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♥ ♥ Well my name is Alexis. I'm 14 and I live in Florida. I have alot of friends and many of them ask me for advice, so i decided to become part of the advicenators community. lol.... anyways.... i love watching and playing sports.~~~GUYS, are a number one priority for me!!! truness! lol. I've come accross alot of problems and i think i have made my way through them pretty well. now im out to help others... so ask me a question! ♥ ♥

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this kid is trying to set up a relationship between me and my crush! he recently asked my crush are you talking to her? and my crush said yeah! should i be happy he is setting us up? and what's the deal with the whole "talking" thing? (i don't get it)

signed,
Confused-n-in Love

he wants your crush to get to know you better... if he is talking to you more, it means that you are making some kind of a connection. I would definitly be happy that he is doing this for you unless you dont want to be in a relationship at the time... hope I helped ♥ Lexi

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ok well my question is a bit complicated, see im 15 years old and theres this guy I like hes 16. we grew up together ive known since ive been 4 years old and ive liked him. Ive always had a crush on him since 4 years ago..so 11 years. weve been best friends. well he found out i liked him and was gonna ask me out...i know this for a fact. well i go to meet him and theres some chick with him and its his new girlfriend...shes 14 and he said he wouldnt date a younger chick. his words to me were "i like you still but i like her more sorry...can we be friends?" then she comes over and starts kising him adn they start making out in front of me....and he keeps calling asking about friendship i keep ignoring the call or haning up...im so hurt..i mean 11 years! is longer than a chick he just met....i just dont get why i cant have a bf and keep one! what to do?
-advicegivers0601
(username on advicenators)

Maybe this guy isnt worth it... 11 years is a real long time but he broke a promise... you need to let their relationship take its course.. soon he will find out that the other girl is too imature for him. and he wil realize that he made a mistake because he had a chance with you but he blew it off... you need to listen to his story but if he acts like a complete ass hang up... hope I helped ♥ Lexi

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i can't stop thinking about him and he keeps talking to my best friend saying he likes me and wants me to wait! but i don't feel i can but yet i can't stop talking about him! when i talk, i cannot stop talking about him! what do i do?

signed,
confusedbutinlove

I hate it when guys say that they need you to wait... if he needs to to wait.. you dont need him, and if he is talking to yuor best friend it shows that he doesnt respect your feelings... hope I helped ♥ Lexi

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my crush knows i like him and stuff but he always is behind in his studies and stuff! lately he's been running to me for help! is this a good thing and if so how? and if not how?

signed,
Lost-n-Love

this is definitly a good thing... it shows that he wants to spend time with you and the fact that he wants you to help him is always good too... flirt a little and see what happens! hope I helped ♥ Lexi

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my friend has adrinking problem and maybe even a drug problem! do you think there might be a reason he is turning to drugs and alcohol? becuz he does get teased by many for the way he acts! and if so is there any way i can comfort him or help him out?!

signed,
Friends 'til the end

just because noone teases him doesnt mean that he isnt sad... maybe something is going on at home or with his close friends... maybe he just feels like he needs freedom. sit down and talk with him and let him know that you are there for him if he needs anything hope I helped ♥ Lexi

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whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?!

He might be jealous... maybe he has feelings for you or maybe he just wants to spend more time with you... he might feel alone when you are with other guys.. hope i helped ♥ Lexi

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my boyfriend said we were going to hangout today and he called me last night and told me hed call me today....well he hasnt called me or anything and its 3:30 already...i called him at 1:30 and his brother answered and said he was in the shower...and hed have him call me back...im mad because hes home and stuff and he hasnt even called me....its like...we only hangout if i call him....why doesnt he call me? but when were together its amazing....i love him alot...he said we'd do something today....=\

I wouldnt worry about it.. try calling him again... its been 3 hours and if you guys love each other and really connect he will want to talk to you... dont get stressed out.. everything will turn out ok ♥ Lexi

