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i have questions about how to get a boy to like me
14/F
Hi!! I am in highschool, and I REALLY like this guy. We are friends, and are in some classes together. How do I get him to like me? (Let's say his name is "Graham".) Graham is the type of guy who basically every girl fawns over. But he is also really nice, smart, hott, and shy. I don't know how to get his attention in quite that way where he would be interested enough in me to ask me out, since he's shy and all. Can you help me please? (I really want to go out with him, and also have him be my first kiss.) :)
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talk to him. let's face it, he's never going to know nything about you if you just hang back while he's getting to know all of these other girls. and learning more about eachother and getting closer does tend to have the effect of getting a guy to see you as more than just...well...whatever he sees you as now. even shy guys need someone to talk to. try to be the friend he can trust. only show your good qualities around him, like no gossiping and stuff. basically be a friend first. now i'm not garunteeing that it will definently make you more than friends but a lot of times it does. and i have about a million girls who once didn't know how to get the guy they love to like them that'll back me up on that one.
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ok well i was in a similar case until the boy i liked moved. i never even told him i liked him.well aneway, find out wat he likes to do and then look it up or sumthing. then wen you talk to him you can talk about stuff he likes and he'll think you like it to. mabey you wouldn't like to do that but i just talked to the boi i liked over aim and i asked him if he thought i was ugly but thats not the point. neway, he told me that if i liked i boi i should do wat i said you could do and well he didnt say this part but i think the boi might be a little flattered if you "like" the same things he does.
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Try talking to him as much as you can and partnering up in classes. Don't forget to be yourself and try to make friends with him. When you get comfortable talking to him and stuff, tell him you like him. It's hard not to fall for someone when you know they like you. Good luck!
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~Morgan
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