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heyy im melissa && im a freshmenn, i like giving advice, lets be friends pimpp:D

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when you had a best friend that became your boyfriend, is it possible to become boyfriend to best friend again? =/

Yes it is possible, but it will probably take time

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I have a bf that I'm in love with and he means absolutely everything to me. I've been with him for 7 months. He's amazing to me and we get along perfectly but sometimes I just get sick of him. He gets so annoying and I never want to talk to him. I met this other guy and he's a real sweetheart and we've known each other for about a month. He's also amazing and sweet. We got to know each other more and he really likes me and I really like him. He wants to date me and everything but I have a bf that I still really love. I like both of them. I feel so horrible..I can't even believe myself. I don't know what to do. I'm so stuck. Please help me.

Okay, well what I would do is give it a week and see how it goes, hang out with that other boy but don't do anything you would regret, like kissing him, get to know him more and make sure hes not the type of boy thats a sweetheart to every girl, and if you feel as though this new boy is better than your bf then talk to your bf first and tell him how you feel, talk it out first but don't dump him unless you feel you need to. if you need any more help im here:]

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ok so im 13/f ...the kid i reallly like is my brothers best friend. they are 14 going into 10th grade. (im going into 8th) whenever he comes over he always stares at me (like when im not even talking) and my brother brings it up to. but how do i know if he like me or not? or how can i kind of get him to like me if he doesnt?
PLEASE HELPPP
thanks =]]

Okay I'm not going to lie, boys are weird and for some reason they love to tease younger girls, so don't give your hopes up on him.. and just saying, since its a two year age differences his friends probably wouldn't approve of that.. but next time he stares at you be like why do you keep staring at me, say it like your joking though.

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i am a 13 year old who hasnt gone out with a guy yet! ugh.. i wanna feel how it feels to be in a relationship and have the guy love me in that way and i'll be able to have my first kiss and all that. it hasnt happened yet and i notice like everyone i know practically has already gotten their first kiss or first boyfriend.. not that im in a race to get one, i just let it come to me and if i see a guy thats cute, i'll say hes cute and stuff.. i just wanna be in a relationship and stuff!!

and i've been asked out by guys about 5 times but i dunno if they're being serious or joking. how can you tell? only three of those 5 times i knew it was a joke... but i really dunno! i reply "no" to them because i dont see them that way like romantically or anything.. ugggggggggghhh what do i do and stuff? thanks

Find a boy you think is cute, and go from there.. talk to them a lot, flirt, but dont get to a point where you seem annoying. and if you dont like a person when they ask you dont feel forced to say yes, im fourteen and dont worry about it a lot of my friends havent had their first kiss either. actually half of my grade hasnt and im going to be a freshmen.

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Kay I met this guy today. He's a year older than me. Well today after school we all decided to go to the elementry school thats next to our school. It was me, 3 of my friends, and him. I have seen him around school before, and he and defenatly seen me. Today, he kept sitting next to me when we were hanging out and he kept smiling. I really like him too, but since I JUST met him, would it be concidered "slutty" if I ask if he likes me after one day??

Oh geez thats no where near close to be slutty:D
thats just wanting to know if he likeyys youu!

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ok so i just started going out with this guy, and we are both kinda shy, so i was wondering what were some good conversation starters.. we dont talk much, so i am trying to get our relationship started by starting conversations.. i don't want to talk just about school, because i dont want to sound like a school nerd.. but any conversation starters would be awesome!! thx

ohh my, that is exactly like my ex boyfriend[don't worry, we didn't break up over not talking] .. i just liked him so much i was TERRIFIED to say the wrong thing, because i'm not gonna lie , i'm extremely open and hyper. what i would do though, was i would three way him with one of my friends and we would all talk , it helped me i'm not sure why. but if i didn't do that , we would talk about when we were little and our friends and funny stuff like that... if you want more i cann help im sure [:

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ok well this is the story of my recent realationship.

well earlier this year in january, my friends got me together with a friend of theirs, max, (they go a different school to me} and they gave him my email, and we started taking heaps over the net.. then on my birthday, 24th of january, me and my friends went to the movies and we invited him, and i met him for the first time.

we had a great time and he told me he would like to be in a realiationship with me, he told me i was perfect and beautiful and i was just so happy :) so then we met up again the following week and we went to the movies again and he officialy asked me out and of course i said yes.

so we were dating and we were both so happy i was so inlove , he would message me all the time.. wwe went to different schools so he would call me everynight. and then i got into his school the following week so i was going to be starting at his school in a week. we were both so excited, and i knew heaps of people there so i wasnt nervous.

so now i go to his school, we would sit with eachother at lunch and recces and sit with eachother in classes. i was so inlove with him and still am .. we were like the happiest couple going around.. then we went out last saturday together and it was basically the best day of my life , i just felt so happy he made me feel so loved. then the next day [sunday] we got into a fight basically over nothing and he was really angry at me and then i tried to sort things out but it was really hard becuase he didnt come to school on monday or tuesday and we didnt speak for 2 days [thats the longest amount of time that we hadnt spoken to eachother] so i sent him an sms on tuesday afternoon telling him that i wanted to sort things out and that i loved him and i asked if he was ok because he hadnt been at school. he then wrote back that he was not well and that he wanted to sort things out aswell, then i told him to call me that night so we could sort it out and his reply was that he had lost his voice and couoldnt talk. so i was left no choice but to sort it out through sms because it was killing me and i just wanted to fix things.

