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my b/f told me he loved me and i didnt say it back because all my friends were there and i wasnt 100% sure if i was in love with him.my best friend started making jokes about him and laughing about him saying why on earth is he in love with you and to think you would love him back.then she asked me do i love him?i said i didnt and i just laughed it off.but i would have said i do but i wasnt sure if i was and to be honest i was a bit scared to say i was because i am so young and because of what my friends would say.but now i am 100% sure i am madly in love with my b/f and im ready to tell the world.but i cant contact my boyfriend because his phone is broke and we cant meet up.im afraid that because we cant be ringing and sending messages to each other that we might just drift apart.i really dont want that to happen.and if i tell all my friends i love him and then afterwards we break up they will just be making jokes and laughing at us because we said we loved each other but we still broke up.im really in love with him and he is the best b/f in the world but im afraid that because we wont be able to contact each other and we will just drift apart.now im so annoyed with myself i didnt say i love him that day when all my friends were there and most important he was there.he knows i really really like him but i want him to know i love him.have i messed it up?am i the worst g/f in the world?i need advice please give it,xxaoifexxx (link)
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noo your not the worst gf in the world. if your not ready then DONT say it. and if your sure ... then go a head and say it. who cares what your freinds say they prob. dont have bfs and like.. are jealous or dont understand what its like.
okay i got this from seventeen mag. and like ill type it out. its like the perfect thing for this:
HOW SOON IS TOO SOON?:
Even if you've fallen for him after two fates wait until your together at least four months before saying "i love you". Those are strong words and could put too much pressure on both of you if they're said too early.
"i had been dating my guy only a few weeks when i decided to call a radio station and tell him i loved him on the air. it freaked him out and broke up with me the next day! i wont rush saying it ever again" - jessica, 19, carlsbad, ca
I SAID IT HE DIDNT:
Dont worry, tell him he really doesn't have to say it back- you just had to tell him how you felt. then avoid the "l word" for a month. if he hasn't said it, ask how he feels about you- you might be in different places.
"After a date with my guy, i blurted out, "i love you" but he said nothing back- it was awful. then a dew weeks later in the middle of a deep discussion, he said he loved me. im happy he waited until he meant it." -tamika, 18, superior, wi
HE SAID IT, SHOULD I?:
If you feel it, say so! but if you're unsure, saying it is misleading- and unfair. tell him you really care about him, but you not ready to say love. if you're both happy together, the feeling and words will come in time.
"The guy i was dating said he loved me. i said it back to be nice, but i didnt feel it. then i had to keep saying it, so i felt guilty and wished id never said it. i knew it was unfair to keep going, so i finally split up with him." -adruenne, 20, tampa, fl
just blow your friend off or tell them to stop making comments because hes your boyfriend and you really do like him. and if they cant understand that. then show them that your anyoyed and that you want your boyfriend and your relationship to be treated with respect just like yours and your friends relationship. like im sure you bf doesnt go around laughing at things that your friends say. so why shoudld they? dont be mean about it tho.
Our friends would all make fun of us
and we'll just laugh along because we know
That none of them have felt this way
just keep that little thing in your head =] its from that song "Hey There Delilah" .
hope i helpedddd. =]
any more questions ask.
oh and about the whole like... not being able to see him thing. well you could try aim, you could try calling his house, try going to his house, hang out with him as much as you can in school (if you guys go to the same school), umm write letters to him? haha. just stuff like that. =] ohhhhhh and try like...going to the movies with him if you cann. =]
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Okay sorry this is so long....
ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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honestly, i think hes using you. guys say ALOT of of crap to just get in your pants. not to be mean or anything but by the way hes acting it sounds like hes gonna get some ass from you and then leave && treat you like shit. besides theres a huge age difference. i mean think about it if hes gonna go to college and your still gonna be in highschool. hes prob. gonna just like dump you anyways before he goes to college. sorry but thats just how it ussaully works out. and like. if your not ready then you shouldn't do it. your 15 for godsake. serousily. i wouldn't do anything that im not ready to do .. and you shouldn't either.
and if he really loved you then he would respect your decision. im sorry but like this stuff is drilled into my head because i know friends who have been through it and my dad serousily has drilled this shit into my head since i was like... 8. and you know what else.? thats like a serouis line that alot of guys use. like if you dont have sex with me then its over. come on. if he really loved you then he wouldnt dump you because you dont want to have sex. if he really loved you then he would respect you by not forcing it down on you. honestly, im just saying that im 100% sure that hes using you and that you should forget about it. sorry but its true.
and only say i love you if you truely mean it. im not saying that you dont love him, but just remember that.
pleasee dont make the wrong decission and have sex. im telling you, guys say that all the time like "baby i love you. your everything to me." just to get in your pants. i mean some guys really mean it but in this case with the whole sex thing, im telling you thats what he wants from you. i mean its been TWO WEEKS. thats really really rushing into things. it just sounds like he wants to "hit and quit". serouisly. im telling you. like i dont know how many times i said that but ahhhh.!
and if he really wants to be with you forever and stuff then cant he wait untill your ready to have sex if hes planning to spend the rest of his life with you? yeahh. im telling you and please believe me that he just wants some ass and then leave you. it happens all the time. and i know im saying it over and over but like ive just seen it happen so many times before and heard so many diffrent things so please please please only do it when your ready. and if he dumps you because you wont have sex. then honestly. hes not the kind of guy you want to be with.
for like the 17289471823 time. make the right decisssion.
best of luckk =]
&& hope i heled.
any more questiong ask.
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I like this guy and he stares at me in classes and talks to me and stuff. But i cant really tell if he likes me.. What do I do to tell if he really likes me?
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http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Guy-to-Admit-That-He-Likes-You
thosee are good websites thatt will help. the first one is to tell if a guy likes you and the second if what to do.
hope i helped =]
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1 )How can you tell if a guy likes you...?
2) Are these signs that a guy likes you:
when hes walking with another girl he glances at you
he smiles at you slightly when he sees you looking at him
goes along with other people saying he likes you as a joke
any answers are great. DONT send me to sights. thanks =]
personal stories are welcome as well.
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1.umm okay i know that you said dont send me to sights but i have one that will list all the signs when a guy likes you so i'll send them anyways.
also. they smile, try to get you to notice them, try to talk to you and stuff. those links really will help =] okay and um they try to get you to pay attention to them. they laugh. try to be near you. flirtt with you.
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?search=know+when+a+guy+likes+you&fulltext=Search
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?search=signs+that+a+guy+likes+you&fulltext=Search
2. yeah i think it is. serouisly. why else would he smile and stuff. its not like his friends are really with him so he has to joke around. i think he likes you since like guys ussaully do that from experience and stuff.
.. i think this guy likes you and might just be shy to admit it to his friends. =]
best of luck
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oka were should i begin well lets see there this boy that i liked and im in 7 grade and he in 8 and i told all my friends that i liked him oka, anywayz i found out that he like my friend and he ask her out but a course she said no which i waz happy about.Now that was like about a while bakc now im in 8 grade and i still like that same boy and my freinds kept telling me i should make a move so i did i wrote him a note saying how i feel so i gave the note to my friend to give it to him. like a few min laters my friend told what he said, and he dont feel the sane way about me and i was soooo sad, but thats not the worst of it. a couple of months later i found out he have a gf and i was shocked. Then a couple months later i found out that they broke up now he is single and i still like him alot but the problem is i wanna give it another shot but im afraid what he might say. my friends says that i should get over him but i cant do that im like crazy over him and every time i see him in the hallways my whole body just heat up. So now i dont know what to do should i go for it or just forget about it and move on.
