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Hey,Im Taylor Mackenzie. So i recently got suspended because i was sharing this account with my fiance Justin. Now he has his own account. Im really good with sex questions. And im pretty good at giving advice on fashion and cosmetics. If you want to you can IM me im always on, dont be nervous. Im a pretty chill person. Ask me anything. Ill try and answer it for you and if i cant ill look it up. Hit me up.

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i had my belly button pierced. but then the ring fell out and i didnt notice it because i was shopping for a new one. but now i still want it pierced, how long do i wait and will it hurt or what?

anything about re piercing my belly button let me know please thank you!!!

Well about the getting it repierced go to the place you got it done and ask, after you get it done and its closed up you should be fine to get it done again. About it hurting it will hurt the same amount as the first time if not less because you already had it once.

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So I have a boyfriend and we've been together for almost 4 years. And we have a kid together. He had a bad anger problem so he went to a counselor and got medicine. But he still doesn't have a job. He'll only keep one for 1 week and then quit. He refuses to change a dirty diaper and mind you our daughter is now 1 year old. I feel unappreciated but I don't know if I should break up with him or not? Some days he's really sweet, and then hes totally not. Any advice?

Well i think that for your daughters sake you need to stay with him. But you have to let him know that it bothers you. You also need to push him more to get a job. He needs to step up to the plate. Think more for your daughter. And if all else fails leave him there is no reason you have to put up with it.

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So me and my boyfriend have been together for around 9 months, and he is 22 and I am 20.. I want to do something really special for him for no reason..what should I do that won't be over the top, but will be just perfect for us. He loves to drink and party, and we both have outrageous senses of humor, we also attend Baylor together..help! Thankss

Well you could cook him dinner and maybe light some candles of course get him a present and then just maybe make love.

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Ok so heres the thing. Im 20/f Bisexual. im caught between 2 girls. the first girl ive been w/ for a year and a half now. were technically not together but we live together and basically are but without the title. the second girl is both my and my current girls ex and is now one of our best friends. we all hang out together all the time. neither of them know but i really have strong feelings for the second girl still(both of our ex). sometimes i feel like she has feelings for me too bc like for example we'll all go to the club and shell dance w/ me but she liek grabs my sides real hard and everything and then like if were walkin out and shes behind me shell grab my hand and everything. i kinda try to show her sometimes that i have feelings for her in like little ways like grabbing her hand and squeezing it but i dont know if she realizes. and its not something i can just tell her w/ out my current girl finding out bc im pretty sure the other girl will tell her. i would love to be with this girl but i dont know how she feels about and shes not trustworthy at all. shes cheats on like everyone shes with. even if she did want to be w/ me im not sure if id be willing to give up the girl i have right now. i dunno im just really confused and i dont know what to do. i know this is a long confusing story but i would really appreciate any advice..
thanks!

My advice is that you shouldnt leave your current girlfriend because she treats you good so im assuming. This other girl could be a girl that you like and hook up with but she doesnt seems like girlfriend material. Im not bi and i guess i dont understand but i think that its like the same with males too. If shes going to cheat then dont do it because you are just going to end up hurt, while hurting your current girlfriend. Good luck hope this helps

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i have verizon and my boyfriend has t mobile
he lives in florida and i live in illinois
we talk everynight from aroud 9 and sometimes past two
yesterday we talked from around 2 to 430.
i know that is long distance. how much did that cost?

Im not really sure but i have a suggestion maybe for him if you guys dont want to really switch carriers. he could probably get a cheap prepayed phone so then you can have free verizon to verizon good luck

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I started dating this guy about a month ago. We met at a bar and hit it off right away. We just became exclusive this past weekend, and I was really happy.

Unfortunately, a bundle of shitty relationships has got me paranoid about everything in a relationship. I've dated many guys, but always hesitated when it came to having an actual boyfriend.

If he doesn't call, I assume that something is wrong. Not even about him dating other girls or whatever-- but more so, the fact that he could change his mind at any moment, and I'll be back to nothing. It's clear that we want each other, when we're with each other. But, any time in between I spend wondering why he's not calling, and if it's because I did something wrong and it gave him second thoughts.

I don't want to push him away, or sabotage the relationship like I have in the past. I like this guy a lot and I want to make the most out of it and not worry about what he's thinking all the time.

So to my question.. what is it that keeps a guy from waiting so long to make a call? If it takes more then a few hours, when is it okay to just call him? It feels new, and awkward. But it mostly feels like maybe we rushed into things since I'll still too uncomfortable with my security.


