My name is Morgan
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oooook.so..i have this one friend..i've been friends with him for as long as i can remember..&& every single flipping year i always get the biggest crush on him..i've told him before but it was just like blah..but anyway.i'm really starting to like him again.we flirt like non stop whenever we're together.he's just the type of guy that i can just be chill around.but my problem is that he's kinda shy && i dno.he acts like he likes me.like today he wanted me to give him a low-five so i did && he kinda just held my hand there..so i dnooo.i'm wondering what i should do.i don't exactly know how to tell him.you know??but i dno.can someone please help me?? (link)
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It sounds like you guys are really close friends, so I would come straight out and tell him. When you're hanging out together sometime just say "I need ot be completely honest with you I like you again & I just feel like I can completely be myself around you." I bet you he feels the same way. Good luck
~morgan
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14/f
i've had boyfriends before, but this boy, is my world. he loved me when i didn't even love myself.
we have been going out for a year && a few months, but suddenly his grandma has cancer and there are other reasons, but hes moving to Ecuador. He told me he'll come back for me in two years. [He's moving in two weeks] I spent last night crying till i threw up and only got an hour a sleep. 2 years though!? what am i suppose to do? im only 14. his parents asked for me to come with him, but i said no. i can't, im too young and even i know that. advice or opinons are appreciated =/ (link)
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Wow, tough situtation. Nothing you do or say is going to stop him from moving. The best you can do is try extrememly hard to keep in touch. Don
t jsut e-mail and IM either. Call as much as you can& save money so that you can go there for vacation and spend time with him. It sounds like he & his family love you & if you really love him ( which it sounds like you do) you'll be able to wait for him. Don't spend all your time worrying...live your life & the two years will past faster than you know it. If you can make it through two years, you can make it through anything.
~Morgan
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i like this kid and he likes me too. he makes it pretty obvious that he likes me and all of our friends are well aware of it. the thing is that i've told more than a few people that i DON'T like him (including him) just to get him to back off. he has a little bit, but now that i think i'm ready for a relationship, i want to tell him. what's the easiest way to admit that i like him? (link)
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Just tell him. I know that seems really simple, but it really is the easiest & best way to tell someone you like them. Good luck.
~Morgan
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i have the best friend in the world except that he confuses me a lot. i saw him wed when we were at a birthday party together. my friend karina kept telling me that he was flirting with me and i kinda noticed it too. he kept tickling me and then like touching me. then after the party we had to go outside and he told karina to stay inside but she came out with us anyways. so i dont know if he was planning to do something and wanted to get me alone. we r really good friends and he had always said he doesnt like me and flirts a lot but it seemed different yesterday. karina says hes prbly just scared to admit that he does and since we dont go to the same school anymore he misses me a lot. so can anyone see him liking me? (link)
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He probably does like you, but just is too afraid to admit it. He prob. doesn't want to ruin the friendship that he already has with you and by not going to the same school it's even harder. Many guys flirt by touching you and stuff and it means he wants to be closer to you, so I have a feeling he really does like you. Just sit him down & ask him, you'll be able ot tell then. Good luck.
~Morgan
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so i'm only 15, and i've been dating my boyfriend for like 5 months, and i have never felt this way about anyone before. i feel like i am in love with him! we always tell eathother how much we love eachother, and we both wanna be together for the rest of our lives! he has changed my life soo much and all in good ways, and when hes with me hes a much better person, i make him a better person. he makes me feel so happy, and when i'm not with him, i miss terribly!! i can't live without him. for about a month we took a break cause we felt like we were becomming too close, but it was too hard for us. we can't be apart. do you think thats its crazy for me to be in love? cause i really think i'm in love with him! (link)
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I don't think it's crazy for you to be in love. If it has been months & you're still as crazy about him as when you started going out, then chances are you probably are. Just be careful, that he loves you too. Good luck & I hope you have a long happy relationship.
I hope I Helped!
