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I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 24. We just started dating about 3 months ago but recently started becoming more intimate. The thing is that when he fingers me he puts his actual fingers in and is kind of rough which I don't like. I'm definitely clitoral so I just like it rubbed. How can I let him know this without it being awkward or making it seem like I don't like when he puts his actual fingers in me especially so rough? I don't want to make him feel bad. (link)
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I don't want to tell you what you must do, you can do whatever you want to do, but your boyfriend wants to put something inside you, and right now it's his fingers. If you want to make things easy on everyone, next time you are together alone in front of the fireplace, trim your nails and then his like it's a cute game. Later, when you're making out on the couch and he reaches under the pajama shorts you are wearing, he will only feel the skimpiest thong you put on for the occasion, and you will stop him for just a second and present him a bottle of Astroglide, and he will love being able to slide his fingers inside and out of you, and you will love it because it won't hurt. And who knows, you might feel your boyfriends finger up your tight little butt hole if you're lucky. Get used to that lube and somebody will soon fuck your cherry away.
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My wife and I have been married for 7 years. When I met her she was very reserved and shy acting. Our sex life was good but she never wanted to deviate from normal foreplay and intercourse. I had told her that I had 5 sexual partners before I met her (including an ex wife). She never said anything about her past other than having sex at 17 and then having not dated for 3 years prior to when I met her. After we were married she told my brother at a party that during 1 year at college she had sex with 27 guys and that she was proud of it as she had used them for sex. When he told me I was shocked. I married a slut as far as I was concerned. She is very religious and plays the good Baptist part well. I have told her that I am having a hard time dealing with the fact that she had so many partners in such a short time, the average total partners for a wome of 39 is 7. She has had sex with over 35 total partners. I told her that I need some details about why she had sex with so many guys and the details of what happened. She says it is none of my business, but I now just think about all of these guys fucking my wife every which way. We have not had sex for 4 months now and it is driving me nuts. I just can't get excited about her. I wonder were these guys great at sex, did they have bigs dicks did she do things with them that she will not do with me.
What should I do? Am I wrong to have an open conversation about the details of her sex capades? She also says she does not remember any details, yeah right?
She seems happy to not have sex now. Now that she does not have to work and I earn over $300,000 a year. I ask her how she could fuck all those guys who gave her nothing and not me the guy who has given her everything?
Please help.
Jimbojoe (link)
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Jimbojoe,
Listen Jimbojoe, you are being a dick. She was a slut, and let's say she's a member of the club for life, so she's still a slut. She had sex with guys some of whom had bigger dicks, were better lovers, and who did things to her that she won't do again, even if she liked it. And you are also correct to assume you are correct about your wife being fucked every which way. Now you are asking for all of the details. I hope you understand why she is blowing you off, why she tells you it's none of your business. It's not right? You're hurting her. You boil it all down to money at the end, and whether you meant to or not it alludes to prostitution. She owes you more than the other guys because you've given her everything.
Being a slut is something to be proud of, it's a certain level of sexual expertise the rest of us are jealous of, obviously practice makes a difference in any pursuit and sluts get plenty of it. As a man who's fallen in love with a slut and didn't know the extent of partners your sweet darling really had, you must put the questions out of your mind, and realize that sex with a slut is nearly anything goes. So she has done everything nasty on the internet.
I say embrace it, embrace her, go buy her some sexy outfit at a sex store, a bunch of tie downs, and a big black dildo, and then give her what she wants, respect and a good fucking, that's what being a slut really means, and she's going to want to come again.
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