Hello everyone! I think I am a great Advice Giver! My friend thought that she was fat and started to not eat, I got really scared so I gave her some good advice about loving herself! Now she is healthy and loves me to death for the advice, all I can say to her is your welcome because it makes me feel awesome that I helped someone! So feel free to e-mail me about anything! I'd love to help! Please feel free to ask me about anything! I promise I can help! ~*!Brittany!*~
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Ok I kinda like these to guys who are in the grade below me. I mean when I'm away them.. it's just my flirt meter goes off! And like I'm jelious when other girls are around this one guy. Is it wrong to like a younger guy? Is it stupid to go out with a younger guy? (link)
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Its not wrong to like a younger guy....it matters what YOU like and not what everyone else likes! Be your own self and go for it! Go out with him! And its not stupid to go out with a younger guy....the only disadvantage would be is that they might nto be mature as the ones your age! But so what, take chances! Go out with him!
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I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boyz like me. My friend, Zoe, is beautiful, gets all the boyz, all the girlz wanna be her friend, and she gets like an I-POD and an electric gutair and stuff. But, anyway, I think I am nice, cool, quiet, all my friends even say so, so I just dont understand why no boyz like me. I think its just becuz I wear glasses and that hurts. What can I do to get a boy to like me?
I am 13 years old. (link)
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NO its NOT because of your glasses! i promise! its so funny becuase my cousin Brandi is SO pretty but she wears glasses! every guy likes her for her personality and it seems like you ahve a great one too! please dont feel like its your glasses! its not! and eventually the right guy will come along and like you for who you are! right now most guys are jerks, they just want to mess around with you, make out, etc,they dont really care about you....most of them but not all of them are like that!
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Ok, I've been thinking about dumping my boyfriend for one of my guy friends. I know they both really really like me, and I still want to be friends with my boyfriend that I have now. Anyone have any advice on a easy break up? (link)
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You defiently need to tell him the total truth! Guys really hate it when you tell them something cheesy like "its not you its me" ya know but you should defiently tell him your falling for his friend and if you think its right then go out with his guy friend! But hopefully your 'bf' and the guy friend dont get mad at each other!!
XoXo-Brittany-XoXo
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so today i asked a guy i really like to be my b/f and he said yes after keeping me in suspence for a few hours during the school day. hes really shy all the time so i asked him out. im afraid this relationship isnt gonna work out cuz he wont call or talk to me... should i give it some time to get comfy (if yes, how should i help him) or just tell him to forget it? (link)
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I definetly think you should give him some time to warm up to you! I mean they are ALWAYS shy at first haha then eventually they will come around! And to give him a heads-up about calling you, just tell him your phone number! maybe he will get the picture!
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For me my love life sucks. I have the most amazing friends, but i still wish I had someone to actually love.
My problem is that i dont know how to really get a guys attention. I am always told to be myself, and thats what guyslove the most. But, I do just that, and I seem to not be getting any feedback. Do I need to take my 'flirting level' up a bit? pleeease help me!!
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I used to hate it when girls say "just be yourself" because it didn't work on me either. I mean yes, be yourself but raise your flirting level up a bit like you said! If they show signs of getting mad, move to another guy because some guys get mad....!! Hope i helped!! ~*Britt*~
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i cant stand not having a boyfriend, i havnt had one in soo long and i feel like im so ugly i mean when i get one i wont obsess over him or kill myself when we break up, but like i feel like im ugly i mean i have blue eyes brown hair and im tan i dont sound pretty but why cant i get a boyfriend??? what are some ways i can??HELPP (link)
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You sound just like me!! I am 13 and I thought I was soo ugly! I am going to have a picture soon but you sound very pretty to me! I thought i was soo ugly but the guy down the street (Zack) is the coolest guy in school, i thought i could never get him. well we started hanging out and flirting ALOT! and i found out he liked me!! I was soo happy! but i think you should find a guy that you really like to be around and just be yourself and if you want... flirt! :) -Hope I helped!!! [G][O][O][D] [L][U][C][K][!][!]
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Lately my boyfriend is being very cold to me. He doesn't want to hug or hold me, he barelly calls. I try to be very affectionate with him but it hurts when you get no affection back. He constantly thinks that I am either lying or cheating on him, which I am doing neither. I love him very much and I want things to work out between us but I don't know what else to do to show him I am good to him. What should I do? (link)
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I think you should talk to him. Tell him that you love him and that you promise you are not cheating or lying to him. Talk to him about it...he should come around and get the idea that you love him! :)
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I am 13 and tottaly confused because all my friends say this guy... likes me. but i don't think so! how do i know! cause i really like him too! And everyone at our lunch table is like all you guys do is flirt! I don't think we do unless i'm just not paying attention to it or something! I don't know if he likes me.
