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my frend wants a bf and asks me to help her find 1. i dont want to help her. how should i tell her?
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Well don't be TOO harsh on her. You're still her friend, don't forget that. Just explain to her that you're not really up for playing cupid. Tell her, the right guy will come some day. Trying to go out and search for him will just end up in disappointment. He will come when he comes and she should worry about other things instead. Trying to find a boyfriend as opposed to waiting for when he shows up is bad because most likely she'll just end up more desperate than before. It's best to let life take its course.
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Tell her that its no one should get someone to get a bf for her. if she was really ready for one, she would get one herself, or a boy would come to her.
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tell her straight up that its not up to you to find her a bf. its her own problem! tell her that your too busy and you dont mind hanging out with her and her new guy to see how he is..but you dont want to find one for her.
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just tell her you dont want to help her because you think it will better if she finds her own boyfriend. let her know that by picking out her own boyfriend she is more likely to actually like him a lot and get along with him better!
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Hey let her know that when the time is right you will have a guy floating your way...and let her know that nothing is more horrible then being hooked up with a person you dont like right? hope i helped Take Care =) x3 SweetStar.
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