~Morgan
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Ok im going to the movies with the girl of my dreams and some other people from our soccer team. I talked to her freind who is also on my team, she said that I need to be nice and flirt with her, now there is the problem I dont no how to flirt. Her freind said dont be creepy flirt. Remeber were going to the movies. Ill put on what kind of movie when I get that sorted out. So geeting to my question. How do I flirt if im in a scary movie, a funny movie, or a chick flick? I want her to like me and I think she already does a bit. And im a Guy im 14. I just want to no how to flirt and get her to like me. I need examples on flirting i no shes not green and im not either;)
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If you guys are comfortable with eachother then try holding her hand or putting your arm around her. Don't try anything to suggestive, just a little sensitivity. Make sure you sit next to her and if she pulls away when you try to do something then don't keep doing it. Also, try not to talk to her a lot during th emovie, it can get rather annoying. Just make a few comments on funny or good points of the movie. If it's a sad movie and she starts to cry wipe the tears off her face, it's a rlly cute way to show affection. Good luck & I hope I helped.
~MOrgan
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I'm in 8th grade and i really like this guy and he likes me too, we talk and flirt constantly but he just won't make a move. I would love to go out with him but he's kind of shy when it comes to the asking out part and i don't really want to ask him out so what do i do to give him some hints that i like him? (link)
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Being in 8th grade, I totally know where you are coming from. Be flirty with him just don't over do it 'cuz he might start to think you're annoying. If you are comfortable with him tell him you like him but that if he doesn't like you it's cool and nothing has to change. You don't want to pressure him into anything he doesn't want. IF you both want to go out then make it so it isn't so hard for him to ask you out. Instead of having him come up to you and say "will you go out wiht me? just make a mutual decision to be goign out or tell him your okay with him asking you out online or in a note or soemthing. GOOD LUCK. I hope I helped.
~Morgan
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Hey im a 13/f and i have a b/f and he is so cool and i love him to death. But he is getting absessed with kissing me should i let him or not ??? but please help..... (link)
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WEll, if you're not comfortable with it then just tell him you want to slow it down so that it doesnt lose meaning. If he loves you and respects you he wil slow it down if not, then he isn't even worth it.
I hope I helped & good luck!
_Morgan
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this girl i like is popping by just to visit me in a bit. im only gonna see her for a few minutes. truth is im really falling for her and i dont know what to do. alot of the times i find we just have alot of awkward silence, like tehre is nothign to do and absolutly nothing to talk about. i really like her, and she likes me somewhat. i dont think she would say yes if i asked her out, because she doesnt do the whole commitment thing but that doesnt mean she wont hook up with me. so what should i do, she'll be here soon, and we will only have a short amount of time together. what can i say to get her into a romantic type of feeling maybe so we can make out or somthing. because honestly, i dont know what there is to talk about anymore, we've talke forever about almost everything. and i really like her. (link)
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Try not to make it obvious that you're trying to get her to make-out with you or anythign and don't make i obvious that you don't know what to do. Just play it cool and the easier it will be for conversation and possibly other things to happen. Ask her how life is going and so on, general questions that require full answers not just yes or no. GOOD LUCK!
~Morgan
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Ok so I'm 15 years old and I have a boyfriend and I love him so much...we'll I think. Sometimes he calls me dummy and stupid and then says that he really likes me. But its like he can't talk to me about personal stuff. I know he loves me but I want him to show it more how?. I love him so much but its hard sometimes to talk to him and show him my feelings. Sometimes I can't even say I love you?. Why and I do know I mean it. Also how do I get him to stop calling me stupid I know he loves me though. Oh and how to I get him to tell me his personal stuff and to let me in?.
Thanks lotsss! (link)
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Sometimes it takes years to build up trust...
If he really loves you he will start telling you personal stuff more and more as time goes on, the more he trusts you the more he'll tell you so once he tells you soemthing, anything don't tell a soul.
Have you asked him to stop calling you stupid? Maybe it's jsut his way of flirting, maybe he doesn't know it bothers you. Every time he says it remind him that it really bothers you, if he loves you, he'll stop.
Good luck and don't forget that trust takes time to build.
