My names Jessica.
I like to give advice and help people, its apart of who I am. So if you have a problem or need advice, you can ask me. I won't judge you or over re-act. I'll just help the best I can.
Ive gone though alot and im sure alot of the things you need help on, ive been there.
So if you need help with anything i'm here.
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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 16
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Member Since: June 1, 2007
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Theres this guy who's reallly cute. Im not going to say i like him, because i dont, but I wanna flirt with him more and get him to wanna talk to me and stuff. I dont see him that much, but when i do i flirt with him like crazy. He does it back but neither of us has been like "can i get your number?" is there anything i can do to make him wanna ask me out on a date, or ask me my number? flirty tips, or just conversation tips would be greatly appreciated! thankss (link)
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just like ask him if he wants to hang out or something, and if he wants to, be like can i have your number.
or if you have a myspace and he does too
you could start talking to him on that and eventually get his number by bringing the subject up
or just ask for it right away on there so it wont be so awkward.
ya know.
hope i helped.
-jess
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i love it when this boy plays hard to get but when i can have him i dont want him AT ALL
why?! (link)
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because when you have him it doesnt feel the same as when you have to work for it and try to get him.
or you just like change your mind about it.
i used to be the same way.
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well.. i aint really done one of these before.. but here i go..
i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now.. but i have only known him for at least 4 months.. before i started talking to him.. i never knew him or spoke to im before. but neway.
for some reason. when im with him. i aint myself around him. im not shy like in the bedroom or anything. but normally im a happy person and full of energy. but when im with him. i just sit there looking sad a and borin.. he says he thinks im normal. but im different wen im with my friends. i dont no how to be myself aorund him. i keep gettin scared that he is gonna end it. i dont no y but i do. and i dont no weva thats y i cant b myself around him. coz im scared of loosin him. i need advice on how to b myself. and be more fun to be with?? (link)
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yeah i know what you mean, cause thats kinda how i am with my boyfriend. but what he told me is to be myself no matter what and be comfortable around him.
but what you should do is just be your self, and if he doesnt like you when your being yourself, then hes a dick and you shouldnt stand for that.
you know what im mean.
and if he really likes you and everything he wont break up with you for acting your self, he probably wants you to be your self.
hope i helped.
-jess
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need advice on the relationship that i have at the moment i am inlove with someone who has a kid with another man & the relationship between the is not working & my girlfriend still have feeling for the father of her son. iam 26 years old & i am from Botswana (link)
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the women your with has had a kid with someone, so shes always gonna have some kind of feeling for him. because hes part of her kid.
but that doesnt mean she doesnt love you or wants to be with you, cause if shes with you right now she does wanna be with you.
not him.
im in this kind of thing right now just not with a kid. but my boyfriend has feelings for one of his first loves, and im learning to deal with it.
and im learning that he may have feelings for his first love, but that doesnt mean he doesnt wanna be with me.
ya know.
you just gotta have faith.
hope i could help
-jess
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I have been with a woman for two weeks when two of my best friends came over to spend the weekend with us. After dinner, we started to have a drink and I noticed that she was being flattered by the two guys. She practically chose to ignore me and I left to sleep.
Later I found she had performed oral sex on the two guys after consuming fair amount of alcohol, although she wasn't totally drunk. She was free of her shyness but was aware of what was happening.
When confronted the next day, she tried to deny it but finally admitted when strong evidence was presented.
Now she says she loves me and wants to be with me and has no attraction to the other two, although she has their contact numbers, and may well contact at least one of them.
I believe the root cause was alcohol.
My question is can I trust this woman?
Thank You.
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I cant tell you if you should trust her or not because thats your decision.
but i think you should give her another chance because all girls make mistakes,especially if they have been drinking, trust me. and if she tells you she loves you and she wont do it again, then she probably means it because most girls dont say they love some one unless they really mean it because to us its a strong word.
but try talking to her and make sure shell never to something like that again.
but if you cant trust her then the relationship might not work
because trust is everything. ya know.
well i hope my advice could help
tell me how it goes.
-jess
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what if you made out with a guy in party and when you were drunk is that slutty or what? this is your second or third time
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no
I dont consider it slutty, cause i do it and im not a slut. but if you were to have sex with him then that would be kinda slutty.
but sometimes when your drunk you cant really help it cause being drunk can make you horny as hell, ya know.
so no its not slutty.
its life and your expierementing haha
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