Theres dis guy he said he loved me we was hangin out everyday for like a month then he stoped talkin to me he called me like 3 days ago which was the first time in like 3 months he did dis stuff b4 we would get close then he would stop talkin to me then he would get a gf then when he broke up wit her he would call me im in love wit him should i keep talkin to him it hurts every time he does it makes me cry wat should i do Thanks 4 any advice
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? meghan_saunders31 answered Friday March 20 2009, 4:20 pm: i have had this exact same thing happen to me. I still love this boy but eventually all of this hot and cold business just became to much and i called him out on it. He told me he loved me and i do think he does but we both ended it on a loving as friends situation. Honestly, you should talk to him about it and really tell him how you feel when he stops talking to you and then comes back when he's ended it with a girlfriend. If you want a relationship with this boy i would advise against it but you can still be friends and when you get everything out in the air with him and you know exactly where you guys stand together, you can start to go out and look for new boys and trust me, you'll feel soo much better [ meghan_saunders31's advice column | Ask meghan_saunders31 A Question ]
NikkiD answered Friday March 20 2009, 12:44 am: Sorry my dear but no he doesn't. He didn't love the other girls either. He's just having fun! Guys will say they love you just to keep you chasing after them and keep you from messing with someone else because then you might actually have a man treat you right and then you will have no time for him. Honestly he's got you locked up 2 where he knows he can say he loves you w/out any regard to your feelings and still go out basically slutting around.Why would he change his game plan? Guys like that don't have any idea of what they want out of their own life let alone a relationship. When a man loves you not only will he profess it to you and any1 that will listen but also try and protect you, make sure no1 hurts you and provide for you even if its just a trip to the store. Or him giving you the last of the fries because your still hungry. But really is this the way you want to be loved? I don't think so and I'm betting that you deserve better. He will not treat you the way you want unless you teach him! Next couple times he calls you don't answer him! Then see how he starts acting! Try it! Much Love! [ NikkiD's advice column | Ask NikkiD A Question ]
ShelbyGirl15 answered Thursday March 19 2009, 5:45 pm: Im so sorry to say this but, he doesn't really love you. Like most guys if he's not interested in being with you more like getting with you, he's just looking to you to be his booty call. I would advise you to stop talking to him all together and find yourself a guy that will, care for you not your looks or your hook ups. You'll find a new guy, just give it time. [ ShelbyGirl15's advice column | Ask ShelbyGirl15 A Question ]
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