~Confused~
HELP! (link)
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Ok, first of all he probably does like you. I don't think your friends would just pop up and say that you guys are flirting. My friends told me that a guy was flirting with me and i was like "no way" because it didn't seem like it but now we are together so, just wait and see if he asks you out, or, if you can't wait, then get your friends to ask him if he likes naybody. Then, if he says 'yes' get them to throw out ome girls names then mention your name!
~*!Brittany!*~
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How can i stop myself from being self-consious? (link)
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This Is Going To Be Kind Of Long!:
I have known so many people that are self consious! My friend used to be but I told her every day to think "Nobody in this world is perfect" and to love yourself as you are. You might run into somebody (or a friend) that you thought was perfect. Trust me, I still think my friend is perfect. But then I realized, she's not. I mean if you really think about it, like i said above, nobody's perfect and thats why God (sorry if your religion is different) made us all different. But even though were different, everyone, and I mean everyone, is beautiful! :)
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OK SEE I HAVE ONLY HAD LIKE 3 BOYFRIENDS BUT I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT I HAVE HAD A TON AND I HAVENT EVEM KISSED A GUY BUT MY FRIENDS THINK I HAVE MADE OUT WIT LIKE EVERY GUY I DATED WHATS WRONG WITH ME AM I LIKE A LIE AHOLIC? (link)
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Ok, maybe you just want people to think that you had lots of boyfriends and that you made out with them because you want attention. I don' think your lying. But tell your friends that truth and maybe you will get some stress off your shoulders! :)
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I have a HUGE crush on this guy at my church, but he HATES my guts. I actually think I love him, but I dont know why. What should I do?
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Wow..first of all, you don't sound like a girl to hate. Tell me why you think he said he hates you, then mail me back on here! I'm pretty sure he doesn't hate you! He's probably had some rough times in his life right now, maybe you could start off saying something nice to him like "I like your hair, or I like what your wearing!" :)
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Hey I am going out with this guy i like and then i have all these other guys i like and i want them to I really dont wanna break his heart cuz i love him to death But theres these other guys that i have been out with and they Like me and i like them to I love them what am i to do (link)
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I think you should stick with your boyfriend. You definetly dont want to break his heart or cheat on him. What if he finds out? That would make you feel bad. So stick with him and see how far that goes! :)
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Ok. So I have dated this guy since summer, and he's a really busy fellow. We'll call him Chris. Unfortunately, so am I. So we've had maybe a date a month on average. I like him. He "loves" me. I am scared to say I love him because I still think way too much about the last psycho control freak guy I dated. (It has got to be sex). He doesn't communicate well with me. Its hard to have a conversation about what I called him for in the first place. He is waiting until marriage to have sex. Its a little hard on me, but its nice not feeling pressured. Chris has a tendency to postpone dates for gigs or other reasons. I understand he needs to work, but give me a break.
Well, I am waffling and waffling. In the meantime, a really interesting fellow has "hit" my personal ad. I want to call him, but as of Sunday things are better with Chris.
So choice A: call new guy anyway.
choice B: don't call new guy
choice C: call new guy and tell him about Chris
choice D: get over yourself you silly brat (link)
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I think you should choose choice C because you can tell the guy about Chris and tell the new guy that maybe you could call him later and if things turn out great with Chris, then maybe you should stay with him. But if he gets to be the same as before, I'd try calling the new guy!
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Well, a guy named *John just asked me out a few days ago. I have liked him for a long time. We went out the other day and are planning on going out again. Now, I have no clue what to get John for Christmas or his birthday. He plays soccer although he's majourly obsssed with lacrosse. He also likes hockey. His 13th birthday is Christmas Eve. So, if you have any ideas, please tell me. I want to get him something that shows i put thought into it but isn't too serious. i was thinking of getting him a signed lacrosse ball but I don't know any famous lacrosse playeres. Does anyone know what would be a good present idea? (link)
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Well, if you are confused about to get him something socvcer or something lacrosse, then I would get him something Soccer and something Lacrosse! Then it would be a win-win situation! And I'm sure he will like whatever you get him!
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Ok, I still really like my ex boyfriend. But, he has a new gilfriend, that he supposedly really likes. *Rolls eyes* But, my friends and I have caught him SO many times staring at me while I walk in the halls at school. And I wrote my friend this hilarious note, and he read it and laughed. Like, a lot. But, he doesn't make any effort to talk to me or anything. My friends think he still has feelings for me, but he's with this other girl and he's afraid to pursue anything with me. My friends also think I should try making him jealous and "flaunt it". Any ideas on how to do that?
-Thanks. (link)
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I think that you should through hints at him. He's acting like he still has feelings for you, so take a chance! Talk to him and see how far that goes! Then mail me about whats next!
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i went out wit this boy 2 years ago and we broke up and everything. well his friend keeps telling me that he likes me and wanted to go back out wit me. well he acts like it i guess but i really dont know. it seems like he gets kinda scared to talk to me because he would only say "small talk" to me. but starting today i started liking him again and i dont know what to do. help me!!!! (link)
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I think that you should follow your heart. If you still like him, then say yes and maybe he will talk to you more!
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