Question Posted Saturday February 10 2007, 5:41 pm
okay so i just got a new really hot boy friend and im friends with his ex girlfriend and she said that they never kissed the whole time they went out, and that they only hugged. and he always hugs me but i really want to kiss him but i have only kissed one other guy on the cheek and i was really nervous. but im scared that if i kiss him or try he will be mad and im really uncomfortable talking about it with him. thanks in advance!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? duudee_advicer answered Saturday February 10 2007, 8:19 pm: I went out with my ex boyfriend for almost
four months before we kissed. Which, btw, I had
to do first. Yeah it took a little bit of guts,
but it was totally worth it. We talked about it
later and I found out that he had heard I was
more of a slow-pace type of person so he didn't
want me to feel uncomfortable. So, he just may
be nervous or he may just want to wait until the
right time.
When you decide to go for it you could
try this:
1) *This was how I did it* We were laughing about
something and when we stopped I leaned forward
and put my forehead onto his forhead. Then we
laughed for a little bit, lol, then I tilted my
head to kiss him.
Or
2) If you two are walking and holding hands,
slowly stop and gently pull him back if he keeps
walking. When he turns to face you grab his other
hand as well and just look up into his eyes.
You can then either A. Kiss him. B. Wait for him
to kiss you. or C. Snake your arms around his
neck THEN kiss him.
advice_expert101 answered Saturday February 10 2007, 7:44 pm: go for it. if he doesnt like it he'll let you know, but if you dont make your move, youll never know if he will enjoy it or not. just at the right moment kiss him and smile. and if you want walk away or just stand there
vomski10 answered Saturday February 10 2007, 7:31 pm: well you could work your way up to it you know? like give him a kiss on the cheek and see how he reacts to that, don't force him to do anything you wanna do. even talk about with him if you guys wanna kiss. it might seem embarressing but at least both of you will be on the same page! [ vomski10's advice column | Ask vomski10 A Question ]
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