~Morgan
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so valentines is next week, and by then me and this boy will have been going out for 3 weeks. and, our relationship isnt that serious. we just kinda hang out, we don't act like we're dating. so, should i get him a special gift? and if i do what should i get him? what do guys like on valentines?.. thanks. =] (link)
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Since you are going out you should probably get him something but since it hasn't been that long and it isn't really like dating don't spend too much time or money on your gift. Chocolate & a nice card is always a good idea. You could go to the movies or something casually with a group of friends if you want to do something but not "go on a date." Hope I Helped
xo Morgan
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yes, i have a bf but i also have this friend who like watches every move i make i can never do things at my own pace cas she always gets hers and her bf's nose in everything...i really love my bf but i want to go at my own pace not hers....wht should i do??? (link)
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Try talking to your friend and telling her that while she made be ready to do all of those things, you're not and you want to go at your own pace. If she is a real friend she'll understand that you just aren't ready to go that fast yet. If she doesn't understand, don't dump your boyfriend because of it, dump her. It isn't any help when you have a nosy friend (& her bf) weighing you down all the time. Explain to her why you don't want to do the things she wants you to do and if you have to explain why you need to "get away" from her for a little while.
Hope I Helped
xo Morgan
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hey, i think i need a bit of guidance, i just had my first heartbreak.
i know it will take time, i know what ive gotta do (girl nights, erase his number and so on) its not that part that worries me.. it's the actual letting go. what i mean is, that moment when i finally accept that it's over, nothing worth fighting for, the moment i stop thinking "maybe we'll meet one day in the future and end up together anyways" the moment i truly accept that he'll no longer be in my life.. yeah, that moment is the one i fear. It's going to hurt, so badly. I know that-- but what happen after that? after the days of crying, when you run out of tears,, what happens? caus this is seriously my FIRST heartbreak EVER, i dont know how these things work.. it's a weird sort of heartbreak too, like he didn't cheat, we didn't fight or anything.. he's still the perfect guy i fell for, the guy i love, it's just that i moved, to another country.. and if im lucky i'll see him once a year, but that's it. so it had to end, we were forced to end it. i know it was the right decision, but i dont know how to deal with it.. please help! (link)
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It's possible that he is thinking the same thing about you...it would be way to hard to make that long distance relationship work but try to stay in touch and stay best friends. Find someone new that will help you get your mind off him. I know having your heart broken is horrible but you will make it through I promise. Just keep your options open and don't make your whole life revolve around this guy that you never get to see.
Hope I Helped
~morgan
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OK, this is complicated...
14/F
I had a boyfriend. I HAD. Let's say his name is Collin.
I saw him making out with this other girl after school, though. In public, like, right out the school doors, at the stairs. He and that girl didn't even try to hide behind anything, pretty thoughtless. So I told him I'd seen what he did the next day, and his only excuse is, "I'm sorry... I couldn't help it." I guess he expected me to forgive him because he looked seriously freaked when I dumped him right there.
I got over him, and he kept apologizing to me (probably because THAT GIRL turned out to be taken) and begging me to go out with him again. I know he's not loyal. I had a major heartbreak because I thought I was special to him but he just goes whatever about me to kiss THAT GIRL.
I started going out with this other guy, say... Brent. I'm really starting to love Brent alot. He helped me out of my depression and he;s really sweet... but then Collin shows up with slit wrists and tells me he'd keep cutting himself if I don't go back to him. I told him I really like Brent and even though I hate Collin, I don't want him to hurt himself because he's still a human being.
What should I do? (link)
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If you can...tell somebody about Collin slitting his wrists because that could be dangerous and you shouldn't have to go out with him just to make him stop. Don't dump Brent and go out with Collin just because you don't want to hurt Collin. He should learn that it is his fault and if he really cared about you he would want you to be happy, which is with Brent.