so we just started talking about things and how out realtionship was changing then he told me that he didnt love me anymore and that he was sorry. those words hit me like a ton of bricks and i am heart broken. i didnt understand how he had just fallen out of love with me when the 2 days earlier we were the happiest people walking around.. i am so confused.. he didnt come to school all last week..
and i talked to himn last night for the first time since the break up [a week] and he said he was really sorry and that he is really confused at the moment.. he also said he wasnt over me yet.

i really dont know what to do.. i know that there is still hope for our small little twisted realtionship and everyday i still think to myself.. he will want me back i know he will.. but nothing so far.. i havtn seen him since we were a happy couple so im hoping that when i see him at school next week that he will realise he did the wrong thing..
but could someone help me out i dunno wehter i should just try and move on or try and get him back..

im thinking about him all the time and no matter where i am or what i'm doing or who im talking to; he's the one thats on my mind.

i went out with this guy for a month.. and it was the best month of my life.

i dunno what kind of advice i need but i just need something .. some sort of direction..

thankyou for reading this it means alot to me.

Okay, one of my friends is going through this right now, so I will try to help you as much as I possibly can. I personally think he is going to go back to you, but I would still like him and go for other people at the same time, ya know? Maybe, just like flirt a lot, it might help you possibly get over him too. Don't over do it in front of him though, cause that could make things worse. Still talk to him though, talk to him how you would on your email before you guys met. and honey, if he doesn't go back to you, he's just plain out stupid, and he doesn't realize what he's missing out on .. i hopee i helped [: .. if you need anything else just ask !

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i am 15/f i am still a virgin and i plan to be until i find the love of my life that i know for sure im goin to marry. or i might just wait till marraige.. i just feel it's the right thing to do ..im not all religiousy (if thats a word) but i do believe in God.

okay so i never had a boyfriend well 2 one in 1st grade and i hated him (long story short: only went out because i needed a pack of post-its that he had) and the other guy was a player and i wasn't experience and wasn't ready to be.. i didnt even kiss him.. i never had a serious relationship basically.

so yea i am an attractive girl and guys ask for my numba i usually blow them off and i meet new guys and eveything and there are a few i like...but everytime i like i guy i always have to picture being married to him and having kids and just living the dream that i want with a nice man that i'll love...(i dont really go out wit boys because im scared of a broken heart also). is that a good thing thinkin about my future with a boy???? i know sometimes that i wont really end up with them but it's just a habit i have. any of you relate?
also i've been talkin with this boy from my school and i really really like him i just hope he feels the same about me. he talks to me in school and today was the first time we spoke on the phone. we talked for a hour and a half.. (hes one of those boys that are hard to understand)but i want to have a relationship with him. i want it to be the perfect relationship..but i know i have to go through the bad to get to the good the only thing is that i think imma be shy with him and that we wont be how i want it to be...does anybody have any advice they can give me or any opinions to what i said??? thanx for readin

Okay i def. say go for this boy you like now! I used to be scared of a broken heart too , but I have gotten over that stage. Your going to get hurt with everyone eventually ... But maybe just hint it to him that you like him or find out who he likes. Now if you lived in Ohio(like mee :]), people have this term as a freezer ,, people that dont do stuff. Pretty much all of us dont want to be a 'freezer' so we all have kissed. But just start with a peck seriously. But wait for a special guy, and for the right time. If someones pressuring you to do something ... DONT DO IT , you have no need to do if it doesnt feel right. Uhmm ... and I also dont want to bring your hopes down but, our teacher(shes around 32 and shes like normal && we talk to her about stuff) she told us that no one our age gets married anymore ... like no one stays together that long, because the divorce rate increased a lot or something. But just talk to this boy .. if you want help on figuring out if he likes you .. just ask me :]

xoxo melissa

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ok im 13 and cacussion(dont think i spelled that right),and my boyfriend derrick is 14 and african american.ok my dad is so raciest and my mom isnt.like i had to tell my boyfriend that i wasnt alowed to date.so when we hold hands or something we have to stop so my dad dose not see.i babysitt his little sister and we like watch movies while his sisster is asleep and we hold hands an sit close but if i hear my dad coming we have to seperate really fast!!!im getting really tiered of it and its pissing me off.breaking up with him is not an option so what do i do???

Okay you REALLY need to talk to your dad. I would probably write a note its a lot easier. But dads are ALWAYS going to be protective ... so he's gonna just find one thing not to approve of them && in your case its race. But just tell him how you feel and you feel as though you really like him. Tell him to imagine him in your shoes. And ask him what would he do if his mother was raciest and he was dating a african american girl.

If you need more help , just send me a message :]

xoxo melissa

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