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i love my girlfriend she is the best thing that happen to me ohh my god she is evrything to me and i dont think that she belivs me cuz i realy dont kno bud i do love her and wana be with her marry her have kids with her she is evrything to me its not even funny bud i neet help on telling her how much i love her (link)
Im sure she loves you too.........:)


well you ask't for more info ok ama tell you evrything. ok my name is lucas and that girl name is amber. ok way back i likt her friend and her friend dident like me soo i started talking to amber and we gad to kno each other more soo we talk on the phone for a while and dident even kno how we lookt soo then we seen each other and we decide to be friend bud i dident want that you know so couple times she senn me she fell in love with me bud i dont think i have no more fellings for her like i uset to and i do tell her that i love her bud i really dont. well all i can tell you is if you have a man /girl always tell them you love them becuase if you dont it might be to late when you do bud anywayz what i wana know is should i brake up with her or not I NEET hellpp soo much help well thanxx ama give you a five for w/e you tell me (link)
If you dont have ne more feelings for her then you should break up with her before it gets too far...you should just dump her!


should i brake up with my girlfriend cuzz she wants a serious realthinship see i like her since i seen her the first time and she dident like me soo ladder on she started loving me bud all the time i started to like her she never liket me soo do you think i should brake up with her just give me an anserer and if you neet more info plzz type in you neet more 411 thanxxx (link)
i need more info, do you love her too? If you do then you should be with her!


I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :( (link)
Omg wtf, that is not right! IF he loves you then he wouldnt do that to you! Thats so rude and not right, he is a jerk! You dont need a guy like that in your life, you need someone who respects and loves you! Fuck him.hes gay...FIND SOMEONE BETTER!


okay i really like this guy and i have for 2 yrz! the thing is hes 2 yrz older than i am...i kno i kno its a bigg diff...but i still like him...sometimes i see him looking atme and smiles and ugh! i want him to like me but the thing is tat theppl he hangs out with i HATE! and like then theres no way to talk to him...i have his sn but idk wat to say i mean its hard and confusing! so please help idk wat to do!
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OK, well if you really really like him, then you shouldnt just give up on him like that, talk to him online, tell him how you feel, maybe he may feel the same about you. Or you can try to be better friends with him...start hangin out...get to know eachother more...see where it goes from there! But just because you dont like the people he hangs with doesnt mean you should give up on him
GooD LuCk


Well okay I have this best friend whose a guy named Joe.. me and him went out before well a lot? and actually a few weeks ago we liked eachother (and i'm like still madly in love with him) until this other girl came into the picture.. her name is brooke (i dispise her) well see the thing is me and him talk 24-7 and stuff and we still hang out and he flirts so much but him & brooke are together still =/ but he doesn't really seem to like her that much? he considers me and him bestestest friends forever.. we even share secrets together? but i am in LOVE with this kid =( .. well last nite we had a school dance (he slowed danced with her obvisioly) and like when the fast songs were on i was like getting low and stuff tehehe =] and he was all near me i loved it =] and brooke and all her friends were like ugh but oh well for them? but idk what 2 do..? hmm what should i do (link)
I think that you should tell him how you really feel, ask him how he feels about Brooke, if he says he likes her, then tell him that you like him and you would like a relationship with him because you guys are so close, just be honest with him! See what happens from there!!


Hi i am a 16 year old female and Im not sure how to explain to this guy that i used to date that i still have big feelings for him..He is moving away but should be back his senior year. I dont care about distance. I really want to be with him. We broke up though becuz i questioned his love for me. I really do love this guy and I know he loves me too. I just dont think he realizes how much i do really care about him. I dont know what to say and how to explain it. Please help me explain to this guy how i feel..I want him no matter what. I would do anything. Also can you help me with so sweet ways of showing him how i care. I am seeing him Sunday for the last time..Please HELP!!

-lost the love of my life (link)
Its hard to lose the love of your life, but if you truely love him, when you see him Sunday, sit him and tell him you love him more than anything(start crying if you have to)...this may be your last chance. Dont hold back, tell him that you want to be with him more than anything in the world, and that the break up with you guys was a mistake and you want him back! You cant live without him, i know how you feel, tell him you need him in your life. Give him everything you can, flowers whatever. Just anything to show him how much he means to you. Good Luck


I'm 17 and female, and I've known my best friend Thomas for nearly a year. We hang out all the time, even stay the night at one another's houses every now and then.
Well, right now I'm house-sitting for him while he's on a trip. I stayed the night here the other night so I wouldn't have to have my mom drive me over at 7:00 in the morning. So we're up at three in the morning talking about everything, like we always do when we sleep over. And then he kissed me... and told me that he loves me.
I have a boyfriend who I love very much, and I just don't care about Thomas in the way that he cares about me. But I somewhat returned the kiss. As a matter of fact... we kind of kissed a lot. Mostly the sweet, peck type, but a little (and I do mean a little) tongue every now and then. When it was all over and we both regained our senses, I cried. When he said he loved me, I said, "Don't say that." We talked about it a little, but then decided that we'll really have a long talk when he gets back from his vacation.
So I have a few questions. First of all, did I cheat on my boyfriend? I've never done anything like this... I don't know if it's cheating. I don't ever want to tell my boyfriend that it happened -- he'll break up with me and it was all just a huge mistake and I regret that it happened (even though it brought a lot of stuff to the surface -- I didn't even know Thomas liked me). When I talk to Thomas, what should I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't want to ruin our awesome friendship. But I want him to know that I don't care about him the way he does about me, and I don't want him to hate me for this. Please help me. (link)
Ok this is a really hard question to answer, you love you boyfriend right? Well you didnt know that your friend Thomas was goin to kiss you, so i wouldnt really call it cheating, but you DID do something with another guy, so i dont know what i would call it, all i know is, if you love your boyfriend then you should be honest with him and your friend. Tell Thomas that you love having his friendship and that you are sorry that you dont feel the same way, tell him you hope that you guys can still be friends and forget about what happend! Im sure it will all turn out ok, we all make mistakes, but we learn from them. Just break it to Thomas nicely because if you two have been friends for a long time, you wouldnt want your friendship to go down the drain for some kiss! Tell your boyfriend that you love him very much, and if you do decide to tell him...make sure to explain yourself well enough for him to understand that it was a mistake. Hope it turns out ok, good luck!


I have a boyfriend but it is extremely hard to spend time with him since I am so busy in the summer, and have to spend time with family. I feel like we are growing apart from each other. Should I break up with him, or stay together? (link)
Ok, i know how you feel, i have a boyfriend too and sometimes its hard to see him, i see him only once a week or every 2 weeks. But if you love him then theres no way that you should break up with him. If you guys have been going out for a while and you have strong feelings for eachother, then there shouldnt be a reason for you to break up with him! Like i say as long as you are together with the person you love, then it doesnt matter how many times you see him...good luck, hope you make the right decision!


13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice. (link)
Well i know what you mean, falling in love is the best feeling ever, but just make sure you know him well enough, and if you ever do think of meeting him, DONT go alone, go with a couple of friends so that you are in a big crowd and you will feel safe, i hope it turns out good for you! Good LucK


ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react.. (link)
Ok i know exactly what you are going through, i have a bf and i feel the same way, but you need to be honest with him if you like him, if he likd u then he would respect the fact that you are not ready, dont rush, make sure that you are totally sure about it!




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