Hope I Helped
~Morgan
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ok so i was about to get together with this guy when my family decided to move.. so i toldhim to wait for me, i'd be back in a year.. and he waited.. now im supposed to be back for xmas.. but my family decided to saty here for another year.. so its' over. but i dont want him to give up on me! i know he's going to date other girls, thats okay, as long as he doesnt give u on me completly, as llong as im in the back of his head.. so what do i do? I WILL NOT TELL HIM THIS. so is there any other way to MAKE SURE im on his mind, and he doesnt give up on me.. ?? (link)
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Keep talking to him as much as you can on the phone, AIM, write letters, e-mail...whatever you have to do to stay in touch. IF he really loves you, he won't forget and he will try to wait. The best thing to do is tell him all of this but since you said you won't just don't give up onhim and he won't give up on u.
Hope I helped
xoxo Morgan
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14/F
Hi, me again!!
I have yet another question about "Graham". You said to just let him know I like him when we've gotten to the point of good friendship and that certain comfort level...but how do I tell him, or even bring it up for that matter??? (I want to ask him to turnabout, but I'm not sure he'll say yes.) What to do, what to do....do you know?? Can you help please??
Again!!, xox! (link)
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Well...asking him to turnabout is deff. a way to hint to him that you like him. Don't be worried about him saying yes, remember, the worst thing that can happen is he says no and there isn't to much evil in that.
You can try telling him you like him online or through a note...or if you have the guts in person but I know that is really hard.
If you need anymore help, I'm here.
~Morgan
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14/F
Hi!! I am in highschool, and I REALLY like this guy. We are friends, and are in some classes together. How do I get him to like me? (Let's say his name is "Graham".) Graham is the type of guy who basically every girl fawns over. But he is also really nice, smart, hott, and shy. I don't know how to get his attention in quite that way where he would be interested enough in me to ask me out, since he's shy and all. Can you help me please? (I really want to go out with him, and also have him be my first kiss.) :) (link)
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Try talking to him as much as you can and partnering up in classes. Don't forget to be yourself and try to make friends with him. When you get comfortable talking to him and stuff, tell him you like him. It's hard not to fall for someone when you know they like you. Good luck!
I Hope I Helped
~Morgan
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Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers (link)
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Yes, Ex's can still be friends, I have seen it happen plenty of times. If you were friends before you went out soemtimes breaking up even makes your relationship stronger.
~Morgan
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Ok...i like this boy and i told my bff. Now, i know that she is flirting with him. She let him carry her backpack down the stairs and i know that he likes her because he told his best friend who told us. I dont want to talk to her about it because she is not easy to talk to about this kind of stuff and would immediatly deny it. She is not a bad friend at all...she wouldn't do anything to hurt me bacause we have been friends for a while and she has never done anything to hurt me intentially. So...i dont know what to do. He always asks her to be partners with him and says hi to her everyday and he never talks to me unless he needs to borrow something. I dont care if he likes her because everybody can like who they want to, i just dont know why she is flirting with him when she knows i like him. Any advice for me to take without having to talk to her? If so...thats okay to.
Thanks (link)
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If this guy likes your friend anyway maybe you should just try to move on and find someone else. Don't get mad at your friend for flirting, especially if you haven't talked to her. It will just make matter worse. If you don't want to give up on this boy then you really have to talk to your friend even if you don't want to.
Hope I Helped
--MOrgan
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okay, i wrote something on this site a couple of days ago about a guys that i liked that liked me back etc. well yea i was talking to him the other day on the phone and everything was good, and he said i love you before we got off the phone and it was soooo cute=] and well i thought everything was good. but i guess not, because the next day i found out that he was going out with someone.. and well i was obviously mad at the fact that he had a g/f and didnt tell me, and that he still said i love you to me, but what made me even more mad was the fact that it is a girl that i HATE!!! and so i called him to confront him abotu it, and i started to cry=[ well, he wants to talk to me now, and he told me to stay after to talk to him and so i did but he hasnt talked to me yet.. what should i do??? (link)
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Give him a little time to plan everything out and talk to you before you completely freak out on him. There is a chance that he has a reasonable explanation for all of this, maybe he is dumping his gf to be with you, who knows. My best advice to you is to just stay calm and let him explain before things get worse.
Hope I Helped
~Morgan
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