single. But honestly, you're only fifteen. Stay single. It is so much more fun to just be single and hang out with friends. Having a boyfriend/girlfriend is great and all, but it will happen when it happens, don't try to force it to happen. Just focus on having fun, and if you find someone, let it roll. Hope this helps!
16/f
Okay, so me and this guy I've known my whole life have been talking lately, just as friends. I kind of like him and he does me too,but until something as far as a relationship happens he wants to be sex buddies and I kinda want to too.. Is there anything wrong with that?
I have had a friend with benefits before, and it broke my heart. He never wanted to comit to me, and in the end he founf another guy and ended up totally cutting me off, making me feel terrible. It is not a good idea. I have been there, and in the end, it hurts way to much; the immediate fun is not worth it. I highly suggest you wait until he wants to commit to a relationsihp before even kissing, because (if you're like me) kissing only lasts a minute or two and then it moves on fast. Hope this helps!
I am gay. I havent had a boyfriend in months. I really want a boyfriend. My friends say "You'll Find someone" but i havent. its been 8 months. Does anyone have any advice on how to pick up a guy?
If you are always on the look out for a boyfriend, it won't happen. I have never gotten a boyfriend when I was looking for one, it always happened when I was not expecting it. When you look to hard you give off a desperate vibe and it really turns a lot of guys off (I have met that guy and I have been that guy). But you do have to be happy with yourself. My last boyfriend helped me feel a lot better about myself with a few pointers:
1) Wear clothes that are your size, not too tight or too loose. Too tight can make you look egocentric, and too loose can make you look like a slob.
2) Walk with pride. I walked with a slouch all of the time, and I never realized how big a difference it made to stand up straight and sit up straight. It says a lot about how confident you are in yourself, and it actually makes you feel better about yourself.
Those were the two biggest ones. And if you find a guy that you like, dont try to rush him. Let him take his time. Let me know if this helps, and message me if I can help you with anything else!