i am single in the 8 grade my best friends are nicky defrange, jessica woodall, stephanie baugh, destiny patterson aka toddndesbffene that is her column website thingy u know. im crazy wild funny cute skinny chick.
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theres this guy at school that all my friends are friends with, but i havent really liked him from the start... maybe its b/c i hear all these bad things he says behind one of my best friends back... anyways what should i do...
i've tried being nice to him and talking to him more but, he just obviously doesn't like me eigher...if i could learn to be friends with him... that would be great, but he doesn't really want to be... or at least thats what i heard from one of my friends
One more thing... should i try to forget all of these mean things that he has said behind my friends back??
-confused
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NO try talking to your friends about that if that wont work then talk to him about how you dont like him talking about your friends behind their back. If your friends dont belive you about him talking about them behind their backs then get a tape recorder and record him. I had a problem like that and i recorded him my friends were thanking me cause of it.
GOOD LUCK
LISA
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Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???
And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high
Gomesy (link)
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ok i calling a guy friend that i know im asking him he says no it is not he thinks it is kinda sexy for a woman to ask a man out. just call him ask him out or if you are shy then get one of your friends to do it for you as long as that friend doesnt like the guy or is two face it will be fine. Just be your self around him.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
LISA
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WILL RATE HIGH...i am lost...my best friend is going out with this guy that she knew liked and i told her it would be ok if she did go out with him (vice versa). he doesnt go to our school. i met him through my friend who knows him from outside activities. he liked her for a really long time, but she never liked him back, until now. this guy knew i liked him to but we both didnt know if would work out if we started dating. anyway, he asked my friend out and theyve been going out for a month now. i talk to him on the phone almost everyday and he confuses me.he's like leading me on, almost. he tells me he's gonna break up w/her for this and that reason, and i dont know how to respond. do i want them to stay together, and be a good friend, but i dont really know...i like him still...ive been out w/one guy since they've started going out and i broke up with him b/c i liked this guy...he says for me to wait for him...am i just wasting my time...waiting for something that will never be??? i really need help...WILL RATE HIGH. thnx!
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If you ask me move on this guy is being a real jerk he is going out with your best friend and he is telling you to wait for him. It sounds like to me that this boy thinks he is a player. He thinks he can go from one best friend to another it aint going to work belive me i had this problem before. If you do get them to break up then your friend is going to be mad at you for it. Tell me is this guy worth to ruined a good friendship over if you ask me no so do what you think is right follow your heart
hope i helped
lisa
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For the last few days a bunch of boys in my class have been looking at me funny. At first I thought that I mite have had somthing weird on my face or maybe my outfir looked redicules to them. Then they all started talking to me. Not at once, but boys would come up to me all threw out the day and talk to me. This one boy even said that his best friend (one of the boys who wouldn't leave me alone) had a crush on me. I didn't belive him. Another one, was always trying to make me laugh, anouther one was always starring at me. The boy I have a crush on is really cool and always talking to me too. I can tell he has a crush on me. I think all the other boys have crushes on, and it really freaks me out!!!!!! A bunch of girls have been giving me the cold shoulder, or being really mean. My crush is my best friend too, and we are always together, some stupid boy calls us the love birds. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stay away from all boys in general. (link)
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no do not stay away from all boys. Those boys all have crushes on you i bet. So if you ask me if you want them to leave you alone then ignore them or just walk away they will start to leave you alone after a while
Good luck
hope i helped
Lisa
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Hey i my girlfriend broke up with me becasue i have something like bio polar anger problems and we got in a fight and i fought back 4 once and she dumped me me and my friend thought she kinda liked me a little but i just found out she doesnt me but i really really still love her and i didnt mean to scream and theres no hope to get her back but i love her still and cant get her out of my mind
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well if you really love this girl then NO MATTER WHAT she will always have part of your heart and you will NEVER EVER forget about her.. so the best advice i can give you is to stay at your friends houses on the weekends and just try to hold a friendship still going.. and you should really learn to control what you do when you are having one of your bi-polar moments.. believe me i have an ex that is like that but he got over it when he really puts forth the effort..
Good Luck!
hope i helped
lisa and des
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Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what? (link)
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if you really want to kiss him then you should jump in and make the first move! but if it is one of those things were you want to kiss him but you dont really have to then i would just tell you to wait until it is a mutual thing and you both want to kiss each other!
you will know when it is the right time!
good luck!
lisa
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I have liked this kid since like 8th grade... im a sophomore now... my friend told him and he said that we were both busy... him with basketball and me with winter track... this was in the winter and now its spring... i have spring track and soccer but i have no problems... he asked my other friend about me and when im not in class or school he asks my friend where i ama nd the next day he always ask if i was sick and just seems concerned... but i dont know if he likes me or if its just me... i really wanna hang with him as friends but i dont know how to ask or even how to see if he likes me... i need help like crazy...
crazy and confused
Gomesy
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just walk up to him and talk...i mean if you really like this guy then it shouldnt be that hard to talk to him. and if you are just really nervous about it have one of your friends do it for you and just have them ask if he wants to go to the movies or something on a weekend and just hang out with yall. i mean that is what i would do but that could just be me..
good luck!
lisa
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hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this (link)
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that he wants to take a break from u right now.
At school just say hey have a little smalltalk then just walk off. He might want You back if YOu act like You dont need him.
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okay, on thursday...we walked by this guy and i said "wow, hes hot" and he looked over, but it was like a slow turn not like he heard or anything. but then he smiled at me when he saw me...
Friday- he saw me playing cards w/ my friends. and walked over and asked me if he could play. I think he said 1 secntence to the other girls. And he would stare at me and act emmbarrassed when we BS-ed him (we were playing BS) and talked only to me...
Anyway, my other friends like him and so do i. And it bugs me when my friends like the same guy
MY QUESTION-- do u think he likes me? And how can i get over my problem w/ friend liking the same guy? (link)
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yes i think he likes u. make sure it is ok for u to go out with that guy so she wont be mad at u.
good luck
lisa
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So my boyfriend and I started officially "going out" on wednesday. Whereas before we were just dating and such. We were never really talked on the phone before other than for him to call and make plans and to tell me he was coming to get me. So anyways I would really like to talk to him, I texted him yesterday but he hasnt called me yet. Do I just wait untill I see him again or untill he calls or do I just get over it and call him.....(thanks) (link)
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call the boy i bet he would be happy to talk to you. He might be nervous to talk to u because he dont know what to say to you.
good luck
lisa
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ok i think im kind of bi but im not really sure and to afraid to say anything to anyone, my boyfriend of 2 years told me that gay people are gross and if i was ever gay that he wouldnt like it because he wouldnt want me to leave him for a girl but i told him i wouldnt if i was gay but he said it would still be gross....and on top of that almost all people i hang around with are gay,but i cant even tell them or anything because they consider me there "straight" friend...and they would all think its probably weird also if i said anything...what should i do??? (link)
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i would just wait and see if i was really bi or anything like see if i look at another girls butt on purpose something like that u know. if i find out that im was really bi then i would ask my gay friends what to do because they been like that longer then i have. im sorry i dont know what to do about the boyfriend thing
good luck
lisa
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I like this guy named patrick, but im not shure if he likes me. we talk a lot though, like at school and stuff. what should i do? (link)
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if you are friends with him then you should just tell him or say "hypothetically thinking if i liked you and told you and asked you if you liked me what would your answer be?" or something like that or just have your friend go up and ask him if he likes you.
lisa
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