Help?

I completely understand ive had so many bad experiences before my fiance now. and as he can vouch i am definatly insecure. But you need to realize that maybe he is just busy. Maybe hes sleeping, maybe he is doing something important. I mean i know about being paranoid, but at the same time you may drive this guy away if your too needy. Maybe you just need to talk to him about it and discuss how your feeling about this. Communication is the best thing in a realationship. I mean you need to be able to talk to him about what you feel.

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well so there is this guy and i think i should slowly start to talk to him less. its rather complicated but i just dont kno if hes really that great a person and used to do bad stuff and i think he might just say what he thinks i want to hear. so ya i think it might be best if i closed off from him a little. but i really like the guy attention and having someone to talk to! i dont have a lot of friends here because i just moved here tho i do have some friends from when i used to live here but still. part of me wants to keep talking to him but the other part knows its best if i dont get really close to him. plus i dont want to lead him on because hes already kissed me but i told him that was a mistake an stuff and hes actually brought up us dating in the future and stuff. thanks! :)

While the attention is great its nice to feel like you have someone there for you, at the same time its horrible because he might do those bad things again and you might get hurt. you might want to consider a good friendship. Maybe you may want to talk to him about the things he did before. As for dating if its what you want and you feel its right then go for it. You have every right to feel good about yourself and if hes what makes you that way then go for it.

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hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he says he didnt invite them that they have a key and he doesnt even wanna b there with them we never really go out anymore we just sit at home and watch tv he says he is always romantic but i cant even remember the last time he was wat should i do to help our relationship

I feel that this situation is a really bad one. But next time he calls even if hes with his friends you should talk to him about it. Maybe the best thing to do is tell him that you guys should be friends until he can find time for you. But be cool and calm about it, no reason to loose your cool. You have to rely on how you feel now, when you guys havent talked and your asking for advice, compared to being head over heels you know there is something wrong, also dont neglect your friends through this. Guys come and go but your friends will always be there for you no matter what. You might not think its a good idea but it might be the best for you to just get up and move on? Good Luck i hope it helped

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I just cheat on my boyfriend. Not like sex or anything, i'm only 14. I kissed someone else today. We both went to hang out, knowing we liked each other, and ended up making out. I feel REALLY bad though. I mean, he's single so he doesn't care, but he kept saying "it isn't cheating since you don't even like your boyfriend". which is true, but my boyfriend is like in LOVE with me and I just can't bring myself to dump him. I don't know...I just feel really bad. And I'm always getting on to my best friend because she cheats on like all of her boyfriends. I feel like such a hippocrit...I don't know what to do. Help?

I feel that you need to tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him. It is wrong for you to continue your realationship as if nothing happened. Tell him how you feel abou thtis other person and about him. And when confronted with questions answer them with honesty. Whatever happens will happen. It will all work out in the end one way or anyother

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Whats the best way to ask a girl out?
Im really shy when it comes to asking.
Should i ask her to the movies, just me and her?

We both do mixed martial arts and wrestle.

Should i hang out with her a few times before i ask her to the movies on a date?

Any advice is welcome, thanks

Take her out on some "dates" before you actually ask her out. Ideas for some dates are like movies or an amusement park or maybe bring her to the ocean or somehting and when there is a sweet romantic moment maybe like when it gets dark or like theres a cute part of the night then you ask her once you find out if she likes you too. Good luck

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i have that problem where i don't express my feelings. not all feelings just upset. i don't show people that i'm upset. so. i have this guy who likes me a lot. we'll call him marvin. well marvin has asked me out a lot and he keeps wondering what my desision is. i keep telling him that i don't know. this other guy asked me out and we'll call him andrew. but i've been friends with him forever so i said no and he understands. but i think i like marvin but i can't make up my mind because i don't want to show my feelings. it's not that i don;t want to it't because i'm so used to hiding my feelings when i'm upset so i don't look like a wimp. so i don't know how i feel about this marvin guy. he;s really nice and funny. but maybe the fact that not a lot of people like him is part of it. some of my friends have dated him and they say he just bases relationships on public display of affection and when we break up he will make fun of me. he has done that to all of my friends but he swore that he liked me soo much and that he wouldn't do that if we broke up. i think i like him, i have one of my good friends giving me advice. he tells me a lot that helps. i know who i like but i don;t know if, why, and what for. i am really confused and i know whoever is reading this is probably really pissed of at this because it's so confusing and stuff. but i apologize. to help you help me i'll give you the main points.

