My name is Sam. I'm a junior at SHS. I've been through alot and I have friends that have been through alot so I thought I'd make a good advice columnist. I like music.
Bands I suggest you look into are:
Steriogram
Lola Ray
NFG
Graham Colton Band
Transplants
The Von Bondeles
Hole
Auf Der Maur
Trapt
A Perfect Circle
Distillers
Poison the well
My Ruin
The Murder Dolls
and last but not least Full Blown Rose.
Yes. Music. It's a huge part of my life.
Gender: Female
Location: Connecticut
Occupation: Junior in High school
Age: 16
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Hey, I'm a female of 14 years old. My boyfriend dumped me 2 and a half months ago. I love him more then any thing and I just can't get over him. My best friend likes him too and says she likes him just as much as I do... which is hard to believe because she just recently started REALLY hanging out with him. He seems like he likes her too, but I've asked him countless times and every time he's said no. What I'm getting at is if he does like her and if he does decide to ask her out, what do I do? I love him more then any thing and to see them together and happy would kill me. I know I should be happy for them if they do decide to take it to the next level but I don't think thats possible. What do I do? How do I go along with this? How can I get over him? Thank you in advance!! (link)
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I know how you feel about not being able to get over a boyfriend and a friend wanting to hook up with him afterwards. My b/f of 2 months dumped me and four hours later started going out with my best friend who had previously dated him for about 2 weeks. I would suggest telling your friend that you understand that she likes him and all but right now it really hurts you that he might like her and you're not ready to see him move on. She should understand. If not though, talk to him. Tell him the same. Tell him that even though your friend likes him that you're just not ready to see him move on. Say that you'd rather see him alone for another week or two. Also say that this decision isn't completely selfish. You think that the two of them spending more time together outside of the "couple" situation would strengthen their relationship and show what their true feelings are.
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okay so im 13 goin out with this boy 13 aswell. ive been goin out with him for about a week and i just broke the news to my mom that im dating him. well this is really the first time i told my mom about n e of my boyfriends and she took it fine. its just that i dont knoe how to ask her if i can go out on a date with him. i mean i dont really even have n e ideas for a date. it doesnt even have to b one on one it could just b a trip to the mall or a local foot ball game but its weird i dont knoe how to talk to my mom about these kinds of things. please help me out and give me maybe an idea for a date (parent aprovel) and a way to ask my mom and dad if i can go threw with the date.
thnx ill apreciate it (link)
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If you're going out with him and your Mom doesn't have a problem with it I think that a first date should be going out with a bunch of friends. Go roller blading or to some place public with alot of people around. And go with friends so you have someone to talk to when your boy goes to get a drink or to the bathroom or something. Make sure your friends don't mind a co-op date as well. And if you have friends in relationships, a whole bunch of you should go on your date. Like a multi-date. It'd be fun. Hope this helped you out.
-Sam
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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl.... (link)
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It's perfectly fine for older people to date younger. I dated a freshman my sophomore year in high school. I'm a Junior now. I think there's no reason why you shouldn't go for him if you like him and he likes you.
(By the way. This is my 50th question answered so Congrats. You made my #50. Lol)
.::.Sam.::.
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There`s this guy I like. I`ve known him for a couple years, just never talked much. Now he`s talking to me a lot more & stuff & he`s in one of my classes. How do I like start convesations & stuyff. I feel so stupid asking this. *blushes* (link)
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Talk to him about common stuff, what you're doing in class, movies, new music, stuff you know he's in to. Be nice and talk to him as much as you can about different stuff.
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During the summer I met one of my sister's boyfriend's friend.I met him once,I went to his house with them.His name is Stevan and he would IM me and we'd talk about different things just life in gernal{{sp??}}Yeah well one day he told me he was going to his dad's house and he doesn't get on much so I should call him.Well i didn't want to becuase I never talked to him on the phone so I thought it would be weird ya know?Well I did call.And I called everynight during the summer.We'd always flirt and stuff you know the normal.I started to like him and I told him.Then he told me he likes me.Well at the end of summer we kinda stopped talking but he's still the only guy I think about.Well I went to his house on Sat.He had his arm around me and stuff and was holding me tight.Well we kissed.And then it lead to making out.And when everyone was out of the room he kinda not fully but a lil on top of me and we made out.Well he hasn't asked me out. =-/ so what should I wait for him to ask me out{{which makes me crazy and I cry everyday....}}..Idk what to do....sorry it's long but it's my life.I'm 13 and female. (link)
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If he likes you that much too why don't YOU just ask HIM out? It's not like an unwritten rule for girls to never ask out guys cause it's their job. In fact it takes alot of the pressure off of them to always have to do the asking so he'll be relieved. And if you do ask and he says no then you two weren't meant to be anyways so don't sweat it.
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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering. (link)
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I like guys who can tell me what games are the best and how to get my computer out of trouble. (I needed that like two months ago. The blue screen of death blew my hard drive. Lol) I think you just need to find a girl who appreciates video games and computer stuff as much as you do.
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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....
what do I do..
and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me? (link)
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If you know him because of a cousin's friend then ask if it's possibly convenient to come over when he's there. That way his best friend will be there and if he turns out to be a creep then you can just spend the rest of the time with you cousin and his friend. Whatever you do, do NOT allow him to come to your house first. Meet him at a mutual friend's house where there are people around. And you sending a picture of yourself to him isn't a bad thing. It doesn't really make a difference.
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I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal? (link)
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Yes that's perfectly normal. I have alot of friends who haven't had boyfriends solely because they don't want one. But if you want one and still haven't had one because of one reason or another, get out there and make yourself available. Talk to boys, they're gross and weird some times but they're really okay once you get to know their other sides.
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okay, this guy likes me, i mean really really likes me, and i am crazy fro him too, and we have a history. but anyways. he told my friend he really really likes me (we are a big group of friends...lol) and that he doesnt want to give me the impression he doesnt liek me cuz he does. but he's not ready for a relationship right now. but when he's ready he'll ask me out. and i think that i know why he isnt ready, and it's cuz of my freind (now ex-freind) who caused him to break up with me once and and then flirted around with him, just cuz she liked the attention, she didnt care a thing about him, and he ask her out and she laughed in his face and told him no. so, yeah, i think that may be why. but i dont know
so my questions are what does he mean by he's not ready for a relationship and what shoudl i do abotu what my friend did, cuz it realyl makes me mad that she would play with his head like that (even tho it was like a yr ago.)
any one have any ideas?
I RATE!!! (link)
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This happened to me recently. The whole thing about how the guy you really like but he doesn't want a relationship is exactly what I went through with my last boyfriend. I liked him for 3 months before we ended up going out and we made it for almost 2 months. Just wait it out. Talk to him all the time. Make sure there are situations that you two can hang out and you can show him that you aren't pressuring him. It works, I swear. My,now, ex-boyfriend Tom waited for 2 months to ask me out because he wasn't ready. I waited and he asked me out. So just show him what a fun, interesting person you are and do not ask him when he's going to ask you out. That will show him that you're impatient.
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can you make a guy love you?! and if so..what kinda stuff can you do?! (link)
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I'm sorry hun but you can't make anyone love you. You can try your best to make them see what is so special about you and to cherish you the way you cherish them. That's really the only thing that you can do to help a person fall in love with you. There is no way to ensure love. And even if this person falls in love with you it may not be what you envisioned. So make sure you weigh the pros and cons.
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