Hey y'all! I'm 16/f, a gymnast at Top Flight Gymnastics Training Center in Southlake, Texas (I don't live in Southlake, that's just where my gym is!) and I go to Lewisville High. Go Fighting Farmers! Haha...ya right. Umm...ya. Ask me anything you like. I love to give advice. Ask away, I'll answer asap! Love ya!
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Location: Texas
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Age: 16
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So heres the story.. i met this guy and hooked up with him. He has a girlfriend which he supposably is breaking up with but this has dragged on for bout a month now! He says hes into me and everyone tells me this.. his gf even found out he cheated on her with me and their stil together! they went out for 2 years now.. i like him and he likes me but he says he doesnt want to have wasted 2 years of his life or is worried hes making a mistake.. someone told me today hes still plannin on breaking up with her but this is taking so long!! what should i do??
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pretty much all you can do is wait. and i know that that must sound like one of the hardest things to do right now since you've already waited for a while, but that's just how it is. i guess you could try to talk to him more about it, but make sure you don't pressure him, cz that'll just make things worse. be patient and kind to him, he'll see that you are no mistake.
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ive had 20 boyfriends. does that make a slut. im a 14/f (link)
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no. the only thing that makes you a slut is that you are sexually active in any way with lots of guys. you are not a slut.
~steph~
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Me and one of my guy friends Tom, like eachother. I dont want to ask him out but I want to go out with him. We have kissed a few times but never frenched. How acn I get him to ask me out? 16/f (link)
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bring up the possibility of you two going out and see what he says. chances are, he'll end up asking you out.
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is there anything wrong with a bi racial realationship (link)
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absolutely not! the only people who think there is, are racial, and you don't wanna listen to them. you just have to know what you like and go for it! hope this helps!
~steph~
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I want to ask my guyfriend out because I really like him & there are so many signs he likes me. However, he really likes this other girl & she knows that. What should I do? (link)
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i guess just start hinting more that you like him and see how he reacts. if you are absolutely positive that he likes you, go for it. all you can do is ask. good luck!
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Okay, I'm 15/Female if that matters and I've liked this guy for about a month. He liked me at the beginning of the school year for a long while but he never told me that because I had a boyfriend at the time. Now, I'm single and I'd like to go out with him but here's the problem .. he's been dating this girl for a month. I don't get why they're together though because everytime he wants to hug her she just pushes him off, she never wants to hold his hand, kiss him, or anything and I don't know why because they're going out .. but my question is, should I wait until him and his girlfriend break up so I can ask him out or should I go ahead and try and like some other guy or do something else? (link)
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if you REALLY like this guy, then just wait. it doesn't seem like his relationship with the other girl will last much longer. just be patient. then it will make your relationship with him when you do go out even more special since you had been single for a while. be patient!
~steph~
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Hi.. i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 10 monthes and we really love eachother! Before we started going out, he kind of liked my best friend, but he asked me out instead. Turns out, she's liked him since before we were going out and they flirt soo much! I know flirting is just natural but my other friend told me that she wants us to break up and im really worried.. What should i do!? Thanks! (link)
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your friend doesn't sound like she's being a very good friend. she should be happy that you are going out with him. that's what friends are supposed to do. and if she doesn't realize that, then you need to let her know. just keep going out with your bf and she'll just have to wait her turn. hope this helps
steph
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I have this friend named Allyson. We have science class together and I always see her flirting with this guy named Mitch. She told me later that she has a HUGE crush on him. I mean..yeah, he is pretty cute but his attitude is awful. He sexually harasses her all the time and says really perverted things to her. She thinks that he is doing this as his way of flirting but I think he is being a plain jerk. Am I having a bias because this guy was mean to me way back in elementary or is he really an ass? I mean..I know this is bad but I've got to say this to explain how bad it is. "Hey allyson, you have this bruise on your cheek..whats that from, huh?" "Allyson, you've got some hair stuck in your teeth" "You got something white dripping down your lips" Sometimes he even calls her a heffer and she isn't fat at all! She is like one of the skinniest friggen people I know. If he is being a true jerk, what do I tell Allyson? It's not like I can forbid her from dating him... (link)
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he souds like an enormously major jerk to me so i don't think you're just being biased. all you can do is warn her about him. so just do your best to keep her away from him and bring her into the light about his pervertedness and then you'll just have to hope she makes the right choice. there's nothing else you can do.
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ok theres this boy that i really like and have alot of feelings for. i have know him for a really long time. he was my frst b/f, my first kiss, and i lost my virginity to him also. then he switched school districts and moved, only like a 5 minute car ride.but we didnt really keep in touch. now i see him once in a while when hes in the nieghborhood, he stops by my house, he kisses me, and the last time ihe was here he took down my #, and then asked me if he could come over in 2 days and chill and i said sure, he nevr came over though. i need help do u think this kid likes me back, and should i be mad at him for not showing up when he says and wat should i say to him about this??
