Howdy my name is Shelby, and I am seventeen years old. Im blonde blue eyed and really short. I am great at giving advice, because I have had to take so much of it. I will answer ANY questions you need me to answer. I can give teens better advice than anybody. So come on ask me for some advice, Ill help you! =]]]]
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Location: Texas
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 17
Member Since: March 19, 2009
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Hi, im 16/f
i know theres cute things guys do for girls every now and then to make them feel good like flowers or sweet notes and stuff. but what can a girl do thats cute for a guy? just to show she loves him
if it helps my bf is 15, captain of the varsity football and lacrosse team. have been dating for 6 months. thanx! (link)
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Hmm... What I did for my guy, I got a bag of Hersheys kisses and I spelt out I LOVE YOU in the kisses. I also bought him a little balloon that said I love you on it. And also a cup with his favorite football teams logo on it. Well I layed it out on his bed and when he walked in he was like so grateful for it...
This may work for you.
Goodluck
Shelby
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16/m
Hi well my problem is that I can't ever keep a relationship going every time we breek up within the few weeks or days I can't ever be happy, the other week I asked a girl out I thought we were doing well I was doing everything living it up enjoying my time with her, berly a week and she broke up with me... Why would this happen to me everytime especially this time I really like her I did everything differnt yet I failed, I was once told that I'm the type of guy who usually in those chick flicks gets the girl in the end I never believed it but now I think I'm beginning to understand it, it meant for me to last with a girl I would have had to been through a breakup with her meaning that this would be our second time going out, sounds dumb but I'm willing to try it, the one thing that scares me is that if she don't like me I'm going to end up waiting for years just for nothing,
When I asked why? she told me it was because she was confused and did not know if she liked me the same way as I like her, I gave her a letter and a drawing and a hug and a kiss before I walked away
I don't know what to do (link)
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Hey guy!
I have met a lot of guys in your situation.
They're so sweet but in the end they are "TOO" sweet. Girls want a guy that isn't afraid to show his feelings, but also wants a guy that plays hard to get.
Im going to be very blunt with you. You can't keep a girl either because you are way too clingy or you are way to sensitive or maybe too feminine.
When you had said that you gave her a "drawing,kiss and a hug." I know that if some guy would have drawn me something it would've kinda thrown me off. It's sweet but its just not something a guy would do.
What you need to do is get some manly guy friends and learn how they handle it with a chick.
Then go from there.
Goodluck,
Shelby
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Okay so I'm 14 and my boyfriend is too. And I absolutely love him ! He makes me so happy and I never felt this way about a guy before. Like he's the first guy I lasted half a year with and I'm planning to stay with him longer. But we promised each other to stay together forever but I'm just scared that it won't last. I mean everything is perfect and we did have several arguments but we came through. But does forever really happen? I'm the type of girl who can stay faithful to a guy for a long time. And he is too but do you think forever is ever going to happen? (link)
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It's hard to tell, because guys aren't always the most faithful. Hope is all you need. Maybe your guy is a better than most, but I wouldn't get your hopes up if it doesn't last "forever".
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my best guy friend i think he likes me
but i dont know cuase he has a girlfirend and stuff
but he always wants to be arouind me and all
and he calls me his BEST friend
and tells me he loves me like every 5 minutes
but then he talks about his girlfriend kinda alot
and stuff
and whenever i come to talk about a boy he jus goes "lol" or " ok " or something like that
like idont know what do you guys thiink?
is it possible he may like his girlfriend and me at the same time?? (link)
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Definitly! But don't misconstrude the situation, he may find only a friend in you, because you're the girl he can tell everything to and you'll understand and he can't always go to his girlfriend or his guyfriends because he doesn't think they would understand as much.
But guys are kind of mysterious, I would suggest asking him if he does. That way you can clear the water.
Goodluck
Shelby
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Hey!
So yesterday i randomly friend requested this guy who is friends with my guy friend because i thought he was really cute lol and he seemed familiar. turns out we know eachother through some people and I have met him like once (but i dont really remember haha)
anyways we talked over messaging for like 2 hours and he seems really cool. I know this is a stretch but i maybe want to possibly go to prom with him or see if something happens (i know this probablly wont happen im not getting my hopes up) but i dont know if i should message him again tonight or wait? or how i should approach this? (link)
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I think you should just send him a friendly but flirty message. Just say like hey whats up? or something, then as you talk more with this conversation say hey we should hangout sometime.
