I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about
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Hello, I am truly sorry that you are going through so much and your man has ditched you just before the marriage after three years. Let me tell that life don't stop there you are better that life goes on I hope that you tears have stop. I want to share something with you that an elderly lady once told me to do. I want you to try it too. First tell God the kind of man you want. write this Information in a letter describing the type of man you want be care of what you put in this letter of the type of man you are seeking you just might get it and not be happy. after you write this letter address it to yourself mail it. and when it come back DO not open put it a safe place. Remember that GOD sits high but looks low everyday. and if you need a friend please let me know I will be there for you and be a friend someone you can talk to share your feelings to.
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I’m 30 years old and with a guy almost for a year and a half, whose really a good guy with all the qualities that every girl ever wants, he treats me right, thoughtful, caring and wants my best, but i have my doubts not because of him, because of my ex that I’ve dated almost 5 months but still didn’t have the closure, because we parted in a terms that i didn’t understand a thing why we broke up, what were the reasons i still have alot of questions in my mind that keep eating me alive... it’s been 4 years we broke up and didn’t see each other since then, so recently i have this thought that i should talk to him to have the closure and move on with my life, but another thought is coming to me that i should just keep it in the past but im not getting that right.. so what should i do?? Should i talk to him even he’s engaged now,, he tried to contact me last month but because my boyfriend was near me i had to not return his call ..
Hi to answer your question it been 4 years and you ex is engage to be married I think that you should move own don't cause any problems in your own relationship the fact that he called and you didn't answer because you man was there you should have it could have been the closure that you need it this is still eating at you then call him let him know that you are happy that he is getting married even if you don't mean it. don't ruin your own relationship for nothing if you ex can move on so can you. If it really bothering you then call him so you can get the closure you need and want.
Good Luck
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I’m an 19 year old female dating a 21 year old male. For the sake of the site, we can refer to him as T. T and i have been together for 8 months. He treats me perfectly but become extremely uncomfortable in situations that have to do with his phone. He hides his phone at night from me and refuses to show me. I know this is bad but i’ve found his phone and looked through it while he was sleeping and didn’t find much. He constantly is reassuring me how much he loves me but he always gets so uncomfortable, secretive, protective etc if i ever bring up his phone. The only thing i found on his phone was brief snapchat’s of him asking for photos from a female who lives out of the city. When i somewhat hinted towards it he denied it. when i checked his phone he had deleted her off snapchat. He also has a really good friend (we’ll call her C) who he’s been best friends with for years. They message everyday and always try to make plans to hang out. I found out recently that they’ve had a sexual past. I know this is all over the place but i don’t know exactly what to ask. am i worried for no reason? and how should i bring up the things in his phone without telling him i went through it? is it bad to go through s/o phone?
Hello I think that sometimes it is bad to go through his phone you just may find something you don't want to see or read. if he is keeping his phone from you then there is a reason yes talk to him let him know that you did go through his phone and how you feel ask him if there is really something he don't want you to know or see. if he gets irate then ill start to worry if the love between the two of you is really real then don't push buttons that will cause confusions if he is hiding something you do have the right to know just don't go overboard Talk that the best you can ask for. If he is hiding anything about lady C you do need to know that's just what it is he shouldn't be so secretive hiding things from you. Remember what is done in the dark will come to the light be Patience.
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So apparently this guy that I like had a crush on me in the past (and might still? It was recent), but another girl is super forward about her crush on him, like leaning her head on him and stuff, etc. He usually looks pretty awkward but is still good friends with her. Him and I only recently finally started talking and texting each other. She's much more bold than me... it seems like he might be starting to like her. What do i do?? I used to be pretty cold (in order to hide I liked him), and recently started opening up a bit, and he is starting conversations and stuff now a lot more since then. But she is a lot closer to him and I don't know if he still likes/can like me again. Any tips on what to do? :')
First of all stop being shy you may be giving up a great man if you want him to notice you then tell him how would he now how you feel if you don't tell him besides little justures. Trust yourself give it a shot
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I was in the poultry department today and the nice looking guy behind the counter asked me what was I cooking, I said fried fish, spaghetti, mac n cheese and peach cobbler and he said oh that sounds good, and he said ill bring the wine...I just lol....was he making a move and my silly but was too silly to see that....
Could be just a joke don't take it seriously, you know it is we speak just to see a smile. know what if he meant it what would your answer be. are you Interested if not leave well enough alone.
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Should i break off my marraige of 7 years
My husband has a gambling problem and we are aleays broke
I met another man 2 months ago i love him but he is living with his sistet
I dont know if he loves me of is just looking for a place to stay
Im confused
Please help
you must decide what is right for you and your felling. If you are truly unhappy after 7 years and is continuing to be broke things you must decide on what is best for you. if you are really tied, fed-up, lost the love you once shared then something has to change. Why should either one of you be unhappy. a lot of people stay together for years and still not happy.
If he has a problem with gambling he need to get help I am sure there are more ways you can spend money other than gambling. He need to stop or get help not for you but for himself. even though there is another man now and you love him. hey, you want to be happy too It do not matter where he live, the question is he willing to give you the things you want and need, do he feel the same way as you. living with someone else should not stop the love. But ask him how do he really feel about you, ask yourself if he is truly the one and not there just for sex. ask he is there to stay to be there for you unconditionally. but remember don't give up the good for the bad: everyone has habits. some good, Some Bad!!!!
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26/f
Please read this thoroughly before responding.
I have been in a three-year relationship that has not been working for longer than a year. I struggled with being in a rut in the relationship and spoke to my boyfriend about it. By the time he was willing to change, my feelings were no longer the same. But because we live together, I stayed in the relationship for another year.
I got a new job and it does not pay AS NEARLY as I used to, I am struggling living where I am now. Living in a place with someone who I no longer love is not ideal, either. But I love my new job and I am back in graduate school. So, I need time, space, and money to do what I need to do.
I have two choices:
1) Move back home and save money. Pros are I can be closer with my sister (since she lives at home), be back at my favorite yoga studio, and I can save money. The Cons? I will be back with my domineering parents (my mom is extremely negative and it drains my mentality). Overall, it is a stressful environment and it is also a 30-minute, NOT in traffic drive, to my work and back.
2) Get a roommate. I would not be saving more than I am now, but at least I'm not in a negative household or living with someone I no longer love.
I told my boyfriend that I needed to save money and thought about getting a roommate. He did not understand why I would do that and told me he can lower my part of rent. He said it only makes sense that I would move back home so I wouldn't have to pay for anything. So I told him I was moving back home.
I can't be helped but be tempted/want to stay because our apartment is 10 minutes away from my work, he helps out with my pets, we never argue (I just don't want to be with him anymore), we travel together all the time, and my apartment is my safe-haven. But knowing myself, I don't want to be stuck in another relationship for ANOTHER year due to comfort and fear.
Yes, part of it is because I need to save money, but really I just can't be there anymore.
So here are my two questions:
1) What do you think I should do? Should I get a roommate or move back home?
2) What do you think my exit strategy should be when it comes to wanting to end a relationship (it's not a bad relationship)?
It hard to leave someone that you been with for so long but, you have to be happy and the fact that your boyfriend do not want to change that's his lost. It's like this: once the love is going it's gone. Tell him how you feel that you want more and that you cant live like this again, you can do bad by yourself. continue to work, finished school and make your mark if if he cant be with you too the very end then whats the reason he is there.
the saying is if it's meant for you, you will get back together. If you love a person you can love them enough to let go and be Happy.
Dont make yourself unhappy you have plenty of time to find that special one.
Good Luck
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