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How to get over a guy...
Ok so heres some backround:
Theres this boy and hes 14 and im 13/f. Our moms are best friends. We see eachother like every 3 months or even less. I like him...but i doubt he likes me. His personality is amazing and everything...its young love<3
So...Our families saw eachother today and I just can't get over the fact that he will never like me like I like him!! It's sad because he is the first person I have ever LOVED!! I know...but love is for all ages and this is not infatuation! I planned for weeks on what to wear and things like that. I feel like the only reason im living is to see him!! This is not healthy and I need help! Nothing can get him out of my mind!
How do I accept that my dreams will NEVER come true?! There is just no hope when we only see eachother every so often! I don't have his SN or his e-mail or anything but his phone number!! I'm not calling because that would be so weird!! HELP MEE!!
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just tell him how you feel and if he dosent like you then youll find some way to get over him but who klnoes wuyt if he likes you ???????
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omg that sounds just the same as me and this other girl...Drewsie of course...but...
we would say each other occasionally...i think like around 1 or 2 months...and wen we meet....we have the most greatest times...but theres this guy...that she met when she was four...and they were closer then anything...they went out for a long time...then he breaks up with her and it breaks her heart very badly...and she thinks that he will never like her but she is the most perfect person in the world to me!! And all that im doing is being here with her no matter what and i will always love her...and we have the greatest times...even "Danced in the Rain"...i just love her!! and She is also the first person i have EVER loved..aw it just fascinates me..but sorry this is not what you wanna hear....it just seems similar...
We love each other but she just cant get him out of her mind..and i dont mind...so if you meet someone else...and he is still on your mind...if he's a person like me...he wont care..he'll still love you just as much...but if hes not...he may not be worth it
Some things...you just have to take for granted...the universe unfolds as it should...
But...it also unfolds as you call him some days...i kno you dont want to...but you have to tell him or let him think that your interested...
Other than this...i wish you the best of luck and i hope ive helped!!
Sethie;)
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aww hun! I know how hard that is.. believe me, I bet most girls understand how it feels to have uncontrolable feelings for a guy who doesnt have them back! It hurts just thinking about it! I remember when I went away to a different country to see my family and met a guy who I totally developed a crush on.. when I came back, he was all I could think about for like half a year straight!!! So my advice is...
*Next time you see him, try not to show that you're crushing on him
*Try getting to know him a little better
*My friends have always told me the best way they could get over somebody is to tell them their feelings.. I know it sounds embarassing, but they say it works... and its not like you see him everyday... so maybe it will work for you?!...but...
*Your only 13.. I know you're not a baby or anything.. but guys take time to mature, (especially at 14).. I think that you just need to give him some time to mature, and get to know your sparkling personality! It might not work out right away, but maybe it will in the future.. or maybe you will find someone else.. just give it time!
*Next time you spark up a convo with him, try to focus on getting his SN or e-mail.. but DO NOT i repeat DO NOT talk to him on SN everytime he's on.. make him want you!!! And the first time he comes online, he should talk to you... if he doesnt, try to resist talking to him, and you can spark up a convo the next time he comes on.. :D
I hope I helped out a little!:D
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well, it sounds like you really like this kid. Do u know that he doesn't like you too. I mean even if it is a long shot, he might. Dont give up hope, but on the other hand dont wait for him for too long. One thing you have to realize is that there are other people out there, and sometimes the guys aren't worth it. You're right, living like this is not healthy. You need to go out there like a free single and maybe u'll find someone better along the way. Remember, everything happens for a reason.
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hi
so sorry to hear that :(
girls are often more mature than boys are when it comes to romance ( how old do i sound )
hes 14 hes probably immature ... i dont wanna sound mean or anything but generally all boys are at that age.
i kinda know what you mean about dreams not coming true, but you have to bear in mind that he probably dosent want a relationship just yet. i think you will have to get over him,, living just for one boy is silly, even though you may seem like he is actually the only thing worth living for.
just get out there and find new people, try to keep your mind off him or just try and think of bad reasons for him like hardly ever seeing him, wvwn if you were with him, seeing him once in a few months is harldy worth it.
i cant think of anything else to write now sorry
:(
but i hope i helped
sorry if it is long xoxox
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