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Does he like me or is he just a player?
So theres this guy I recently met from my biblestudy group.
When I first met him he was really cute and was always looking at me,
But whenever I catch him he looks away.
When the group was over, He started talking to me, and asked me for my number, so I gave it to him and he texted me that very night.
I texted him back and we talked for a bit, he asked me if I was going to group next week and I told him I was, and he said great.
So I saw him yesterday at the group, and again he was always smiling at me, and when we went around to pray (pray circle)he stod right behind me, tapped my shoulder and kept trying to make me laugh. which he did. He gave me playful pushes and when we were outside, talked to me quiet a bit. after it ended he texted me somtime after, then told me he had to tell me somthing, and I asked what, he said He thought I was 'really' cute. (whats up with the lines? 'really'?)
and that he really wanted to tell me that. he gets irritated if I dont text him back right away and is like, fine iggnore me :(
and I'm like.. I just texted you back.
and he's like no i was just kidding..
I told him he must attract all the other girls and he said no he doesnt,
(but he could be lying.) but he said I must, and That I would have got his attention.. I dont know, Maybe hes just a player.
I dont know if he just started talking to me beacuse I was paying attention to this other guy whenever we go and he's always trying to get my attention.. is it beacuse he likes me, or do players do this all the time? PLEAASEE HELP !
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Sounds like he is just a guy trying to get your attention. I wouldn't consider him a player at this point. It sounds like he just doesn't have a lot of experience talking to girls.
Politely let him know right now that you may not always text him back right away. You have a life away from the phone too. Thats the only thing that is a little worrisome. You may want to deliberately not answer right away a few times and see if he gets over it. Its probably just eagerness on his part. He's excited you are talking to him and everything.
The definition of a player is one who actively seeks out sexual partners and carries on a number of sexual affairs at the same time. So long as he isn't talking like he is after a sex partner, just assume he likes you and wants to get to know you. :)
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I can tell by your question you've been hurt by some1 b4 and also that he's diggin you. Now how to find out if he's a player, watch his interactions with other girls in the group and watch how they react 2 him. If he seems a little 2 close to one of them, he could be. But honestly you won't find out if he's a player until you hang out with him outside church group and spend more time talking 2 him. If he is he's gonna try and hide it. So its all about if you're willig to spend the time trying to find out.
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He's no player, it just seems he might be obsessed. Just watch for it girl, if you keep me posted on how he acts towards you I will be able to help you with this more and more
Shelby
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