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When its over
16/f
I've been friends with this boy for almost 4 months. Its got complictated to the point where he tells me he loves me and we talked all the time on the phone and through texts and everything and we were both really close. Suddenly, about a month ago he says he wanted a break, not just from me, but from everyone he said. I told him that he could cause i just wanted everything to be back to normal but he ended up not taking the break because he said that "he couldnt not talk to me", upon hearing this i got extremly happy. But, ever since this time things have not been the same. I havent talked to him on the phone like we used to and he doesnt really text me at all...I usually text him in the morning to say good morning and we will talk a little before school and usually he would text me after he was done school because his school got out later than me. He stopped doing that so i just text him before bed to say goodnight and he will say goodnight i love you.
My brother just left for afghanistan during the midst of all this and he knows ive been upset and he would usually call me and make it better but he stopped doing that and ive tried to ask him if something was wrong but he always says that nothing has changed between us when obvisously something has.
My question now is should i try to keep talking to him about it or is this the point at which i say its over?
Help please, I'm really confused. I dont want to lose him but its really making me upset
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I would say talk to him
Now this may seem bad, but the relationship seems to be going down, and unless you talk to him about it, you're going to break up anyway.
So give it a try with the talking. Because this relationship seem like it could be saved, however it's not going to have a chance if you just suck up your feelings and deal with it within yourself.
Best Of Luck, TheseFewPresidents
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I think you should end it and find a new guy.
There are many guys out there, he may be talking to other girls.
Shelby
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