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A LiL BiT ABOUT MOi.,.,.,

i DONT SEE THE POiNT iN ASKiNG STOOPiD QUESTiONS.. iT BORES ME :(

ERM WAT ELSE?
i LOVE LiSTENiNG TO MUSic, GOiNG OUT WiTH MY FRiENDS, GETTiNG A LiL BiT TiPSY AND OF COURSE ADViCENATORS :p iTS SO GREAT, THE AMOUNT OF TiMES I NEEDED ADViCE AND iVE COME HERE, iTS AMAZinG.

THATS ALL i CAN THinK OF RiTE NOW
:D EMMA ♥
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well i like this boy and he liked me back well and then i was really mean to him because i was in a bad mood and i never meant all that stuff i said well i never said i hate you ore anything i just never answered him :-( well so now he just pretends i dont exsist and everytime i look at him he looks away and i really like him! so does he still like me? please i really want to know! THANKS :-)

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apologise to him.
get him on his own and say you never meant to hurt him and start crying or something? when he looks away do you notice him staring at you before? anyways i cant really help because i dont know what was said and how close you were to him. sorry x x


When you kiss your bf?
Are you sopose to feel something?
And if you dont is that bad? (link)
to be honest i've never really thought about what it actually feels like, i spose its kind of nice.. tingly and you get butterflies in your stomach?? im not sure

if you don't, don't panick everyone is different so find a way to suit you and your bf. x x


when it comes to guys im way behind. im not so good at handling them. a lot of guys have approached me and like me.. but i seem to always turn them down.. not because i dont like them, but because im scared. theres only one guy ive ever trusted and he has a girlfriend. he said if he was single hed go out with me in a second. which is why i think i turn guys down. im scared that if i get into a commitment with a guy.. when the guy i really like(the one with the girlfriend) is single ill be taken. im also scared because my parents are super strict and i would have to hide a boyfriend if i had one. im 16 years old btw. ahh i dont know what to do. im missing out and i want it to stop. any advice? (link)
hey

try talking to your parents first of all. You say they are super strict, well your 16, although you'r still their little girl they are going to have to let you go some time.

just be mature towards them, when you do get a boyfriend, sit them down and say " look mum & dad i'm trying to be grown up and tell you the truth, i have a boyfriend" or something like that, they will respect you for telling the truth and i'm sure they would trust you to.

as for being shy.... well.
if lots of guys have approached you and liked you, all you have to do is not turn them down. it might not be as easy as that but once you start to trust them more it will be easier.

as for this guy, im sorry but he is with another girl, and there is nothing you can do to stop that. you say if he was single he would go out with you in a second, guys like that are often players, [i know from experience :( ]. find someone special of your own. :D
dont be scared. just get out there and have fun.

hope i helped x x


I have a band and my friend just invited the boy i have a major crush in the band and we aren't doing so well is it me or what

makk (link)
so whats your question here?


13/m

Ok, well, im a tad unpopular (Guys like me, girls....not so much.) And I have a crush on this girl, shes really pretty, really nice and everything. But she is really mostly kind of charity for the reallly unpopular kids. She dances with them at dances and pretty much dedicates herself to that. Well, I told her best friend about how I liked her (what possesed me to do that, i dont know) So I have no idea how to handle this. Her friends might alienate her as people have done with others i'd liked. A while ago, but still. I cant be sure how she will react, although i suppose that keep me from doing a lot of things. (link)
hi

so what if your unpopular...

if she likes you for who your are and you like her for who she is whats the problem?

you say she dedicates herself to the unpopular kids? well if u was unpopular wouldn't she be "dedicating" herself to you?

your only 13, you've got so many more years to worry about girls n that kinda stuff, think bout the future, i know this feeling is here and now but what about a few months down the line? will you still have the same feelings?

anyway why dont you ask her best friend what she said about you when she found out you liked her?

sorry, i can't think of anything else to write

good luck x x x



Ok so heres some backround:

Theres this boy and hes 14 and im 13/f. Our moms are best friends. We see eachother like every 3 months or even less. I like him...but i doubt he likes me. His personality is amazing and everything...its young love (link)
hi
so sorry to hear that :(
girls are often more mature than boys are when it comes to romance ( how old do i sound )
hes 14 hes probably immature ... i dont wanna sound mean or anything but generally all boys are at that age.