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My ex-bf and I started talking again online. Sure, we worked everything out. It still feels funny when talking to him though, especially if I still like him, and he has no idea. Well last night, I asked him wut he was doing online, he told me he was talking to people and "his" girl. At first I thought, "is he refering to me?", but then I was like no, he can't be, he has another girl in his life. Well I was babysitting today and i was watching 3 kids play outside in the front, and what do you know...my ex comes walking down the street (he lives in my neighborhood) with 2 girls. I pretended not to even notice him because, look at me, I'm a loser babysitting, and look at him hanging out with girls from MY school and MY classes. I KNEW he saw me because right when he was in front of my house his face was no where near the direction in looking at me. So my questions are,
1) Should I ask him what he meant by "his" girl? I don't wanna look nosy though...can there be a way to make it sounds "non-nosy??"
2)Why didn't he even bother to say hi, or call my name, even if I wasn't looking his way?
Thanks soooo much
and you'd never guess who'd be asking this question...yes, I am a person on advicenators who gives advice :)

ok he was trying way to hard to act cool infront of you, he probably wanted to show off. dont worry about it.. you can ask him whats going on with him and "his" other girl or girls... hope i helped ♥ Lexi

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when me and my bf fool around, it makes me feel so good...the slightest thing he does to me makes me orgasm..this turns him on...ALOT..and im beginning to think that hes using this to his agvantage..i dont really mind cause he deserves it too...im wondering whether or not to take it one step farther and have sex with him... everything else he does to me is wonderful, so why wouldnt sex be??? does anyone know if this is a good idea??

i have said alot that i think sex in a relationship is a good thing as long as you truely trust each other... and hey if it feels good why not? lol hope i helped ♥ Lexi

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i really like this guy and he likes me...we arent going out, but we flirt alot.. we go to the movies and we hookup alot..all our friends say we we should go out..but we never have..two days ago, my friend had a party and we snuck into her room and stated hooking up...he felt me up and ended up fingering me...yesterday i had my friends come over and i ended up giving him a hang job..is it ok that i have done all this stuff and that we havent gone out yet...

i think its fine as long as you trust each other you dont have to be going out to hook-up... if you guys like each other i dont think there is a problem ♥ Lexi

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Well, i like this kid. I told this other kid that was friends with him and he told him when i didnt want him to. But he thinks his friend was just lieing. He always flirts with me and acts like he likes me. Now hes going out with this other girl and i am very dissapointed. What should i do?
I am a girl, age 13

ive been in this situation.. let the relationship that he is in take its course... drop hints that you like him... sont hide it... and if he really does like you then he will com after you ♥ Lexi

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ok i just broke up with my ex-boyfriend..and i was going to ask him back out, but then i find out that he likes my best friend,a few days ago my best friend was like freaking out and was like what if he ask me out what if he tells me he likes me what should i say and so on. I was pretty upset bout it b/c she is my best frined and before i went out with my ex she used to liked him..so how do i know if she doesnt like him or how can i tell she is lying bout liking him..thanks and i hope this makes sence
-me

if this girl is you best friend it seems weird about the way she is acting about this.. you need to sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with her and tell her how you feel.. let her know that you are uncomfortable... and if that doesnt work, maybe you need to question your friendship ♥ Alex

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Can someone tell me what it means when this happens ? There is this guy that I like in my 4th period class ( I'm a freshman who just started high school and he's a junior , senior , or whatever . I know nothing about the guy except the he likes emo rock music , his name is Kyle , he hangs out with all the emo crowd at school , likes Chances Are , hates hardcore , and likes to draw ) But, he keeps looking at me . ( Maybe it's because I keep sneaking glances at him . But , he does look at me . I've seen him looking at me more than once in class ) But , one way I wore a pink bandanna in my hair ( I'm emo to . But , not in the older crowd because the emos at my school are mean . Emo means emotional . Like the guys wear tight girl pants , have high-lighted hair , kinda long hair , with longer bangs . They like music like Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional ) and the next day he had a black bandanna . Also , I started rolling up the bottoms of my pants of his pants and so did he like the next week afterward I did it .
And I think the funniest thing is when I showed up one day without my messanger bag and was just carrying around my binder . ( It was Friday ) Monday he showed up without his little messanger bag also .
I think he also knows where me and my friend Jestina like to walk around . Because one day he was half way across the school and then he walked back to our hang out spot . This seems kind of strange ....... Can anyone tell me what this means and if he likes me or not ? Also , what is a good way to talk to him ? I'm REALLY! shy and I talked to him 3 times ( making a fool of myself of course ) And he started this stuff ( IMPORTANT NOTE : after my so called "friend" told him that I liked him ) Now , hes kinda avoiding me which is kinda weird ... someone help me! Sorry this was kinda long ....
Ally

i think that you should go up to him and say hi one time in class, ask him how his day is going. dont go up with any of your friends though. if some have already ruined it and made him avoid you, i would do it by myself. there is no need to be shy. if you guys have the same style and listen to the same music then ask him what stores he likes or what new cds he has gotton lately.
hope i helped
xoxo

