Alright, well I liked this guy, lets call him Bob.
I liked Bob from like September.
He didn't like me at first but he started to, I can tell.
And we've had a thing for a while.
Nothing much, just hanging out like every weekend and stuff.
Well now, like I don't think I like him anymore because it's been like four and a half months and nothing has happened like he hasn't like asked me out yet.
But I think he was going to two weeks ago, when I was at a friends house.
Because he was like "Hey, we should talk about something."
And I said "I have to go to the bathroom, hold on"
And when I got back out, I said "It's getting pretty late, you should probably go so she doesn't get in trouble for having you over so late"
(It was like three in the morning)
And we didn't hang out last weekend.
So like I don't know what to do.
Because like when I'm not with him, I feel like I like him, but when I am around him, he just kinda bugs me.
But I don't know if he bugs me because I just want him to ask me, or if he annoys me.
How do I tell if I like him?
Or like what should I do if he does ask me out?
Should I just tell him like exactly what I said here?
I'm to scared to do that though.
I don't know.
If it is needed, 15/f.
"but when I am around him, he just kinda bugs me."
When anyone bugs you, you mostly get annoyed :p That is how it is with many people. And if it has been this long, and he hasn't said anything but he knows you want him to, it's safe.
But if you want to be sure, just close your eyes, yes, do it after you finished reading this, and imagine you two are going out and you two are together, seeing each other, and he is being him and notice all your feelings. Do you feel happy, or annoyed or bugged? If you are annoyed or bugged, I think you may know that it is just a crush or something...
And if he asks you out, just say that you do really like him, but you don't think it will work out. And tell him the truth, that is the greatest thing one can do in this world...^^ and just say whatever your heart feels
Hoped I helped, and good luck!
~Vera
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I've always had this thing for this guy, we'll call him Q. q was my BEST friend in 5th grade, but after that he didn't really give a shit about me in 6th and barely in 7th. And in 5th grade, he asked me out and he really liked me as did I but I don't know, I never really answered, and I wish I had said yes. I'm in 8th now, and he's in all my core classes, and I really feel like I'm falling hard. I feel sad now that it's break for me and I won't get to see him for a while, and I'm not allowed to hang with guys (or go out with them) but for him I'd definitely sneak a relationship because I'm liking him more than I've ever liked him before. But there's a problem.
I CANNOT ask him out, forget about it.
You see, Q is a total conformist, always with his friends, who are always obsessed with this girl, we'll call her D. D just recently left this group of used to be popular, slut/bitches, and joined my group of friends, and me and her are like absolutely tight. She's in all my classes too, and Q is always grabbing her and stuff, and she experiences this alot because
a) she's an idiot
b) shes done things with a 9th grader who takes advantage of her
c) shes so skinny and pretty and has awesome hair
Whenever Q obsesses over her, I get really jealous because she's so like, popular, and I really like Q and it makes me sad to think about it because he's chatted up a lot of girls online which makes him a total operator, except I really feel like he might like me, and he hasn't had a girlfriend since 6th grade, so I don't think he would take advantage of me because every guy knows I'm not an idiot. But what can I do to get him to notice me? I guess I have an okay body, but I'm trying to lose weight. What makes guys notice girls? Most people think I'm funny, I have a lot of friends, I'm outgoing, I'm relaxed, I don't get mad easily, I know how to have fun, I have a lot of friends, I'm tall, and have brown eyes and brown hair. I don't know what else to do because I always feel like we both know we like each other but he's probably too much of a conformist to ask me out. Everyone says I have a great personality that's hard to find in my town and I just don't know what to do! Should I work harder on getting a better body? I'm not the crazy flirting type. But what will catch his eye?
Ok,...this may sound rude of me, but hey, that's me. Why in the world do you want to go out with a man hoe? I know he may be amazing and whatnot, but a guy like that doesn't seem like someone people want to go out with.
Some guys (and I know this because I have many guy friends...and they tell me things like this, for some odd reason...XD) just don't like certain girls, and sometimes they don't like it when a girl tries too hard...but hey.
What you can do to get his eye (though I wouldn't try...sometimes that helps XD) is just say hey to him during your classes that you have together, and ask how his break was and what not. Just be cool, you know? Be yourself, if he doesn't like you, then screw him...
If you want to lose weight...to be healthy, then just drink a lot of water, eat healthy, eat fruits and veggies and maybe run 20 mins a day...oh! Pick up a 17 and Cosmo Girl! mag =D I can't remember which one, but one of them has a really good work out thing...and you can just turn on your music one day and just dance around, get your heart beat up. All that
Hope I helped, and I wish you luck! Remember, if a guy can't see how cool you are, then he just isn't worth it...
