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single or in a relationship?
Hi im a 15 year old female and sometimes I feel like I want to be in a relationship. Then, days later I want to just be single. I'm currently still single but sometimes I want to be in a relationship but I do not want to get in a relationship then want to be a single again and vice-versa . so what should I do?
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I have struggled with that before, but when you get in a relationship it usually changes. When I am in a relationship I never want to be single, but I go back and forth when I am single. But honestly, you're only fifteen. Stay single. It is so much more fun to just be single and hang out with friends. Having a boyfriend/girlfriend is great and all, but it will happen when it happens, don't try to force it to happen. Just focus on having fun, and if you find someone, let it roll. Hope this helps!
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Read a book.
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I totally get how you feel.
It's like you want the feeling of having someone there and all that cute stuff that comes with a relationship but there's also a lot of stressful things.
I broke up with my last boyfriend for somewhat of this reason. I liked having the boyfriend but I decided to just wait until I'm really ready for one.
Anyway, I'd just enjoy being single and if you meet a guy you just really like then you could go with him. Plus your point about getting into a relationship and then wanting to be single, you don't want to hurt the guy and regret dating him right? So it'd be a better idea to just wait.
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We all like to think about what it would be like if we were on the other side of something. As a taken girl, I wonder if I would have more fun if I was free to meet other guys. Then again, I also love the security of a relationship.
The reason I stay in the relationship is because of my boyfriend, and the feelings I have for him. I'm not in a relationship just to be in a relationship, I do it because I care about him and like being with him.
Enjoy being single, and when the time comes, you will find a person who you enjoy being with and you will want to have a relationship with them. Theres no need to rush to find this, you will know when it feels right.
Good luck,
-Abby
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