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i think he does like you back cz he still visits and he got your number and because of your history and everything. but i dunno why he wouldn't show up. maybe he got busy and didn't call you or something. but don't get too mad just yet cz you dunno what's going on. but next time he visits, make sure you get an answer from him as to why he didn't show up.
hope i helped!
steph
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ok. So I've been planning on asking this boy out tomorrow since last wednesday. i didn't because he was sick for wed, thurs, and fri. so i couldn'y. so i've been waiting for monday and yesterday, this boy i liked asked me out. And i said yes. But i want the other boy. and i dont really like the one who asked me out anymore. do i brake up with him now? or do i wait, ask the guy out, and if he says yes, break up with the other one? HELP!! oh and i had a dream last night that the guy i've been waiting to ask out asked me out, is that supposed to be a sign?
thanks i rate people who give good answers!!:) (link)
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don't just dump your current bf because you want someone else. you told him yes and you need to atleast give him a chance. wait a week or two and if you really can't stand going out with him anymore, then break up with him. this other guy you like will still be there. and don't ask the other guy out while you're still going out with your current bf because that's just rude and everyone will start thinking your a cheater or something so just wait.
and the dream, don't start thinking it's a sign. it most likel isn't. but i'm not saying that it won't happen. i might just be that that's what you were thinking about before you fell asleep and you just dreamed about it. that happens a lot. so don't get your hopes up. but don't worry!
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I normally do not ask questions about guys on this site, but I just have no clue what to do.
My situation is that my boyfriend went out with this girl from his camp last year (they broke up b/c they wouldn't see eachother for a whole year). Well, this year he is going back to camp (she is too), and the camp holds a hotdog/hamburger barbeque thing where everyone pretty much has a date (although it's not neccasary to have a date, but everyone does have one). He asked me if he could go with this girl from last year. He told me that he "sort of" wanted to go with her (I'm guessing this is my language for "I want to go with her but I don't want to seem to eager about it b/c it will probably make you mad"). My problem is that I am afraid he is going to start liking her again, and I won't be able to do anything about it (after all, I will be miles away; I won't be able to stop them flirting or anything). I am just scared of losing this great guy.
My question is- am I being jealous and should I let him go with this girl to the barbeque? Or do I have a good reason to be worried?
Thanks I appreciate any answers! (link)
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ummmm.... it really just depends on how much you trust your bf. but i can see why you're worried since they have been together in the past. you're just gunna have to decide if you're willing to trust him enough to let him go with her and have him fend for himself, or if you're gunna play it safe and tell him no. it's all up to you.
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ok i am a girl 14 and my boyfriend is in arkansas (his hometown) and he hasnt even called me! friday was my birthday and his best friend called me and wished me a happy birthday but he didnt and he hasnt called me at all and i havent talked to him since the day he left for arkansas which was 12 days ago and i dont know if he his waiting for me to call or what ! i CANT break up with him i love him to much what should i do ? (link)
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it depends on what you wanna do when you come down to it.
you can either sit there by the phone, waiting for hours on end for him to call, or you can pick up the phone and call him yourself. that's the most sure way of getting ahold of him. and if he answers, ask him what's going on and why he hasn't been calling you. you don't need to break up with him before you have all the facts. just see what's going on.
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I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend. Usually it doesn't really bother me but I've seen so many couples who are younger than me and it makes me feel so sad and worthless. I'm ugly and shy and boring so I suppose no boy will ever want to go out with me, and even if a miracle happened and I did get one, I wouldn't really know what to do or what to say =\ People think I'm weird because I've never kissed a boy or even been out with one, I feel so different and frigid =[ I guess I was made to be single but I just want to know what it feels like to be loved.. How am I ever gonna get a boyfriend when I look like I do and I'm as shy as I am? I like this boy at school but he doesn't really like my friends because they're so immature, so he most likely thinks I'm like them and hates me too - I'm not as immature as them though.. Please help? Thanks xx (link)
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don't worry....your not the only one.... i didn't have a bf until i was fourteen and to be honest, it was a mistake...he was immature and annoying. don't worry....i'm sure it's not as bad as you think and if that guy judges you by how your friends act, then he's not worth it. i haven't had a bf since then and i'm gunna be 16 next month! don't worry....you'll find the right guy. :o)
~steph~
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i like my boyfriend alot but every time we talk he never seems to wanna talk and he always gets frustrated with me.. so i try not to call him anymore but i really wanan talk to him and then he says that he can never see me.. what should i do?? (link)
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break up with him! he obviously only wants the physical stuff since he doesn't want to talk.
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I am a 15 year old female, and I have a 17 year old boyfriend. He has been a total jerk lately. The other night, my best friend really needed me so I walked to her house (about 3 miles) and he told me not to go cause I was going to get more sick and he got mad when I did go. I called him when I got there and told him I was comming to his house (another mile) and he told me not to come cause he didn`t feel like getting out of bed to drive me home when he could see me tomorrow. :-( so I started on my walk home and about half way there some old guy grabbed my arm, and I got lose and ran so fast. He said "I`m comming after you". I was never more scared. So when I got home, I called him to tell him the shocking news and he just said "maybe one day you`ll listen to me" he didn`t say sorry or anything. I love him so much and can`t leave him, what else can I do besides talking to him cause I already have? (link)
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Love can be a crazy thing. This guy sounds controlling. He also sounds like a huge shmuck. I think the only thing you CAN do is talk to him. Try again to tell him how you feel, if he still acts like a dick, then break up with him. You deserve better than that.
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