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Is there anyway i cant turn my boyfriend on though we don't do any of that dirty stuff i'm not into it and i find my self far too young im 15 =/ all we do is kiss and pash (french kiss) is there anyway =S
wait can or cant?
i suppose ill answer if you want to turn him on, and not do anything sexual.
whisper sweet things in his ear. i know this may sound corney, but it works. guys like that. they do, they like the softness of a girls voice and plus it gets you close to your guy! :]
well, i have this ex boyfriend that i had for three years, so obviously we still talk, we broke up about a month ago. and i am going to try to start dating again, it's going to be hard, but i want to do it.
well there's this boy that i have feelings for, he wants to start dating soon . but the thing is : if me and this boy do start dating , do i tell my ex boyfriend? i mean wouldn't it be best if he found out from me so that he didn't get upset , or should i let him find out himself?
13/f
wow. 13. geesh. you dated since you were 10. hmm.. interesting
.. well honestly why does it matter if you tell your ex. even if you are friends, your not together anymore and its non of his buisness. do what makes you happy.
Okay so I have a really big butt and like medium size boobs do guys like girls with big butts or do they like the no figure little twigs? 15/f
honestly, a big butt is amazing. it fills the jeans SOOOO much better!! :] alot of guys DO NOT like girls that are extremly skinny, mostly because alot of them OVERTAN and think they look amazing when in reality they look stupid.
Its nice having meat on your bones, you look healthy and happy.
a big butt is a good thing, show it off! once your in college.. guys will flock all over you for that! skinny-mini is NOT in!
how do i kiss??????
It will just happen. Watch disney movies. Even cinderella kisses.
my frend wants a bf and asks me to help her find 1. i dont want to help her. how should i tell her?
tell her straight up that its not up to you to find her a bf. its her own problem! tell her that your too busy and you dont mind hanging out with her and her new guy to see how he is..but you dont want to find one for her.
Okay, I am really confused!! A lot of guys at my school always talk to each other about how they are SO in love with me. But not one of them has asked me out at all during the whole year. And in class, all they do is gawk at me. I don't get it!
you prolly intimadate them! talk to them..make friends with them. dont act all goody-too shoe around them! have fun with it..and make friends with them. go over and talk to them first :)
so i just flat out asked my bf what he wanted for his bday..he said "nothing, thanks" so i dont know, are they like girls that play that "dont get me anything" game or what? lemme know what you think. thanks!
get him a watch :) so then he can never be late..
make him food. guys LOVE food.
make him a scrapbook of pictures of you. thats always cute
i made ryan a pillow and on it i had all of our memories on it. they were listed in a felt-tip marker. which was awesome! haha.. but it looked cool and it was from the heart. bring him out to dinner. pamper him, give him a back massage :)
ok theres this boy Nick, and i really really love him and he broke up with me today, and now he likes my best friend who hates him...i really want him back. how do i get him back?
well..obviously he didnt 'love' you. im sure you'll get over it in a few days. hes not worth it if hes gunna dump you and try to go for your best friend. that sounds like an asswhole thing to do. there are plenty of guys out there. look for the one that will give you the time of day and love you back, not your best friend.
I am 14/m and extremly confused right now...There are two girls that I am very close with, they are practically twins (not by looks- intrests, thoughts, etc.) I have strong feelings for both of them. They both are extremly pretty, funny, smart, the works. The problem is I think one ,~Tara~, is starting to flirt with me while the other,*Laura*, has for almost a week.
Should I confront them about this? Or should I wait it out, or what?
Thanks to anyone who can help...
Signed,
Confused
Personally.. are they twins.. like sisters? if they are. dont go for either of them because of jeliousy and fights may occur. but i think you should wait it out and see how you feel about each of them. give it a few days and get to know both of them. look beyond their looks and how funny or smart they are. see if you like what they like..if you have common intrests. if you enjoy spending time with them.,
im 16 im living with my boyfriend i know im (young its complicated)I was kind of pressured into having sex with my boyfriend i did say yes at the start but then changed my mind and told him i wernt ready he ignored me and carried on i tried to push him off he was to strong i started crying wen it was finished in the morning he acted like nothing was wrong and brought me a cuppa tea in the bed. was i raped? or am i just being a baby? what should i do
sounds like it was.. really, you should bring it up and say something to him about it :( im so sorry to hear that hun.
Me and my bf have been going out 4 three months he just found out something bad about a family member and its been making him really angry. I understand how he feels but he takes all of his anger out on me! Last nite he was being such a jerk we almost broke up he tells me he loves me all the time but idk if its true. im only 14 but how can i talk to him without bringing up anything thats going to hurt him?
tell him like it is! 14 is still young..
so just tell him that you dont like how he takes out all his anger on you. your not there for that!
tell him that its not cool for him to be like that to you.. and if he needs to let out anger - he needs to talk to the source of the problem.
