How can you advice me if i have a steady single boyfriend and still have a relationship with a married man. Please i need advice!
You are going to have to pick one. But the thing is you need to look at each realtionship. If you don't wanna be with your boyfriend then get rid of him cause taht ain't cool that you are cheating on him. The whole married thing is a little tricky. If he is gonnna leave his wife and like be with you and only you then u shuold kinda chill with it until he gets everything done. But if you are just a little something on the side for him then you should get out of that and be single and just have fun.
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I thought that my now ex-boyfriend didn't like me any more so i broke up with him but I still really liked him. Then I went to a party and he was there and we really didn't talk to eachother untill they played the first slow song and he came up and just grabbed my hand and pulled me to the dance floor and we started slow dancing. Then when that song was over i was just like okay... but then they played Alicia Keys "if i aint got u" and so we kept dancing and he looked me in the eyes and was like i still love you and i was like i love you too... and then everyone started counting down for the new year and before it was 12:00 he kissed me and was like "last kiss of 2004" and then when it turned 12:00 he kissed me and was like "and first kiss of 2005" and i felt like it was my first kiss all over again. But later when i talked to him he was like I think we should wait a while before we go back out because I always just come back to you... but the thing is that i really really love him and i want to get him back now... what should i do to show him how much i love him and for him to ask me back out... should i just ask him out? before i broke up with him we had been dating for 5 months... i don't know what to do I'm so confused
Well it sounds like that he still has feelings for you. But he asked you to wait which means that he is not totally sure if he wants to go back out with you. I know you really love him and everything but it seems like he needs a little time to work things out for himself and to be honest with you that is better for you. That may sound weird but if he has the time to think things over and is able to make the descision that he feels is in yours and his best interest. Sometimes when you go off the emotions of the moment bad things can happen. You told him that you love him and you know maybe dropping a few, be sparing with them, more of those around him at the right time will let him know that you love him and it can also help you with getting him back if that is infact what he wants also.
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I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help.
You may want to have sex with him but it sounds like you want to do it so he doesn't cheat on you and that is not a good reason to have sex with him. The diffrent state/long distance thing is a very sticky situation because you will both meet new people and sometimes feelings come up and things change plus you are 16 and you still have a long time in front of you. If you do end up doing it make sure you use a condom it will help reduce the risk of you gettin pregnant.
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I have alot of guy friends that are juniors and seniors and i have been asked to prom a few times....but see, im only a sophmore...Do you think its ok to go that young or should i wait and let it be more special?
You should go for sure. Everytime you go to prom it is going to be diffrent. Also you can think of it as a way for your prom to be more special because you can see what happens at the other ones and what you do and don't like so when your prom comes you can remember that stuff and make yours even better. Go for it have a good time and enjoy yourself!
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okay im sorta new at this and i really need help so anyone that can i need to know how farr is too far on a first date?
Too far is when you or your date do not feel comfortable doing what ever it is you are doing. It is a first date and the main thing is to go out and have fun and enjoy it. If you are thinking about what is too far and what you should and shouldn't do then that will take away from the date its self. Go with the flow and see what happens and if you get to a point that you feel is not good then back up and stay away from that point. But one thing to not do is go and get married that is for sure a TOO FAR on a firsat date.
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i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
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Ok first of all you are 14....u need to spend time with your friends. Boys are going to come and go. You need to keep your friends casue they will be there long after the boys are gone, that is what your dad is trying to tell you only he is doing it in a diffrent way. As far as dealin with your bf he needs to be able to except it and if he doesn't then maybe its time to get rid of him but only as a last resort. He has to let you live your life, he can't keep you bottled up cause that is not fair to you.
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i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help!
Do what ever makes you feel comfotable at the time. The whole friends thing can sometimes make the situation not right and you both may feel akward if you kiss him. If the situtation comes up go for it, a kiss at the movies is always nice
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Ive been dating a guy for a few days over a week, we've done sexual things and after each time when we talk on the phone he always asks me if i had an orgasm. He gets really turned on when i moan and i get really turned on when he says my name so we both usually try to do that for each other. Well when he asks me if i had an orgasm, i always ask him to, and we both kind of aviod the answer, i dont think either of us have ever, but should i just lie and say i did or what? how should i handle the answer to this question?
If you don't think that either of you have then you probably haven't. You can still have a great sexual experience and not have an ogasim. You should just be honest with him and tell him the truth. If you are wanting to have an orgasim with him then talk to him about it so that way he would be able to give you one.
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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...
IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?
Please answer, don't leave me in suspense!
I makes him a normal guy. The only thing that changes is that he is able to tell all his friends that he kissed a lesbian. But if she wasn't a pretty lesbian then you might be a lil worried about his taste in girls
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