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yeah thats what i thought at first but wouldn't you think that after like two months he would be over me by then... they're still going out... and now he's telling everyone like lies about me, he's saying that i'm always ALL OVER him... and he complains and stuff well he doesnt complain when we actually "do stuff" if you get what im saying lol.. im just really confused at the moment... PLEASE HELP
Sorry.. I was taking a lil break..X)I think you should talk to him about WHY he lies or saying stuff that's not true. I'm pretty sure he would tell you the reason but if he said like "coz I feel like it" or sumthing like that..Maybe he is just playing with you *my guess* And I have 1 fact bout boys.. when they break up with their gf.. they'll ask their ex's bestfriend out..like exactly what your ex is doing right now. oow oow.. this thing just went pass my brain so fast.. I THINK he has made a revenge plan,,coz maybe (everything here is maybe coz I don't know him..lol) he was soo angry coz you broke up with him..you know..he loves you so much and you love him so much and all of the sudden you say 'we are done' (maybe you didnt say that,, but means the same.. hehe..) anyway.. maybe that's why he is doing this whole thing..revenge.. so back to my advice,, talk to him!! or you might be able to use your bestfriend to ask him why he lies and stuff. Hope I helped! don't hesitate to ask again.. I'm here to help people,especially you!♥
-ViTaChaN-
HE is very popular. He's a bad boy who gets into fights all the time.
HE used to like me four years ago. Then I pissed him off really bad and he stopped talking to me.
HE stares at me all the time now.
What does this mean?
I think he is trying to get your attention..You need to talk to him though..there's a chance that he still likes you a lot..Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Ok... a hand job is when you take a guys penis and you move your hand up and down. And you see I would make them break up if his gf wasnt my best friend and thats what sucks because they're always together and stuff and then I always have to see them kiss and it kills me when they do it in front of me. HELP!
Oowh..okay..now I got it.. well, it happens to me all the time..it also kills me when my ex starts to tell me bout how his new gf and blablabla..except that they don't kiss..lol..I think you should talk to your bestfriend and ask if it would be okay if your ex broke up with her. But if she said 'no' that means that you just have to wait..or if your ex broke up with your bestfriend without telling you or without your advice and stuff..you're okay because your bestfriend couldn't blame you, right? because you didn't do anything..Well.. good luck.. I hope you'll be okay..You're still lucky coz you know that your ex still likes you,, me? I don't..anyway,, Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Hey! Thanks for your advice. It did help. But I have another problem. So, I went to a party the other night, and he ended up being there. His girlfriend wasn't though. He told me he was still in love with me, so we made out in the bathroom, and I gave him a hand job. I know, BAD thing to do! Please if you could help me out. I would definitely appreciate it! Thanks. XOXOXO
Oo yay..it helped.. O.K. so you have another one.. Told ya he still loves you..=P hand job?? what's that? o well.. I guess it's something that's not really good..Well, because you've already done that thing,, I think you really need to talk to him 'bout your feeling..Because maybe if you tell him bout it, he will break up with his girlfriend and come back to you. I know, maybe you would feel guilty if he breaks up with his girlfriend because of you.. but.. I think that's the best thing you can do.. or you can just find another boy and try to forget that thing that you did with him. It's all up to you.. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
me and my boyfirend have been goin out for three months today he got me a ring for christmas do u think that is to early to be gettin somethin like that?
Is it an expensive ring? Well.. it doesn't really matter if it is or isn't..It's not too early..some people buy a very expensive jewelry for their partner because they really like them,, It's not too early.. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
me and my boyfriend have been goin out three months today we have been fightin alot in the past 2 weeks do u think thats bad?
Kinda bad.. but it's not a relationship without fighting.. like marriage,, have you ever seen your parents fighting? if yes, that's what happens in real life..there must be a problem.. at least.. A PROBLEM.. You should talk to your boyfriend.. hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
What do you do when you've liked a guy for a really long time and are finally dating and you decide that you don't want to date anymore, but then after you break up with him, you like him still and now your best friend is going out with him?
Age: 13
Gender: Female
OMG!! I can't believe this.. that is happening to me right now..I think you should tell him that you still like him..maybe he won't do anything about it..but it's okay..you can still be friends with him, right? But you know what I think? I think that he was so depressed, and so he asked another girl out to make him feels better..that's what I thought..Hope I helped because I really really want to help you!! And this is not a commercial..That thing is happening to me right now and I know how you feel..
-ViTaChaN-
ok well there is this kid I really like at school . And when I told Him he said he Might like me 2 ! and that he would tell me on monday ! well it is wedsday and i still have NO answer ! so what does that meaN !?!?!?!?! does he like me or not ! HELP !
If I were you, I would probably ask him like "So, have you decided yet?" And if he kinda looks like he doesn't know what I meant, I would just leave him alone n' say "never mind." And if he says so, there's a chance that he's too shy to tell you or he was just kidding bout the whole thing. But I think he does like you =D Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Well, I was just wondering about this because I was just thinking about it randomly, but in the state of Minnesota, would it be illegal, as an example of ages 'for a 14 y/o to do sexual things with an 11 y/o, and they both agree on it'???
Yes it would... If you're not 16 yet don't ever think to have sex.. it's not good for both sides.. you and other, especially if your parents don't know bout it.. so my answer is yes..it would be illegal! Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
i'm 13yrs.old and a girl. is it bad to feel.... well happy if a guy makes comments about your boobs and butt or touches it?