Hey, well my current boyfriend is my first kiss and everything, and I'm nto really sure if im a great kisser or not. If someone could give me some tips on making out that would b awesome!!! I normally follow his lead but i think i wanna surprise him with something of my own for once lol :p
you cant be bad at kissing.. unless your like licking his forehead when your suppose to be kissing his lips. just pucker up and make it up while you go along!
ok so my boyfriend of 3 months just brokeup with me. He said he needed a break and needed some time to hang with the boys because when we were going out he was very commited to me and hung out with me almost more than his friends. so after only a day of his "break" he asked me out and said he was too in love to do this. well he brokeup with me the next day and once agian just said he nneded a break. but he promised we would be togehter agian because " were meant to be" he says. so what i dont understand is if he loves me why hes putting us through this and what can i do to not think of him n help him get through his break faster? sorry its so long thanks!
well, sounds like your a little too controlling missy! (sorry to say) you should let him hang out with the guys and have fun with the guys, and be away from you. dont make him choose between you or the guys. screw it! ive been with my bf ryan for 2 years now and at first i was like no hang with me.. now im like.. please take him away! haha - seriously, let him have a life other then you. so then he can have you, his love, and his boys in his life :) even hang with him and the guys a few times :)
eight months ago i met this adorable guy, i mean he is perfect. he is like the type of guy where you can be his girlfriend and still tell him EVERYTHING. anyway we were together when i went up there for a couple days then i had to leave. well its been eight months since i have last seen him.. he told me last month that when i go up there to see him and my other friends he just wants to be friends. well im kind of over him but i still have these mixed feelings like, he makes me really happy! he is the best guy ever.. its like when im with him im myself and he doesnt care who i am ya know? but hes really hard to figure out.. how do i know when hes flirting and how should i flirt back? also, is there any advice you guys can give me on this?
eight months without seeing him? i bet he cheated on you.. or flirted with other girls.. if you hadnt seen him.
personally, go up as friends. flirt and do stuff all you want. just dont have any strings attached. if you dont get to see him alot just have him as a really good friend you like..and cuddle with adn flirt with. thats always fine!:)
I really really like this guy named Mitch and he's just the nicest guy I've ever met before. He used to be friends with my older sister. He's been telling me he likes me, and like on aim always makes those kissing faces. Problem is; he's 21! I'm only 15. I know it's a huge difference and it's illegal. I really don't know where to go from now. I tell him I like him back, but I really want to date him, I'm just really not sure of how to tell him that. Any suggestions?
* if you think me dating a 21 year old is bad, please tell me, i'd like to hear other perspectives, too! thanks. =)
personally, i DO NOT agree with that one bit. (but its your life not mine) even though girls mature faster then guys.. guys are perv's from the moment they come out of their mothers woumb!! haha - but i wouldnt go for it. im sure your parents would agree and id feel quite weird going out with someone my sisters age! haha! also, those kissy faces are nothing. aim is just a place to TYPE out feelings if he really likes you hed call and tell you with his voice..not his fingers.
but seriously. reconsider and look for someone your age :) there are tons of hotties out there!
So I went out with some friends and they played spin the bottle and I was dared to kiss this kid. I was so effing afraid to though, Im such a prude. even my best friend (whos a guy) had to kiss this girl and he did and I thought he was the same as me. I really wanted to, but im so afraid somethings going to go wrong. Anyone ever have this problem that could give me some advice? rate you for anything...seriously...
So your problem is that you were afraid to kiss the guy? Im kinda confussed on this.
Um.. even though you were playing the game - dont let peer pressure get the best of you. if you really dont want to do it then dont. tell them you dont feel comfortable and sit out and watch then suggest to play something diffrent. they'll get the hint
((sorry if thats not the answer you were looking for, i was kinda confussed with the question))
So this kid Robert and I were "talking" for a while, but now he goes out with Emily, who's my friend. And Robert still calls me. And he always talks about how stuff Emily does annoys him. And he always calls and we end up talkin about Emily and how he doesn't wanna call her. And he gets mad at me when I don't talk to him at school and stuff, but he says he doesn't like me.. It confuses me... HELP!!!!
ive already answered this
anyone have some romantic things I could do for my boy that he would like?
uMm.. sex? haha head. hand... haha
So this kid Robert and I were "talking" for a while, but now he goes out with Emily, who's my friend. And Robert still calls me. And he always talks about how stuff Emily does annoys him. And he always calls and we end up talkin about Emily and how he doesn't wanna call her. And he gets mad at me when I don't talk to him at school and stuff, but he says he doesn't like me.. It confuses me... HELP!!!!
well this guy is confussing! first off id tell him to kind of back off. even if you may like him, hes with your friend. then tell him why you may not talk to him alot in school.. mostly because hes taken and you dont want to make her mad! (DUH! darn guys! haha) but when he calls next ask him why he doesnt call her.. shes his girlfriend, and if he doesnt enjoy talking to her on the phone then he should really reconsider the relationship because talking is a HUGE part of it :)
Hey. I'm in 8th grade.
There's this guy I kind of like. I got to know him this year, and he's been pretty nice. We've had our ups and downs, however. For example, he started ignoring me a couple of months ago for no reason whatsoever. Yesterday, he started being nice again though, and he emailed me. Well today I got another email from him, in which he asked me out to prom. The thing is, he's asked out around 4 or 5 other girls, who are going with other people or by themselves. The result is that I don't feel like I'm his first choice, because I'm not.
My question is, should I say yes?
Thanks a lot.
Personally.. 8th grade is VERY young to go to prom. i think you should tell him no. personally id feel like 'what am i your last resort?' so i think you should say no.