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dont write a note talk to him. go right up. and if he
still doesnt like you, then thats his prob. because there are so many guys out there. seriously.
heres some websites that might help =]
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?search=talk+to+a+guy+you+like&fulltext=Search
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?search=ask+him+out&fulltext=Search
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?search=get+him+to+like+you%27&fulltext=Search
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?search=get+a+guy+to+have+a+crush+on+you&fulltext=Search
hope i helped.
any more questions just ask =]
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Lemme hear all the ideas u have =)
Yes he likes me but how do I make him jealous?? (link)
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talk to other guys.
flirt with other guys.
ignore him kinda.
laugh and stuff with other guys.
its really easy. just like talk about other guys in front of him and stuff like that.
you can look in magazines to.
or use google =]
heres some links that might help:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070304230345AAbGMqm
http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_make_him_jealous
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?search=make+him+jealous&fulltext=Search
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Guy-Jealous
the last one is probably the most helpful one.
hope i helped
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this guy i liked, i dont really like him no more, i like this other guy, but how can i tell the first that i dont like him no more.
- NO suggestions about passing notes in class or anything.
- i'm telling him online.
thanks xx
btw im 13/f (if that helps) (link)
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umm yeah i agree with not giving him a note or anything..never put anything down in writing because then they could always show it to people and stuff. umm well you could call them and be like:
YOU: hey.
Him: hey
You: are you around anyone
him: no
then tell him. umm or you coudl just tell him in person in the nicest way possable that you dont like him anymore.
hope i helped. if that didnt help then tell me because i can always think up more
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i want 2 get str8 2 the point i like 2 guys let me explain them both 2 u..... not the looks but the personality thats what i want
Jeremy
phsyco(but i love it)
examples brung a steak knife 2 school
(i told him not 2 bring it any more) he stopped.
put boot protector on his hand and set it on fire (what a wierdo i still luv it)
i asked him did he have a girlfriend he said no i like the single life 4 rite now (he needs me in his life)
always sits with me on the bus (even when there are empty seats) he sits pretty close
always waves at me and tells me hey
gave me a hug(once because i got this jacket from this girl for him)
Hakim
he is younger than me (by like 1 year)
he is in a lower grade than me
he said that last week he had three girlfriend in a row but the broke up with all of them because they are childish
gave me a hug (once i guess because he wanted 2)
told his cousin he likes me i just have 2 tell him i like him myself(thats not my style)
talks a whole lot(its not a problem with me but dang he can talk)
well thats it plezzzzz help
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they both sound okay but jeremy sounds a little dangerous at times like with the whole knife thing.
how about this.
try writing a list for each of the boys. for each boy write pros (good things) and cons (bad things) about each other them. which ever has a less amount of cons or a higher amount of pros. choose them.
hope i helped.
anymore questions inbox me. kayy?
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yeah, so yesterday my boyfriend of over a year told me that his family's moving..
now, he's probably what you'd call my first love
but that's not really the point
the point is: that where he's moving is only about an hour away & he'll be down at least 3 or 4 times a month, so we're trying to stay together through this, because he may be moving make in the next few years
i need songs that'll make us believe that we can make it
ex; better life: keith urban
i like anything :]
please&thanks
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i have a really good song
its by bon jovi and its called living on a prayer.
heres a link to it:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=nE11Zrrp24I
hope it helps.
if you dont like the song just inbox me. i have plenty more =]
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okay so i just got a new really hot boy friend and im friends with his ex girlfriend and she said that they never kissed the whole time they went out, and that they only hugged. and he always hugs me but i really want to kiss him but i have only kissed one other guy on the cheek and i was really nervous. but im scared that if i kiss him or try he will be mad and im really uncomfortable talking about it with him. thanks in advance! (link)
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go for it. if he doesnt like it he'll let you know, but if you dont make your move, youll never know if he will enjoy it or not. just at the right moment kiss him and smile. and if you want walk away or just stand there
hope i helped.