Not really! There's alot of other girls who actually want to have a girlfriend.. you know what I mean.. kinda sorta sounds crazy, but anyway.. it's not weird or anything.. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
okayy well i realllly like this guy for a while now. and we use to call and text everydayy. but then all of a sudden we just stopped, haven't text/called each in a week. and i don't just wanna all of a sudden text him out of nowhere. but when i see him at school i just melt! he's like into all that military stuff, and doesn't always have that nice looking face on. and i reallly wanna talk to him but i'm just wayyy to shy. and when we see each other at school we act like we're strangers. i'm wayy scared to go up to him for some reason! what should i do?! i've never liked anyone soo much!
I've been to that situation before. And what made me close to him is AIM. It sounds kinda dumb, but it's real. Do you have any AIM or any kinda instant messenger? Maybe it would work. But of course, there's another way.. I think you should overcome your shyness for a while. Just think that he's your best friend..At first you can say 'hi, how are you?'It's not a really hard thing to do, because I used to be so shy to this guy i knew, and I tried to think that, that guy's one of my bestfriends, and it actually worked. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
there is this guy that i love very much..but something is wrong..because i think my best boy bud hass fallen' inlove with me...what do i do?
Sorry for making you wait for a long time. Well, if your best friend doesn't make any move, like ask you out,etc.. You can't really do anything. My advice for you is to not tell your best friend about you liking that guy, because you can hurt your best friend's feelings easily. And the last thing you can do is to wait, who will make the move first, your best friend or that guy. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
okay well i really like this guy named andrew! and we are rlly good friends but i like him more then that. we were going to go out a couple of times but ended up not. well, i like him again and right now he has a girlfriend. soo should i tell him i like him or not? plz help i rate high! thnx... *megan
I don't think it would be a good idea to tell him that you like him. Because, first, he has a girlfriend, and second, you can ruin your friendship. But if you still want to tell him, go on, cause I'm just telling you my thoughts. Oo yea, and maybe, it would be a good idea if you tell him about your feelings after he breaks up with his girlfriend. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Ok, first off if you are reading this and you know your just going to put something everyones going to say, please stop. I really truely need help! Ok, my best friend, lets call her 'Kristina' and me are going out with these 2 guys, lets call them Drew and West....ok well i go out with 'Drew' and 'Kristina' is going out with West! wellll....are relationshiphs with them are very....serious! i mean we love them to death buttt....me and 'west' have been talking online and becoming really good friends! and now...i find myself thinking about him sometimes and thinking about if i was with him and ive also had like 2 dreams about us making out or being together or something like that! andd everytime i think about this i cry and get upset because i dont want this to happen....but i think it is! i really dont have a clue what to do....somebody seriously needs to help me! like please dont send a smart remark please please try and see things from my point of view! act like you were me! ....thanks so much!
This is a hard question. Well, if I were you, I would re-think and make sure who do I like more, Drew or West. Because sometimes you feel like you like someone more than your boyfriend, but then after you break up with your boyfriend, you'll regret it. So, I don't want that thing happen to you. I think you should re-think it again, and if you find out yourself loving West more than Drew, you should break up with Drew. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
My boyfriend sits by like all girls in most of his classes, and he always seems to be flirtin with them. It also doesnt help that they're prettier than me. I was wondering if it's normal to feel jealous about this, and if so what should i do? I already tried talking to him about it, and he just kind of blew the subject off saying 'o no we werent flirting', evne though it looked like him and the girls were. Help please!
Yes, it's so normal. You're his girlfriend, right? Hmm.. I think your boyfriend doesn't feel like he's flirting with other girl, or maybe he's trying to make you jealous. So, you should tell him that you don't really feel comfortable of the way he flirts/ talks to girl Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
ok so i have a boyfriend who i met online. he(20years old) lives in england and i(18) live in spring grove, pa,so as you can tell there is a distance problem. can a long distance relationship work?
thanks for any help,
jami
Of course it can! My dad n' mom used to had a long distance relationships. If you both love each other, everything can happen! But of course, you'll might have a little problem cause you met him oL and so.. You need to be careful about that. If you have time, please rate me.. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
we weren't friends at the time when she went out with him but then we became friends but I've known my crush longer than her ,me and my crush are really really close not in the touchy feeling way.like I trust him an he trusts me
Wow, I'm having the same thing, I'm going out with my bestfriend's ex. LoL. Some people think it's wrong, but I think it's so not wrong. I meant, your crush doesn't like your friend anymore, that's why they aren't going out, right? So, there's nothing to worry about.. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Would it be possible if a 14 yearold boy would like a 12 year old girl? She's sorta developed for her age. Or is it a waste of time?
Friend wanted to know
It's possible, everything is possible. It's not a waste of time. There's nothing wrong with a 14 years old boy likes 12 years old girl. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
I'm 15/f if that's gonna help. Today i met this really nice gurl at my school. She's really sweet, pretty, and alot more to me. I think i'm starting to like her but i'm not sure because i've only known her for like a day!!! And i dont know if she's bi or w/e. I'd kinda like to know before i start seeing her as anything more than a friend. Are there any ways to notice if she's interested??? I dont want to exactly ask her because she's new and all. But i still want to know. Any tips other than just ask her??? I'd appreciate ANYTHING!!! I'll rate ya high!!!
Well, you have to be her friend first. Cause, you know, you can't just like walk by and ask her 'Are you interested with me?' right? So, I think you should be her friend first. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
ok..i have this guy friend and he is really flirty towards me but i cant tell if he likes me or not..should i ask him if he likes me or should i get someone else to find out?((i like him))
thanks
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Ugh, if I were you, I will get someone else to find out. But, if you have those self-confidences, you should ask him!! You're not a shy person, right? So,, I think, you should ask him, but don't tell him that you like him. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-