i kinda know what you mean about dreams not coming true, but you have to bear in mind that he probably dosent want a relationship just yet. i think you will have to get over him,, living just for one boy is silly, even though you may seem like he is actually the only thing worth living for.

just get out there and find new people, try to keep your mind off him or just try and think of bad reasons for him like hardly ever seeing him, wvwn if you were with him, seeing him once in a few months is harldy worth it.

i cant think of anything else to write now sorry
:(
but i hope i helped
sorry if it is long xoxox


Ok, so I have this one guy friend, who I happen to like. But, he really really likes another girl. And I'm fine with that, but the problem is that this girl only likes him as a friend. Like at the dance they were dates and she was dancing with another guy...and i saw her grab him. And he looked really sad, so i got to dance with him. But out of the corner of his eye i could see he was watching her the whole time and I could tell he was sad. To me it kinda seems like a love triangle. I like him. He likes her. She likes someone else. Does anyone have any ideas of what to do?

sorry its kinda confusing and long (link)
i think you should get everyone in a room and just tell them how you feel, that way you would all get your feelings out.
i know its kinda hard but its the best way if you all come clean bout what your all feeling

hope i helped ♥ x0x


Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate. (link)
no not at all

if you both have feelings for each other whats stopping you, apart from like a 7/8+ year gap it should be fine lol
have fun and be carefull xox
♥ ◊


There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him. (link)
well der

if you really love him nothing will come between you, heres part of a song i listen to when i think about love and stuff:

its called quick fade by feeder, ill quote a lil bit...

glide, glide over tides, waves that pull you, oceans divide us once and bring you home again, love will survive...........

and so on
its s0o0o0o0 cute lol
hope i helped xox ◊ ♥


what are some good ways to ask someone to dance at a club? (link)
erm
well ;)
this is what i do..
just start dancing with them, and then make convosation about 5 mins later.
always works, dont forget to get there number !
emma xoxox


Does anyone know how i can ask the following q's to a girl in away that wont make girls wonder why im asking it.Can you give me a sneakier way of asking the following q's

What do you like to find in a friend?
what kind of guy do you like?
Who are your friends?

----------------AND/OR---------------------------
How can you find out stuff on a girl? Not like gossip but more like her fave movies and bands, ect.
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hey
well,, im a girl so i might be able to help!!
just go over to her and start talkin to her like you would normally.

dont ask her question after question after question lol cos she will just feel intimidated.

-what do you like to find in a friend:
just talk to her about a girl that evry one hates in your school or whatever, and tell her what you hate about her, say like " omg dont you just hate the way ____ acts? shes so fake, i hate fake people" or something.
if you say what you like to find in a friend, then shes more than likely to tell you more about her friends.
- what kind of guy do you like:
hmm this is a bit harder :(
just start chatting about a mutual friend that has a boyfriend, for example, " jenny and dave really suit each other, they really click don't they" then carry on to talk about what famous girls you admire in bands/tv or something; " i really like the way ___ is, if i found a girl like her i would be happy" then ask her what famous men she admires, and then check them out to see what qualities they have to make her like them.

- who are your friends:
just start talking about mutual friends (if any) and ask who she goes out with to movies/clubs/shopping with and then bingo.. you have her friends.

i get the feeling that your into this girl...
if thats the case just be straight up with her, say something like " i hardly know you but i really like you and want to get to know you better"
or you could write her a little letter/note explaing how you feel towards her

hope i helped :)
good luck, emma xoxox



Do you think its wrong to be bisexual? (link)
NO!!!!!!!!
you are who you are.
no one or no thing can change that
be proud of who you are :D
luv ya x


i like this guy, hes 17, and he has a gf. i was hanging out with my friends yesterday and he was there, i new him from lik 3 years a go because i tired to get the hook up with him, but he ended up going out with my best friend, and that was totally kool wit me. and now 3 years lata i see him. and i didnt reconize him. but then i relized it was him and me and him were ahngin out. well him and his 2 friends had to leave, and he asked if i woudl walk him out to his car so i was lik yea. i did and we walked up the street a lil, and he asked for my number i gave it too him and he said that him and his friends made a bet that he couldnt kiss a girl tonight, so he asked for a kiss and i gave him a kiss, and we made out a lil, not people are saying im a slut because i made out with a guy that i liked but i wasnt goin out with him, and they said it was stupid of me because i new it was a bet, well i new it was a bet and i dont really mind bcuz it was a win win situation, i got a kiss and he won the bet i dont understand the big deal is. (link)
so wats the question?