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this is gonna sound weird but i've been getting really turned on by r&b songs about sex lately (pretty ricky songs as an example) does anyone have more songs like that.. they're fun to dance to lol (link)
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there are so many r&b songs about sex. ALOT.
some are by sean paul
ludacris whats your fantasy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ky9wxFuWNkA
thats a link to ludacris. it was the best i could find the video isnt the right one but it has that song =]
hope i helped
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alright i'm 17 years old i've bin with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and i was wondering if anyone could give me suggestions on how to do something really sexy for him this valentine's day like i'm going to have my house to myself and i want to make his jaw drop. hurry with your answers please and thank you. (link)
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dress up in like a sexy cupid outvet if thats what you mean by like jaw drop
or get dolled up really sexy and go out to dinner at a really nice place or something.
just an idea =]
need anymore ask me.
hope i helped
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okay so I'm a girl, 14 years old. freshman. I just came out as a bisexual recently, as getting a girlfriend. we have been together since 12-30-06 and i don't know what to get her for valentines day. I can't do anything to expencive, or big. just small and cute. something that she will love. I was thinking writing a card that says "I am in love with you" or like "I love you" in a bunch of different languages and like really big in english in the middle. I can't get her a teddy bear cause I already did when we first started dating. so....help? (link)
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give her a key and put it in a little red heart shaped box type thing and have a little card that says the key to my heart.
if you dont like that, tell me and ill tell you some more
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16/f
My boyfriend is always doing really cute things, like showing up at my house at 2 a.m. just to tell me he loves me and to give me flowers.
PROBLEM #1:
He does things like this ALL the time and I want to do some things for him in return, but I have no idea what to do!!
PROBLEM #2:
I'm not as creative as he is.
I would love it if anyone could give me a list of really sweet/cute ideas! :) or maybe websites?!
Thank you so much! (link)
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Umm heres somewebsites:
http://www.1lovepoems.com/romanticideas.shtml
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/ideas/
http://www.romantic-tips.com/
http://www.relationshipgold.com/Romance/index.htm
ask me for more you if you cant find anything.
hope i helped =]
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hey umm i was checking out your whole advice colum and thought your advice was actually really good &&& people have told me to talk to you about stuff that i needed help with. alright i well i have this problem with my teacher. he constantly is being rude to me and stuff. like he will treat everyone but me with respect. sometimes i think he perpously gives me a bad grade on a test or something. i dont like him.. and im pretty sure he donest like me. so i need your help.. what should i do????!!
--oh and i think he doesnt like me because he had my brother about two years ago and my brother tends to be a trouble maker so that might be one reason why he doesnt like me... (link)
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thanks! alot of people have told me im good at advice and im proud to say that i think im pretty good to =D haha. okay well if i were you i would talk to your parents about how unfair he is and all the things that he does to treat you unfairly. your parents could possibly talk to him
or you could to. if you did.. you wouldnt want to be rude or anything just talk kindly to them about it... the last thing you want to do is start a problem with him. not only that but maybe even talking to your brother about it since he had him and ask what your teacher was like. if it really gets bad or nothing seems to be working im sure you could go to guidance or something like that.
hope i helped
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Do guys dig chicks with glasses? I need to get glasses I think, and I'm already short, fat, and kind of ugly. Now I need glasses. Now will the boys think I am uglier than before? (link)
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everyone has atleast one thing thats beautiful about themeselves.. so your not ugly.
well it really depends on the guy.
for the fat thing.. you could work out doing situps about a 100 a day. and then gradualy increase them. i kno you didnt really want any advice on the fat thing but i thought i should tell you anyways just incase.
just look in google for any websites with glasses ideas, shapes, sizes, colors, ect. there should be thousands of diffrent websites to choose from.
if you DONT want glasses.. you could always try contacts.. theres actaully a bunch of diffrent kind of contacts to choose from.. you could get the ones you put on for the day and then throw them away that night and so on. or the ones that you use for a week (and wash them and stuff) and then get new ones. OR you could get the ones that im ALWAYS bugging my parents for.. the ones that you put on at night and sleep with them, and take them out in the moring (they sculpt your eye or something so that you can see) and you can see perfectly with them for the rest of the day.. and you do that everynight. there really expensive tho and if you wanted contacts you would have to ask your parents about it and your eye docter would have to explain everything to you..
so i dont know it really is up to the guy if they are attracted to girls with glasses.. its diffrent for all of the i guess.
