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At school I have liked many girls and everyone shoots me down. Mostof them tell me that I could be cool enough to go out with them if I didn't hang around with the nerds. I am not a nerd but I hang out with them because they're nicer than the popular people I could hang out with. Every time I tell A girl that they still shoot me down. What should I do? (link)
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Heres the simple answer: be yourself, if those girls cant see past poularity and they are that shallow aneught to turn you down for that reason then they probably wernt right for u or not worth it anyways.
I hope I helped, good luck
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Hey guys.. i gots a question for you all and i need some advice.. im almost 16 and todai i lost my verginity to some one im complelty in love with.. iv been with him for a long time and i always wanted to loose it to him.. but ididnt no it would happen as qucikly as it did.. We used a condom but im still nervous that i could be pregant.. you think i could be?.. is this normal to be nervous?.. one more thing..does ANYONE know if its normal to have cramps after sex.. (link)
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Hey,,
I would say that it is probably common to be nervous and dont worry about being pregnant yet. It just happend so give yourself some time. And about the crampps, i would know, sorry over all , dont worry
I hope that helped
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okay i liked this guy now for about 2 months and he has liked me, we would talk on the phone every night and he would always tell me he loved me, but he would never ask me out and i dont get why. anyways just the other day he started bein a dick to me, not answering my phone calls, saying he'll call me back and never does. i just dont know what to do, im soo heartbroken it aint even funny i even thought about killing myself. i rate high (link)
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first what you need to do is calm down, and stop thinking suicidal thoguhts, you need to just breath and think of something you like. Second, give this guy some time, if he really loves you then he will realize what a dick hes being sooverall, the cure for this problem is just simply calming down and time.
I hoped I helped
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My man has just joined the army. He is going through basic trainning right now, which is something that is very stressful and hard (for y'all who dont kno.) I've been sending him letters, cards and pictures but i want to send him something special. Many items are not allowed (porno, drugs, tobacco, food, etc.) I need some ideas of "special" gifts to send him. (No big gifts though) Got any ideas???
18/f
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I know this doesnt sound like alot but i thnk it means more if you make something for him like a colloge of oictures of you 2 together or something. With the collage you should also send him a typical letter.
Hope all goes well
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ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend a couple months ago and lately ive really been missing him and thinking ive made te biggest mistake of my life. were friends and i know he still loves me and would jump at the chance to be with me again because he tells me all the time. but for some reason im scared to tell him i still love him and want to get back together. it shouldnt scare me i know we would be happy and back together but something is restraining me from telling him how i feel. whats wrong w/ me? please help!! i really miss the way things were. thanks!! (link)
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Okay, so I think that what you should od is tell im how you feel: that you want him back but your not really sure of your relationship. Im sure that he will undstand what you mean. And if you tell him that you want him back and you already know that we wants you back, why not take a chance? Remember-Live everyday to its fullest because you only have a certain amount of time to do it :)
Hope I helped
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Ok so theres this guy who I really like, like extremely. Today in class we were doing these like dumb moves to prefixes but some were pretty cool. So one of them was like di and the word was dice so the move was blowing on YOUR OWN dice and hes like class clown so hes like can we have a lady blow on our dice and so then he his imagenary dice infront of me to blow on. Does this mean anything? Could it mean anything? What could it mean? && I asked him out a lil while ago, "recently" and he said no because he was extremely busy with baseball which is true cause he plays on two teams and thats 4 practices and 2 games a week. But he said I was a great girl. What does this mean? could it mean anything. Should I give up? RaTe hIgH aNd cOmMeNt!!
PS-He also was like very curious when I broke up with my other boyfriend like a long time ago too. (link)
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Well, since you asked him out and he said no i would give him a little space and maybe ask again a little later. And the whole blow on my dice situation sounds like major flirting, just because you need to give him space doesnt mean you have to stop flirting. So basically to sum thing up give him spac but not so much space that you dont talk/flirt anymore.
Hope that helps
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