~Vera
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There's this guy at my church who's my age, let's call him "Mike" and I've had a little crush on him ever since I started going to this church, and it's been like 5 years now. And we're both 16. I know his grandmother and his mother, and I'm really close with them both, and they absolutely adore me. But me and Mike never really talked a lot until last year I had a bonfire at my house for the teens at our church. We talked a little, and we have little conversations every now and then. But I REALLY want to talk to him more, I just don't know how. And when we go back to the Teens Group during Service, I feel like he's always looking at me, and when I look over, I catch him. The thing is, he got a girlfriend a couple months ago, and she's 21! She's five years older than him! But idk what to do. Should I just let it go? My mom knows Mike, and she said that she always had a feeling that we would end up getting married or something. And we would look so perfect together. We both have brown eyes, and hair, same complexion, everything.
But what should I do? I find myself always thinking about him, and the other night I had a dream that we started dating, and I woke up with the BEST feeling in the world. Any advice on what I should do? And how I should strike up more conversations with him.
Thank you so much!
^^ Alright, I think I can help.
Well, ehre is a problem, he has a girl friend(Who, to me, is way to old for him...anyway). But even if he has a girl friend, doesn't mean you two can't get close!
Is he a guy that loves/likes sports? Talk to him about that, ask him what his favorite team is, talk about stuff like that.
Ask him what movies he has seen in the past couple weeks, if you have seen the ones he has, talk about them! And maybe tell him about a movie that you've seen, but he hasn't. If it is good, tell him and maybe say 'Hey, if you want, I'll go see it with you!(And this line, the one I'm about to type, only works if it is a good movie, or if you think it is) It such a good movie that I'll sit through it again' Or something like that.
If you two are close to each other and he and maybe a couple of people are having a convo about something, speak up! Say what you think!
Really, just start talking about something, and if everything is good, then everything will just start flowing really well.
I wish you the best of luck, and I hope I helped!
~Vera
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Like on "hey arnold"
Helga acts like she hates Arnold, even though she really loves him.
Theres this guy in which i have a long past with and a long story that i dont want to get into and his best friend told me thats his case.
That he wants me to think he hates me, just because of rumors spread about us.
He tells everyone that he doesnt like me at all, but he told his bestfriend he does like me and to ignore his act he puts on.
So should I really believe his friend?
Is that kind of situation even possible or is it just fairy tale material?
The answer is both. It can be true and it can be a fairy tale(Cause some guys like the play with girls minds to make us think that they like us when they really don't...gotta hate guys like that) You might want to believe his friend, and he is probably telling you that to see if you like him.
Also, it depends on the age(to me anyway) when we are little, like 5-12, most guys say that cause they are afraid to be teased by their friends(and they hit us...like, really hit us). And even as teenagers they are afraid of what their friends might say, and luckily, there are some friends of their's that will tell us and they won't make fun of him. If the friend is like the guy's best friend, you might want to believe him. If he is just a friend, you never know. I wish you the best of luck and I hoped I helped!
~Vera
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actually.. remove the might.. i definitely just hacked my crushs email. for the second time.
can someone please help me understand WHY im doing this? cause i really dont understand.. i know for a fact he doesnt get emails, i already know all his contacts,, so i dont understand why i keep hacking him? like im an idiot!
last time i spent 2 weeks crying because of it.
and now i did it again!
wtf is wrong with me??
i think i get a rush from doing bad things.. why is that? and how do i get rid of it? i really dont want to anymore..
please help, thx.
Alot of people get that rush for doing something bad...I'm one of those people, that just happens cause..well, I don't know, with good people it's a rush because most of their life they do mostly everything good, then they do something bad and it just feels good, But maybe you're doing it because he's your crush and you want to see if he likes you or something, and to get rid of it just say to yourself this is wrong, I shouldn't do this. And before you do it(or if you're about to do it) get up, and walk away from your computer and watch T.V or something. I hoped I helped
~Vera
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1. would you perfer a girl/male to make the 1st move & just like grab your head & kiss you OR you make the 1st move
2. how do you show your feelings towards a female/male [ like show them you like them ]
3. how do you become not shy [ like be open & show your feelings towards someone ]
4. what if you like someone, but you dont know them that well to hold a conversation, what do you talk about ?
5. how do you show your feelings towards someone that you arent sure likes you back ?
6. how do you know the person had enough with flirting. like when to stop ?
1. I would like the guy to make the first move...
2. Oo...I dunno, I just flirt some and then if I know they like me I just tell them that I like them and hope for the best
3. Oo...You just keep telling yourself "don't be shy, flirt! Have fun!" I guess...that is really a hard question to answer...seeing as I can be a little shy myself...
4. Talk about anything, Music, Life, How they are feeling, umm..their fav subject in school, things like that I guess
5. Flirt with them! Best why to figure out! but if the person you like is a flirt...you might need to ask one of their friends that is friends with you to see if they like you
6. I guess they stop flirting back.
Hoped I helped!