1) I don't know if i should say yes to marvin
2) I don't know what i should do about this.
3) I don't know what, how, or how to express what i feel.
4) I'm desparate. any advice will help.
5) Thank you to whoever takes the time to answer.

I have a hard time expressing when im upset and stuff too. I act like nothings wrong. I thikn you should say yes to marvin, i think that you should tell him when something is wrong and i think that you should just say forget what other people think and do what you feel is right. I think that you should just talk to him about it maybe tell him over dinner or something sweet and if it turns out you dont want to be with him then maybe you should just tell him that and stop avoiding it. I hope this helped

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ok hes only 1 yeah older but still.
im scared hes going to want to kiss me and im scared cause i dont know how..im 13 and hes 14.
like how do i know if he wants to kiss me? and how do i kiss him. like, all the ways to kiss.
lol and please no links.


Thank ya!

Okay well this isnt a problem at all.. the key to any sexual encounter of any sort (including kissing) is doing what feels natural. This is very easy as long as your relaxed. Now he might guide you onto how to do this and in that case he might ask if you dont know how to kiss but it turns out okay. because if he really likes you or loves you he will be cool with fact that you dont know how to kiss. So you just open your mouth and put your tounge in and almost massage his tounge like an your licking an icecream cone. hopefully this helped

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Ok, so i'm married with kids. married for 8 years. i don't know why but one night i just went to check my husband's cell phone. there was a picture of a girl in there, very low cut shirt showing the bra. so a few other pics were just of her face and of her kids. i also saw he sent pics to her of our kids and even 2 pics of me. so i confront him about it and she happens to be his ex from more than 10 years ago. he says a mutual friend gave her my husband's number, which had to be true because now his calls show she was the first to call. he says he just wants a friendship with her and even told me he send her pics of me. but i told him it really bothers me because at one point in his life he loved her. and that a friendship is not possible. he says it is. oh and another thing is, that in his phone he put her number under his name, which right off the bat shows he's trying to hide it. she lives almost across the country so i know he's not sneaking out to see her, but he is definitely taking calls from her as well as calling her several times a day sometimes, even though it's never more than 5 minutes. when i asked him if he would talk to her in front of me he said no. because he doesn't have to talk to anyone in front of me because some conversations are private. i have been though cheating situations with boyfriends in the past, but i'm married now with his children and i dont' know if i should just give this some time and see where it leads..or i might just know already and not want to admit it. can anyone please let me know if you've been through the same or similar or just looking for some outside advice. thanks.

This is a very difficult situation. I feel that it is wrong of him to not want to talk to her in front of you. I mean i dont want to say anything to make you guys divorce but at the same time 8 years is a long time and my fiancee and i talk to everyone in front of each other. If he cant talk to you in front of people he shouldnt be talking to them at all. I think that he needs talk to her in front of you or not at all. Give it some more time see how it turns out. I hope that helps

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Its my b.fs birthday very soon! hes turning 20 and i dont need to know what to get him for his birthday, but what to do on his birthday, like date wise. Hes very sporty and loves baseball but theres no games going on in his birthday. I want to do something special and different. His parents are also gone on his birthday and he never gets a cake, so i was planning something with that. Thanks so much! anything and everything is appreciated. Guys i want ur answers too

A good thought is maybe bring him somewhere romantic. I mean you know a cruise or ferry ride can be very romantic. Or you could just make him dinner and then give him cake. Also you might want to look into dinner at a fancy resturant or a bubble bath and then cook or anything like that.
Good luck i hope it helped

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hii im a f/17 and i have been dating this guy on and off for about three years. i love him very much, and we feel that we will be together through out college. The thing is all we have done is make out, because i originally believed in abstinence. But now i really feel ready. Before we have sex, we want to have oral sex. I need to know how to give a blow job. Is there any website i can go to and learn how? Nothing pornish, but a demonstration would be great. thanks.

Im f/18 im engaged to my fiance who i dated for 4 years previously. For the first time actually a few nights ago i gave him one. you want to use your hands first, then maybe ask him if he wants it. Then all you need to do is put up your hair(if its long) he may grab this later, put your mouth over it as if it was an icepop. then move up and down slowly at first. then maybe you might want to move your tounge up it as you pull your head back, maybe you want to go to the top when you need to breathe and flick your tounge on the top. As long as it feels natural, dont stay let him push you down for a long time only until you feel comfortable. and remember only do it because you love him not because hes pressuring you. i hope it helped.

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