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Is it ok to not want to kiss your boyfriend? I mean, I do want to but not just yet, we've been going out for a week is that ok?

thats totally ok... you should wait until your ready. unless you really dont like him.
hope i helped
xoxo

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So i've been talkin to this guy for a month. We have pretty much talked everyday. Well we like each other but are still friends. Whenever we talk now though, it kinda seems boring. So what can i do to make our conversations more exciting?

ask him what he has been doing lately... what he is doing this weekend.. its a good way to get him to ask you to hang out!
hope i helped
-alexis-

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I'm a 15 F. This boy likes me .. almost all the girls that I've talked to like him or think hes cute. He's really shy though... He gets his friend(who is my friend too) to come up to me and say that he thinks I'm cute and ask me questions. All he's ever really said to me is hi or bye. I think it's really cute that he's shy and it shows that he's not rude or agressive like the other boys. Well the thing is.. I'm shy too and I dont know how to get a conversation going when he's with his group of friends and I'm with mine. Any ideas?

you should ask him how his day is going, ask him if he is doing anything this weekend, if he is busy then ask him if he wants to hang out next weekend. invite some friends. my friends always know how to start a good conversation
hope i helped
xoxo

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i am in love wit a guy that is 3 years older then me. is a big difference? well my parents dont want me talkin to him anymore. i talk him on the phone everyday. my parents think i should talkin to him perminently but i cant. i love this guy but i cant tell my parents that bc they think i am to young to have a bf. it is like i am 13 i should be able to have a bf. But they wont let me. what do u guyz think i should i really need ur help!!

I dont think that 3 years is that big of a difference. i think you need to talk to your parents and explain how you really feel about this guy. if they still dont approve you need to talk to your boyfriend and see how he feels about the situation. have your bf talk to your parents. maybe he can convince them that he really isnt that bad of a guy.

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One of my good friends is dating this guy, Erik, that I liked for 2 years, but she never new it. And so they been dating for 7 months, and Ive been a bit down latly. He just recently broken up with her, And he said he did it cause he wanted to go out with me cause he heard I liked him. But I don't wanna hurt my friend, beacause she's really down, and crying and all. I feel really bad, but on the other hand I really wanna go out with him. What should I do?

~Amberlynn

ask her for permission. tell your friend how you have felt for the past 2 years. if she is a good enough friend, she will understand. if you dont feel comfortable asking her... then wait till she is way over him and then get together with him. hope i helped.

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dear,,toxic xoxox i hav been a friend of yours for quite some times now and was wondering if u could help me out with the hugh situation..thanks..much love pimp..

im so sry about the whole situation with hugh the foo. i think you should leave him behind because i know that at first you were afraid, your were petrified. i know you relized you could live without hugh by your side

its ok. i got over cappalap the capricorn. just try to forget about hugh the wannabe boo's nonsense

i love thee

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arite i'm 15 i been goin out wit this boy for almost a month n knew him for like 2 1/2 or w/e cept it's online. he lives somewhat close n everything n he's my age-ish. he really wants to meet me cuz we have real strong feelings for each other, strong as they can get over the computer. i've seen his pic he aint seen mine but i told him everything i look like, eyes hair, and that i'm overweight. he said he doesnt care n he just wants to be wit the person he cares for this much. i'm a naturally shy person n i'm even more shy/scared now cuz i don't want to lose him. how do i meet him n not be shy or scared? shuld i trust that he doesnt care about looks? what do i doooo?

What I would do is ask him that its ok to bring a friend along the first time you meet. That way, it's safe and it will feel more comfortable for you and most likely more comfortable for him. After you meet him for the first time and decide that he really is worth trusting, go out with him alone.

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