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Okay... Well there's this girl at school named Rachel. She's such a pretty, outgoing, and smart girl. We use to be friends but then when I shouted for her to come with me to our next class or else we'll get detention if were late. But what she said she heard me say that I called her a hoar. I didn't I tried apologizing to her and everything but she won't even look at me anymore. Or even talk to me anymore. Now their's this guy named Phillip became friends with her and with her other girl friends like their one big popular group. But today She actually looked happy to see me well at least I thought... I actually got to tell one of my jokes and she actually laughed and we had a blast for 5 minutes then it was over. Do you think she wants to be friends again or no??? What should I do???????????????????
Ok, if you want to be friends with her, or even try to get your friendship to a better level, apologize. It is the WORST thing in the world for a guy to call a girl a Whore, and maybe she does want to get your friendship back. You should go on with what your doing, but try to talk to her more, but don't seem like 'We've GOT to be friends' You lost the friendship, so it'll take awhile to get it back. I hoped I helped, if you need more advice from me message me, I'll be happy to help you out.
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I really like this guy and dont know if he likes me back but it seems as if he is giving me all the signs what do I do. I LOVE him real LOVE. HELP ME PLEASE
Umm..may I say one thing please? Us teenagers (or preteens) Don't know much about TRUE love...we know TONS about Teen love alright? Anyway, if he is giving you signs, go for it! Flirt with him back and if he flirts with you back, it says something! or it means the guy is a flirt! Anyway, maybe ask your friend to ask his friend to find out if he likes you! Hoped I helped
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im 14 im from england
i have been with my girl freind for quite some time now and normally when im with her we talk for hours upon end. now either im getting realy parranoid but for some reason now i just cant talk to her for hours upon end and i have no idea why. i no its weird but could some one please help me out.
Wow...this is kinda a hard thing to answer. Well, usually if that happens..you've run out of things to talk about, but seeing as you said that you can talk for hours I don't really think that is the case...but it could be. Maybe talk to your girl friend about it, ask her what she thinks. BUt if you don't want to do that, just sit down and really think about why your parranoid and why you can't talk to her. I hoped I helped
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ok so on friday i dumped my boy freind it was our 3 week i told him i was sorryy and i dont want to hurt him and all that corny stuff that just has to be said in a 13 yr old breakup [hehehe] he ended up dateing someone that SAMEDAY this made me very mad i dont know why it just did.how could he be over me that quick?so anyway that night i went to this dance with my friends kaycee and and chandra and jessica my ex was there aswell as his cousin who is my friend well since my friends are there friends aswell we were all hanging out it was great fun and i was feeling better untill his stupid newgirlfriend came then i got really mad and freaking out and every time they danced i left i couldnt satnd to watch them and then my friend kaycee saw his cousin makeing out with some random chick and since she like his him we all freaked out i went crazy on him even though i wasnt mad at him i was mad at my ex now my ex and his cousin are both mad at me and i have no clue what to do or why this thing with braedon[my ex] is bothering me help!!
I guess since your feeling mad and everything, maybe you still care about him. And since he moved on THAT quick...Too me, it seems like he is trying to get you jealous or something. If you want to get back together or something, talk to him. If you don't, enjoy the single life and you and you girlfriends go out and boy scout and party and stuff.I hoped I helped
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I'm really scared for my friend, she's going out with a guy who is like WAY older than her! SERIOUSLY OLDER by like, EIGHT or NINE years! well at least that's what she told me she might not REALLY be going out with him, she does lie a lot to get attention, but please i need advice to give 2 her
Ok now...8 or 9 years? Sounds like it's a lie! But...I know what your going through...trust me at that. A girl at my school does the same things as your friend. Tell your friend that she shouldn't be going out with an 8 or 9 year old guy! Cause she doesn't know what will happen! If she keeps saying she is seeing him, tell your mom. No...tell your mom now and then tell her. I wish you the best of luck!
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Alright, to make this simple, I'm in love with two guys as weird as it sounds. One of them is my first love ever, and the other is my second. My first love started back in seventh grade, and I'm in 10th now. The second just started this year. My first love wants to be together again so badly, and says he loves me back, but sometimes I don't believe it. We've been on and off since seventh grade also. No one wants me with my second love, including my family, but he loves me so much and I can tell. I think that maybe my first love thinks we're together right now, but a couple of days ago I had sex with the second love =/ I'm not sure what to do right now, and advice would be great. Thank you!
Maybe to choose the guy you want to go out with and stuff, make a list of pros and cons of each one. and then write down how you feel about both of them, the more pros and more feelings should be the guy you like. If it turns into a tie, or you just can't choose, step back and think hard if eithe rone of the guys is right for you!
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