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Q: i think i might have been fingered but i'm not sure if it was just touching. how do you know?also can you get anything from fingering/bjs

Uhm, I classify being 'fingered' as his finger...going in you. Just touching around you is exactly what it is...just touching. If his hands are clean you'll be fine.

Q: hey im kaitlin im 13 and i like this kid who is a year younger than me is that weird?

also.. one of his friends imed me the other day and hes like EW EW YOU LIKE ERIC ( the kid i liked ) and he goes on and says EW HES A YEAR YOUNGER THAN YOU!! and i was like i dont like him (which i do) and i was like getting mad and he was like im just kidding. but i m still kinda mad about that.

and also, i REALLY wanna let eric kno i like him without actually telling him. so do u know if there is anyway that i can like lead him on? i dont really want to make it that obviouse tho.

i am also scared people will think its weird for me liking someone younger than me.
help? =]

Its not wierd! I've dated guys that were younger than me before. You can tell one of your friends that is friends with him that you like him, then tell her to tell him that you like him....but tell her to make it seem like he wasnt supposed to know...act like it was a secret. Then get his number and talk to him more and more....you'll hook up eventually.

Q: 15/f.
I have never made out. I know its sad, im old! :P But whenever I just peck a guy he tries to stick his damn toungue in my mouth. And I back away like noo! I would love to just go and makeout with the world, but I am worried I will make a complete fool of myself and then like the guys will be like wow what a loser haha. I know it comes natural, but when I'm about to makeout with someone I just get all weirded out and freaked, even with a guy I am seriously attracted to! It makes me sad when I can't just go out and have fun and kiss the cute guy I'm hanging with haha! Plus I want to actually have a boyfriend, and when guys ask me out I turn them out, because its weird to date someone without making out or doing anything. My last boyfriend all we did was hug and peck haha. What would help me not be so nervous and just do it already?! Also, after I get the hang of that, say I'm in a relationship..well I am NOT giving it up to some guy I'm dating, thats for marriage. But will the guy like leave me if the only thing we do it makeout, like not even bj or hj or any of that stuff? I would think most guys would at least want more than kissing.. :/
Thanks so much sorry its long I appreciate everyones answers and for reading all this!

Well, there are guys like that, who think that if you're gonna makeout with him, you can do more. Let the guy know that you aren't ready for anything like that yet, if he's a good guy he'll understand, if he gets mad and breaks up with you, you can do better than him. I have a friend who didn't kiss or anything, she just hugged...and she's been with this guy for a while now and she gave him her first kiss...he isnt a virgin, but he loves her and he is willing to wait...thats what it means to be in a relationship.

You've got to tell them what you want, what you don't want...and if you're with the right guy, don't worry about the kiss or the sex....it will come to you perfectly.

Q: 13/f
well i saw this kid sitting alone and he looked like he was about to fall asleep so i went over and started talking to him and asked him if he wanted to sit with me and my friend destiny. he went over and we started talking then too. i found out he was my age. And we became friends and then the next day i was over at the restraunt
again ( public bar and grill for a private lake and i know everyone up there very well) and Jess is one of the waitresses and she hangout with me and my sister and she walks over and i told her to tell my sister to stop calling wyatt chicken. They were calling that cuz thats what his dad called him and they didnt know what his real name was and i said wyatt and then jess said ill get him up to come up here. when she left my sister about fell out of her chair laughing but i acually wanted him to come up but i didnt want him over phone. I just need to know why they made such a big deal about it and then before i left jess gave me his phone #. I dont know if i should call him or what? wouldnt that be weird since he didnt acually give it to me.
HELP!

Well you've got to take a chance. Just call him and tell him your friend gave you his number. You'll just keep wondering about it until you do.

Q: my boyfriend is kinda starting to act different towards me, but then sometimes he acts the same.
and the same is being sweet, caring, wanting me ect.
but then somtimes he acts like he doesnt wanna talk or something, idk. i cant explain it.

but can some one tell me why he would be acting like that?

I've went through the same thing with my boyfriend, and I was afraid that he might be cheating on me...then he'd come over and he'd be so sweet...and the next day he'd be....idk...'bleh'. One night I was tired of being upset because I didn't know what was wrong with him and he txtd me...and he knew something was wrong...I told him what it was, because we talk about everything, and ever since then he has been the way he was when we first started dating...give him a chance, talk to him...he might go back to normal...or he may stay the way he has been: "bleh"...if he stays like that, you might want to look into it.

Q: i've been talking to this guy all summer but we've said we love each other and we talked on the phone like everynight. but we have this mutual friend Greg and his girlfriend's name is Allison. and lately this guy has been talking to Allison more than me. i mean we're not dating so hes really not cheating on me and im not the jealous type but i just don't know what to do. i mean she has a boyfriend but im not sure Greg knows about it. what should i do??

15/f

Um I have one word for this guy... 'Player'.
It's not going to do you or this Allison any good to stick around with this guy...all he's going to do is turn you and Allison against one another, and then he'll make for breaking Allison and Greg up.

I know you might really like this guy, but this guy is definetly going to be hated by someone after everything ends. Don't let him hurt you, is all I'm going to say...

Q: So I've been dating this boy for a good 8 months.. It would've been 9 if he had waited a couple of days. And I think it's lame to ask questions on here, no offense, but I'm desperate. There's so much to the story, but to sum it all up, he broke up with me for another girl. I think he wants to go back out in the future.. And he said he couldn't be with me if he liked someone else. And I don't know, it's just so hard. I've been crying and crying because it took this breakup to realize that I was actually in love with him. And up until recently, he was too.

How do you get over someone you loved SO much? I don't even feel like getting out of the house and I don't wanna meet new people. I just want him back =/

I have had the same problem, but mine happened awhile back...my advice is:

Tell him how you feel...be strong and just tell him....
If he rejects you or tells you he doesn't want you yet....forget him. You don't need that. You need someone who always wants you...he's going to keep throwing you away because he knows you'll be there, all the time, waiting for him. Don't wait for a guy...never wait for a guy.

It might sting alot...but the hurt will fade as each day goes by, and one day...you'll find the guy I'm talking about, the one who never wants you to leave. I know because it happened to me and now Im fine and I love the boyfriend I have now more than I have ever loved anyone... So give my advice a try...relax a few days, ignore him...then go out and find yourself that one special guy...then the jerk who threw you to the side will see how happy you are and how unhappy he is and he'll be sorry.

Good Luck,
Hope I helped.

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My name is Jessica and I'm sixteen.

I like to draw and write, I'd like to be a novelist one day. I like to read as well.

I like giving others advice; Others always give me their advice, and I'd like to be one person many can turn to if they can find someone else to help them out....don't be afraid to ask me questions, I'll answer the best that I can.