Im pretty late...and I'm 16 going on 17 btw I feel like an idiot and I know its all my fault. Anyway how am I gonna break it to my parents? (link)
hey
first off take a pregnancy test..
just because your late it doesnt mean your pregnant it could be stress, diet, weight all different things.
so before you tell your parents anything just think things through carefully..
if you are pregnant, do want the baby? is the babies father still around?
hope i helped
emma xox


My English teacher once told me, 'Don't marry someone you love, marry someone who completes you.'

Does anyone have any idea what that could mean, in a way? Like, how can someone complete you? (link)
hey
i think he means that no one is a complete person untill they find their soulmate, so basically don't marry someone because you love them, marry someone beacause they make you a whole person
hope i helped xox


Ok, well, I got a role in an upcoming production of Oliver in Foxboro. Now there is this guy that I think is pretty cute. He is so nice and really funny, and I can't stop thinking about him. He acts like he is flirting with me and that he likes me, but how can I be sure if it's flirting or just common kindness. I mean come on, the guy sits on my lap for Pete's sake. we have so much in common, and I don't want to riuin anything by asking him out if then I realise that he dosen't fell the same. I described how he acts twards me to all my friends, and the y think that he is flirting. But I can not be sure. Do you think this is the real thing or is he just acting. And if it's real , should I tell him what I think?

One confused actress (link)
hey good luck for the play
just go for it, you never know what may happen if you dont
but he is an ACTOR??
so he might be acting? who knows?
lol just go for it and see what happens.
xxx


I know these aren;t the best questions to ask, but im not gunna ask anyone else!! There's a guy and his name is Gil. I always thought he liked me, but was never sure! Here are some signs he shows:

-He laughs at me
-Today he poked me purposely and I said "What?" and he said sorry
-He popped my bra strap once
-He smiles at me

Thats it...Does he like me? It's starting to annoy me!!! (link)
hey
he sure does
boys always do stuff like that to try and get your attention. lol if you like him go for it.
lol have fun!!
emma xox


Okay so there's alot of ways to get over an X-BF, but how do you just get over a guy -who's done nothing to youy. Hes like the sweetest guy ever, who would do anything for me. So dont tell me to focus on his bad traits cause he doesnt have any. But i still want to get over him..cause there's too much temptation with him. He doesnt presure me or anything..its my own body. w/e i dont know :S i just wanna get over him..but how do i do this when there's no actual reason to get over him. He hasnt done anything bad to me..but dont try to convince me to stay with him. Caue i know that i need to break up with him, but its hard you know.. and its not like i have any other guy that i can use to get my mind off of him..so what do i do?
Thanx for any help-. (link)
hey
just stop thinking about him.
thats what i did. he wasnt by bf i wanted to be with him sooooo much i was crying myself to sleep everynight.
so i just stopped thinking about him. there will be some days where all you can think about is him but dont.
why do you need to break up with him?
hope i helped
emma xoxox


I have pretty long hair...when I hold my arms to my side, my hair comes to about an inch above my elbow. I'd like to get it layered, but I'm not sure...I have a round face, so I'd look bad with short layers, but a medium cut might be nice...but then again, I don't really want to part with my hair. It's not thin, but not abnormaly thick, either. Any ideas of new styles? It's gotta look good, too...because I'd like to ask this guy out, and new hair will make me confindent ;)

Thanks for reading; please answer with any ideas. (link)
hey
keep your hair that length but maybe just get like a lil trim and then get a side sweeping fringe and get loads of layers. it would look great tousled like sienna millers or joss stones.
hope i helped
xx
emma


i cant understand why i cant attract any boys.Alot of my guy friends think im hot but they just think im not the girl a boy will go for as a girlfriend.i dont know whats wrong with me.if im friendly they think im desperate for friends if im not im a snob.i just cant seems to do it right.my girl friends who is less preetier seems to attract more boys.i just want to feel special sometimes.i think ill never will. (link)
just be yourself.
thats all i can say
dont act too relaxed and dont act to tense around boys,, just show like your having a gd time and friendly n out going then they will be flooding to ya
gd luck
emma xoxox




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