hope i helped
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I have liked this guy for a long time and sometimes he likes me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her! He knows I like him but he just messes with me and I really want to get over him but I can't because I'm in so deep. The worst part is that he won't tell me that he doesn't like me...no, the worst part is that everybody is trying to get him expelled...like my friends are...the reason for that involves sexual harassment...he has been expelled for things like that and he did a few things here...nothing too big but so many people want him gone...I really don't because I know that deep down he is really a good guy...please help me...I don't know how to get over him...I want to march up to him and tell him that he has to TELL me I'm only a friend to him...it just really hurts. I'm sick of games being played with my heart...Sorry it's so long...XOXO (link)
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you need to forget about this guy. hes not good enough for you and is only going to use you for a girl on the side. if he doesnt have any intention on being with you, then he shouldnt mess with you.
and why would you even WANT to be with a guy who has been accused of sexaul harassment..its not safe. also, if his girl friend finds out that you and him like flirt or w.e. it is that you guys do, she might get pissed off at not only him but you. and lets say if you do go out with this guy, what makes you think he wouldnt do that same thing he is doing to you, to another girl.
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Hey well i have been dating my boyfrind for 1 year and 2 mounths now and i have never had a proplme with him hanging out with his friends, but his friends smoke and stuff like that. A cuple of weeks ago me and this girl got into a HUGE argument and she is going around saying she wants to beat my ass and stuff like that and this girl has been calling my boyfriend and telling him stuff like that. This girl unfourtunally is my boyfriends bestfriend's girlfriend so i sorta told my boyfriend its me or his bestfriend only caue of his girlfriend but i really do want to hang out with his friends agin without telling him not to and with out that bitch of a girlfrind marc has... what should i doo
sorry if this doesnt make ne sence im still pissed about the whole thing (link)
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i think you should tell your boyfriend that you just really want this girl to stop. i mean i dont think it was right to say me or your best friend because sometimes... people tend to pick there best friend. you should talk to him about the girls behavoir and try to avoid any more possible fights.
if you wanted to.. i mean it might not work out to good. you could call the girl and try to talk out everything but it really depends how you think she will act.
hope i helpedd.
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What do you do when you have a boyfriend who you love and you have been goign out for 5 1/2 months but you statrt to fall for your best friend and your best friend likes you?
I think I'm starting to fall for my best friend who I am always with and I know I flirt with him. He likes me too but the problem is I have a boyfriend. I feel like each of them has one of my arms and they are both tugging away and I can't decide whos hand I want to let go of because I don't want them to fall.
What Should I Do?
~Confused in Love (link)
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I guess it really depends.
Your going out with you boyfriend now but on the other hand, you like your best friend. Well, it really does depend. I mean does your boyfriend treat you as good as your best friend does? If your constantly flirting with another boy thats like kinda being dis-loyal to your boyfriend and why would you wanna do that to him. It like your making him waste HIS time on a girl who is flirting with other boys. && thats not really right..Also, if you let your boyfriend find out on his own that your flirting and stuff with other guys, then its worse then just breaking up with him.
BUT, if you break up with your boyfriend for your bestfriend, what will your bestfriend think? Like if you break up with your boyfriend for another boy, what will that person think because if you broke up with your boyfriend for another guy, then what makes him think you would do it to him..? Also, lets say you go out with your friend (because lets say you dumped your bf) and then you guys break up. it might ruin your friendship.
Theres postative and negative reasons for both.. but if your constantly flirting with your friend and you like him..then i say you probably shouuld go out with your him... it really depends on what you think is right to do...
-hope i helped
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well there is this guy i like his name is ian. i have had people tell me he likes me to; two of his closest friends told me that. & we write notes back & forth, tell each other we love them & we flirt like crazy. We can talk on the phone for hours at a time. I really like him & I want to start to date, but I dont want to ask is there anyway I can get him to ask me? (link)
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kay do what your doing now. its working. that or you could write a note asking him out, or have a friend tell him that you like him and if he likes you, then
maybe he'll ask you out. also, maybe even get his friends to tell him that you like him. that might encourage him to ask you out.
-hope i helped
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