This should work
Goodluck
Shelby
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Ok. So im Around an age where About all the kids at my middle school have already amde out. Well im the only person that hasnt. I feel so stupid. I mean i know my bf wants to but i seriously dont know how! If someone could atleast explian to me How. I mean I know thres tounge and Stuff. Ha(; Thansk! (link)
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Hahaha, oh those days I remember. Girl it is absolutely amazing. There's not really a way to explain how. Other than that you start just kissing his lips and then start using your tongue (kinda like you're going to like a lollipop) LOL. Now every now and then you're prolly going to get mixed signals with the guy, but don't be embarassed it happens. It will more then likely come to you when you get there.
Now remember just use your lips then your tongue.
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okey so theres this guys at my sschool and i liked him for a long time. & i told my friend who then told him but then i told the kid that i didnt like him. then i started to not like him, i dont know why. but i stopped. now that i stopped and he knows i dont like him anymore, he is talking to me more & like today he like stepped in front of me quickly to scare me. & im really confused b/c i thought he didnt like me. but at the beginning of the year he liked me i think b/c he flirted w/ me..... or at least it seemed like it so maybe he didnt like me. but my question is, i want him to like me. so how can i do it? i cant text him b/c when i do, he barely texts back in a way i can reply. bad texter i think. what flirty things can i do that send him a flirty message but dont straight out say "i like you!"? thanks.
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Smile at him A LOT!!! Send him notes, etc. If that doesn't work, just get the courage to tell him you like him.
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So theres this guy I recently met from my biblestudy group.
When I first met him he was really cute and was always looking at me,
But whenever I catch him he looks away.
When the group was over, He started talking to me, and asked me for my number, so I gave it to him and he texted me that very night.
I texted him back and we talked for a bit, he asked me if I was going to group next week and I told him I was, and he said great.
So I saw him yesterday at the group, and again he was always smiling at me, and when we went around to pray (pray circle)he stod right behind me, tapped my shoulder and kept trying to make me laugh. which he did. He gave me playful pushes and when we were outside, talked to me quiet a bit. after it ended he texted me somtime after, then told me he had to tell me somthing, and I asked what, he said He thought I was 'really' cute. (whats up with the lines? 'really'?)
and that he really wanted to tell me that. he gets irritated if I dont text him back right away and is like, fine iggnore me :(
and I'm like.. I just texted you back.
and he's like no i was just kidding..
I told him he must attract all the other girls and he said no he doesnt,
(but he could be lying.) but he said I must, and That I would have got his attention.. I dont know, Maybe hes just a player.
I dont know if he just started talking to me beacuse I was paying attention to this other guy whenever we go and he's always trying to get my attention.. is it beacuse he likes me, or do players do this all the time? PLEAASEE HELP ! (link)
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He's no player, it just seems he might be obsessed. Just watch for it girl, if you keep me posted on how he acts towards you I will be able to help you with this more and more
Shelby
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now i was dating this guy it dident work out so i talk to his brother is that a hoe so me and the brother has a good relationshop he wants to have a baby but the brothr i use to talk to is telling him lies and he's believing it and when i call he tells him im some one else and when he tells him this he believes now this is hearting me please tell me what to do im 17 years old and female airiel (link)
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Girl you are way too young to be having kids.
I recomend getting out of the relationship, FAST! Believe me, Im 17 years old too and ive got my whole life ahead of me to have kids. So forget this loser family (brothers) and move on to someone else.
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Theres dis guy he said he loved me we was hangin out everyday for like a month then he stoped talkin to me he called me like 3 days ago which was the first time in like 3 months he did dis stuff b4 we would get close then he would stop talkin to me then he would get a gf then when he broke up wit her he would call me im in love wit him should i keep talkin to him it hurts every time he does it makes me cry wat should i do Thanks 4 any advice (link)
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Im so sorry to say this but, he doesn't really love you. Like most guys if he's not interested in being with you more like getting with you, he's just looking to you to be his booty call. I would advise you to stop talking to him all together and find yourself a guy that will, care for you not your looks or your hook ups. You'll find a new guy, just give it time.
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what do i do if my boyfriend brother i use to talk to is trying to break us up telling himm lies and telling me lies please help im 17 and female (link)
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Hey girl.
I know exactly what you're going through.
But the most I can tell you is to talk to his brother about why he is doing this to you and your boyfriend. Also talk to your boyfriend about it, tell him the truth about everything. It's hard in this type of situation, because guys usually tend to choose family over girls.
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